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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b
Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.
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Just as an FYI
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Posted:Sep 5, 2008 5:09 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 2:6 am
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Looking back over just the last year or so... Carol plays an average of just over once a week. She has played as many times as 4 times in one week so you can see there are often time spans that last for 2 or 3 weeks between encounters. As I mentioned in a previous blog entry... it is ALL about timing. The more times you attempt to contact her, the better your chances. The more she connects to you on personality during the phone chat... the better your chances.
Also... about married guys cheating. She MUCH prefers that you come out and just admit it. She doesn't really like to assist a man in cheating but at the same time... she KNOWS your going to with her help or not. And, I suppose it is a matter of raltionalization... She's SURE that if your wife or girl friend had a CHOICE... she would prefer that you do your dabbling with someone like Carol who has NO INTEREST AT ALL in taking her man away form her.
To be honest... by far, our biggest problem with guys who are attached is that they have limited control on their availability. At the last minute... as you are heading out the door to meet us... Honey Do THIS or Honey Do THAT and all of a sudden, we have a no-show or at best, a late cancellation that leaves us scrambling to find a replacement and far too often... there is no one around.
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Posted:Sep 5, 2008 5:00 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 2:6 am
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There are some poll questions in this blog... been kinda surprised how few people have opted to take them. The poll doesn't identify who you are however it would be VERY nice if you sent us a comment or email telling us what you selected and WHY.
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Weekend on the horizon
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Posted:Sep 5, 2008 4:58 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2008 4:34 am
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Along with Tropical Stirm Hanna it seems.
Carol has plans with an old friend this coming saturday. He has been with her more times than anyone short of me...  Maybe someday, he will even surpass that!
Some more background about us... What normally happens around here is that we get contacted via email and Yahoo Messenger probably several times a day. This tends to produce perhaps 10 phone calls to Carol during a week's time. Since we have been in the lifestyle and active in this area for quite some time, about half the phone calls are new and the rest are guys she has already been with.
I try to encourage the guys that contact us to try to be a little more subtle than just telling her how big their dicks are and how bad they want to pound her 'right now'.
Carol makes almost all of her decisions to meet (with new guys) based on how her chats go when she talks to them on the phone. If a guy calls and expects her to just swoon because he called and doesn't put effort into getting her to laugh and have an active conversation with her... he is pretty mush pissing in the wind. The 'competition' for her time is too great Guys that are too laid back, and don't engage her might as well forget it.
Also, she can barely keep up with answering the calls that come in. You should NEVER expect to just tell her to call YOU when she gets a free moment because she rarely does.
If you don't actively pursue that first meeting yourself by calling her, it is highly unlikely to happen.
A couple of other points I want to make... the real truth is, that timing is by far the most important factor. She works varied hours, she is never able to schedule past the coming Friday. She got her schedule last night for Saturday the 6th through Friday the 12th. Since she has virtually assured plans with an old friend on Saturday... even though her schedule permits her to meet someone maybe between 3PM till 8PM Sunday... she is unlikely to accept an invitation for Sunday simply because she won't be 'interested' so shortly 'after' Saturday evening. Not saying it is impossible... but you would have to really sweet talk her about it and also she definitely won't agree to meet until AFTER her play Saturday evening.
Monday is totally out of the question because she is working a split shift. Tuesday is possible in the afternoon or evening however since she is totally OFF on Wednesday... she will more than likely abstain on Tuesday.
This week, Wednesday is by far the most likely day she will play but even still... it would have to be an afternoon or early evening thing because she has another split shift on Thursday.
Friday is another full day off and we won't know about Saturday and beyond until next Thursday evening. But she is HIGHLY unlikely to schedule Friday until AFTER she sees what Wednesday brings and she is unlikely to book Wednesday until Tuesday afternoon at the earliest.
But, who she meets will depend on how they ask. If a guy calls and just 'lusts' for her... she is less likely to say yes then if someone presents her with the opportunity to get to know him a little by talking to her on the phone... perhaps suggesting some 'event' like going out for a while.
I also want to add that there is definnitely another timing opportunity. A lot of times, our luck is that we have several guys wanting to meet when her schedule doesn't permit but sure enough... when a really GOOD time is like 'now'... no one calls.
You will often see us actively seeking someone at times like this. Last Saturday was a prime example. She had plans but her friend had to cancel around noon and I spent the next 6 hours looking for a replacement and only found one at literally the last minute. Most of our efforts were spent contacting people on our Yahoo friends list via Instant Messenger. This is REALLY the best way to improve your chances of hearing from us.
To sum it up... it is definitely possible that you can make that one phone call to her and suggest something within the next 24 hours but the way to insure an eventual encounter is to call often enough so that she starts recognizing your voice and when you do call... offer her more than just a roll in the hay. Make your offer attractive. She loves to be asked out somewhere. But also know that if you called with one of those 'super' offers such as dinner, than clubbing over at the 5th Season club or similar place... she might just invite you over to the house just to meet (and probably fuck) here if she doesn't feel like having a big night. But... just the offer puts you much higher on her list.
