Hello ladies I am married, and I am not looking to change that situation. I have my wife's permission to be here. She is totally fine with me having fun on the side. I have a loving relationship that isn't as physical as it used to be. I am sure if you've been in a relationship you can understand. If you can't, that's your problem, not mine. Please spare me your puritan mores. No disrespect, but I can't understand why someone would come to a site like this to find a potential husband or wife. It's called Adult Friend Finder, is that too hard to understand? There are plenty of romance and dating sites out there. Having said that, I am definitely open to making friends and learning about you. Making you laugh , sharing great moments. Cherishing the time we spend together and treating you with dignity and respect. The most important sexual organ is our mind. Sorry ladies if you are looking for baby elephant truck for a penis. Please spare me your shallowness and selfishness, there's plenty of it in this world. Let's have fun in the bedroom.

My Ideal Person I have no ideal person, because love like art is infinite and it brings the world together. I don't care about your age, race, body type. Having a sense of humor would be great. Patience is a virtue. If desire makes you feel guilty or shameful please don't make it my problem, by asking me to conform to some bullshit in the hope you will feel better.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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