Update: I am no longer a paying member, so I have found if I hot list someone, I'm able to message them. So if you see I hotlisted you and it is unwanted, I do apologize. I just wanted to look at your profile to see if there might be a connection. Male half looking for a friend, 420 friendly is fine. You know, a real friend. Someone who wants to chat with you more than once. Someone who is comfortable just hanging out and enjoying the porch swing and having a cold one….your poison.without it always being about sex. Oh, now don’t get me wrong, I’m no choir boy. I love sex as much as the next person. I just think that out of all the members AFF claims to be here, there has got to be one person who is somewhat like me; just looking for someone to become friends with. I’ve been on here long enough that I’ve had tons of guys say how dead this site is…a bunch of window shoppers. Well I’ve met some pretty cool people on here, so I am the optimistic type. Thank you for reading this, and have a blessed day. P.S. I'm free most weekends and would like to get some meet and greet parties started. Nothing big, just a nice comfortable atmosphere. And also, I am not the type person that is going to click on every profile and send them a message. I have heard too many times, "no single males" or something like that, so I may click on a profile, but I won't send a message. I don't want to be like most. Instead, I would hope if you see I looked, and peak your interest, please send a flirt, message, or a friend request...anything to give me a hint, and I will write without question. I am no phony or flake like so many here are, and I always meet. I have plenty of free time these days, and would love to get to know the real people on here PLEASE NOTE:...I have come to realize not all members want messages, winks and network invitations. I respect that , so if you see I looked at your profile and after looking at mine you think you want to meet a cool, laid back and down to earth person just send me a wink or friend invite please to let me know you are interested. I would love to chat with you and see where things could lead.

My Ideal Person I am always shaved smooth in the right places.I work in the medical field, and love to please, orally speaking. I am looking to meet those who have similar interests. Looks aren't important as long as you are real! Life is short, and I have no time for liars, phonies, and fakes. I am looking more for quality in the people I meet, rather than quantity. I am looking for clean, discrete, and non-pushy people. Someone who enjoys pleasing the person they are with, as much as the pleasure they are receiving. I respect other peoples feelings, limits and boundaries , and all I ask is you respect mine too. The ideal lady would be someone who would like to join me in meeting others as a couple.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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