And, as far as Wednesday is concerned
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The perfect Date
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Posted:Sep 4, 2008 4:51 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 5:40 am
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This has yet to happen 'exactly' as described however there certainly has been some experiences that were pretty close.
What I would consider the perfect 'date' for Carol goes something like this:
1) A new person, someone who has just discovered our profile and who lives near our area calls Carol on a Thursday evening just after she had gotten her weekly work schedule.
2) He is witty and goon natured, black of course, single, in the right age range and he makes a great impression on Carol. They talk on a variety of subjects and before the conversation ends... he invites her to go out Friday night for dinner and then over to a club to listen to music and dance. And, since her work schedule was very accomidating, she accepted.
3) He arrives at our home around 7PM. Carol is still putting on her final touches as she gets ready for her evening out. He and I set down in the living room for about ten minutes and just get to know each other. He also makes a great impression on me because of the way he shows respect for our relationship and actually thanks me for the opportunity to spend time with Carol.
4) She comes down stairs to see her 'date' face to face for the first time. You can see in her eyes and his that they are both pleased to see the other in the flesh. She approaches him and starts to give him a gentle 'welcome' caress and maybe a slight peck on the cheek. He responds back and adds his own hug and kisses her gently on the lips.
5) We all set down together for a few more moments and he volunteers information about his plans for the evening. He tells us that he has a favorite resturant that he wants to share with Carol and tells us about the club he has selected for after dinner. Carol isn't into to Dominance but she does like a man with a plan and she is excited that this man has an agenda instead of being vague about what he wants to do.
6) As they leave, he is the perfect gentleman and opens the car door for her and off they go. As they drive down the road, he continues to be the perfect host by talking to Carol... complimenting her, being inquisitive about her, and being a good listener. As they drive, he gently reaches over and takes her hand and she responds back willingly.
7) As the drive continues over to the resturant, he continues to hold her hand but shifts the position so that he is holding her leg and her hand is clasped on top of his.
 The resturant is a total success... good food, a nice glass of wine, and good conversation. Occasional touching... holding her hand, grasping her leg continues off and on through the meal. After they finish, they continue to talk and each one of them opens up and gives the other more insight into each others likes, dislikes, hopes and fears, fantasies, etc.
9) After dinner, they head to the club arriving around 9PM which is early enough to get in, get a good seat before the band starts playing and the crowd comes in.
10) Once the band starts... they play just the right music. He invites her to dance and she accepts. As he walks her to and from the dance floor, his arm is around her waist and she leans into him showing her acceptance.
11) Each time they dance, as the song ends, he caresses her and kisses her gently oon the lips to show his apprreciate for the dance. This is a man who understands that a woman is motivated by romance and that romance is how a woman is seduced.
12) As the evening at the club winds down, it isn't necessary for the man to ask her what she wants to do next. They simply leave the club, get into his car where he immediately lays his hand on her leg and gently strokes her leg pushing back her skirt has he does.
13) He drives over to his apartment. Neither has spoken about what happens next but both know. Once there, he again opens her door, takes her hand and assists her out of his car and they walk towards his appartment with his arm around her sholder and her leaning into him.
14) Once inside, he guides her to the couch to set down and he goes into the kitchen to pour two glasses of wine. As he sets down next to her, he continues to hold her hand, gently massaging her hand as they chat and stare into each other's eyes.
15) He reaches down and takes her foot in his hand. He removes her shoe and starts massaging her foot and she smiles. After a while, he sets down his wine glass and takes hers from her and sets it down and he takes her hand and helps her to her feet. He embraces her and kisses her gently this time adding kisses to her neck and the tip of her ear and you hear slight giggling from her as he tickles her ear with his tongue.
16) He starts removing her clothes. He doesn't ask to do this... he doesn't have to. She lets him take control of her body. Soon, she is totally naked standing embraced with him in the living room. He still has his clothes on.
17) He breaks the embrace and takes her hand and walks her into the bedroom. The only light is from the living room. He leads her to the bed and she sits on the edge, waiting to see what happens next. Before he joins her, he walks over to the dresser and lights several candles and turns on some music on a stereo. He closes the bedroom door so that only the flicker lights from the scented candles illuminate the room.
1 He takes off all of his clothes except his shorts and reaches over and grabs an exotic massage lotion and tells Carol to lay on her stomich and he applies it to her back. He makes sure that every inch of her body is touched and stimulated by the massage.
19) She offers to do recpricate on the massage and he smiles and hands her the bottle. He lays on the bed and she starts massaging his chest, and works her way down to where his shorts are still covering his body. She removes them and immediately takes his penis in her hand and caresses and kisses it.
20) They 'make love' finally. He goes real slow with her to start which is what she likes. Again, this being the 'perfect' date... once she sees his size, she is definitely impressed. It is a little larger than she normally likes but since he has taken the time to warm her up slowly, she is able to totally accomidate him.
21) By the time he finally cums... she is so wet and ready for it, it is almost a surprise that she can even feel the cum when he climaxes inside her. Later, when I ask her 'how was it?', she will tell me it was the best fuck of her life.
