Married and in a sexless relationship. Youngest not due to head off to university until October 2019 at the earliest. Partner is aware that I am trying to maintain a sex life. Open about going off for daytime and evening meets. Even a long weekend. If you are still reading then you will be a rare per indeed. Some experience of non-vanilla fun but still a lot to learn. Human. I have my strengths and weakness, likes, dislikes, and passions. Take the time to get to know me, chat, exchange ideas and interests. I am keen to spend time with people who are relaxed about sex and realise what fun it can be when shared with friends. Interested in hearing from women aged 42+ in the South Lincolnshire area or adjacent counties who fancy mutual fun. I am retired so I can be flexible on times but prefer daytime. I can rarely accommodate but there are always hotels or out door fun if we decide to organise that. I am also interested in experiencing swinging clubs. If there is a nature lady who is curious then perhaps we can keep each other company on this new road. I prefer to find one per with whom I get on. I am not looking for notches on the bed post. A mature male who enjoys the playful adult side of life. Vanilla and non-vanilla fun is enjoyed. I am able to be dominant and lead if that is wanted. I enjoy sharing time with other couples both socially and for adult fun. I am not shy but don't tend to be the boisterous life and soul of the party or rush in like an Alpha male. I am more reflective and thoughtful.

My Ideal Person A mature woman who enjoys sex, has the room and time to have a friendship as well. You will have an open attitude to people and sex, finding it easy to chat about all things and not form quick judgements but instead ask questions and clarify things. Given that I am not a tall man you would tend to be of a similar height (in or out of heels). A curvy woman is welcome as the curves of time add character; though if you want me to pick you up then you might need to be of a lighter build. You will enjoy dressing to please having an eye to the effect your lingerie has.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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