22) When he does finally cum, they are both exhausted and she snuggles up to him and he wraps his arms around her and continues to gently massage her neck and sholders until they both fall asleep without even trying to.
23) In the morning, he awakes and she is still there in his arms. He gently starts running his hand over her body so as not to wake her up to quickly. She stirs and without even opening her eyes shows her willingness to continue.
24) He takes her again and this encounter leaves her breathless and exhusted by the time they finish. Although they lay there arms entwined for a few more moments... she gets up and heads to the shower. He also gets up, goes to the kitchen and starts the coffee. She is still in the shower when he comes back into the room. He joins her and they wash each other and continue to hug and kiss while the water rushes over them.
25) Although she was pretty worn out from that morning encounter, she can't help herself as the exit the shower. He grabs a towel and starts drying her off but she wants more and he gives it to her. Harder and more intense this time, by the time they are done... neither could handle another round.
26) Her wearing only a towel, him in only his shorts, they go into the dinning area and sip their coffee and he talks to her and tells her how much he has enjoyed her company this night.
27) As they finish the coffee, he suggests that they get dressed and hop over to the local Denneys for breakfast and she readily agrees.
2 Over breakfast, they talk about random things... both realizing that the date is nearly over and somewhat regretful that it is coming to an end. As they finish, he tells her that he would like to take her down to the beach for a weekend in a couple of weeks and she willingly accepts his invitation.
29) It is now time to bring her home to her husband. When they arrive, he again opens the car door for her and they walk in together. Both are eager to share their romantic evening with me and although they don't tell me everything right then... I continue to hear about the evening from her over the next few days and him via some post-date email exchanges.
30) He stays for about 15 or 20 minutes. Just long enough to make sure I know they both had a wonderful time.
31) After he leaves, Carol tries to set in the living room with me but she is simply too tired to stay up long and goes upstairs for a nap. When she finally re-awakens, she is still in a bit of a daze about the evening and she is just beaming from inside. we spend a quite afternoon, and without prompting... she continues to tell me of her perfect 'date'.
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People read this?
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Posted:Sep 2, 2008 9:54 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2008 3:41 pm
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I must say, I was a little surprised to see that 50 people (so far) have read the latest blog entry and 93 had read the initial one.
I saw this as a place to occasionally rant and rave about my favorite sore point which is no-shows and late cancelations.
I am reminded of one particular individual who shall of course, remain nameless. He has been with Carol somewhere between 5 and 6 times over the last 4 or 5 years.
He has asked for more than that however is number would have definitely been higher without the cancellations... most at the very last moment that he himself called.
Our viewpoint on cancellations is that when we set up a meeting... it is extremely rare that we cancel. The list of reasons why we might is pretty much limited to health and family. When family issues come up... we typically try to arrange our family issue so that it doesn't conflict with our existing plans. Health unfortunately is another thing all together... if we're sick, we try to reschedule but one thing about being sick.. you usually know that more than 30 minutes AFTER you were supposed to be there in the first place!
Another occasional cause is work. Carol is often called and sometimes at the last minute to come in and work a shift. However, this is considered 'volunteer' work in that they didn't schedule her in advance and she can refuse the hours (and extra pay) if she wants to. And, extra pay is GOOD for the budget for sure. If they contact her at least 24 hours ahead, her decision to postpone a 'date' is largely dependent upon how easily it will be to contact our guest. Even still... she does agree to come in on her day off often enough where we rarely cancel because of work.
This one individual we know of bases his decision to cancel based totally on his needs. If you put a VALUE on his 'date' with Carol at a Dollar... then if something more important to him (worth $1.01) comes along... he will cancel without any regard to the effect it has on our schedule. Whatever extra pennies worth of value some 'opportunity' might present you... add in the NEGATIVE value of annoying the people you cancel on.
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Morning after
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Posted:Aug 31, 2008 4:36 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 2:6 am
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Well, Carol got her date to go to the 5th Seasons club. It was with one of her existing boyfriends.
She is still asleep so I haven't heard the tales from the night although I di know she brought him back to the house to play for a couple of hours after.
What is frustrating however is... that there was several who expressed interest but almost without exception... people seem reluctant to commit. Why is that? It seems to be such a simple matter. Do you want to meet and enjoy an experience or do you not?
Of course, this isn't unusual. Seems people are always looking for something better to come along and the funny thing is... they expect it to happen! And what does happen? People who procrastinate end up setting at home or going out and trying to find something even half as good as what they turned down as they finally realize that Barbie isn't going to magically appearm kneeling in front of their cocks with an open mouth.
One specific example from last night... I started chatting with a guy who lives 20 miles away. We have chatted before perhaps a half dozen times over the past year. The fact that we know at least some people in common should have been proof enough that Carol is a real person in the lifestyle.
His situation was that he had been planning on attending a party which was being held in Raleigh... 80 miles (one way) from where he lived. I told him that Carol wanted to go to the club right there in the same town he lived in however I said perhaps she might agree to accompany him to the party or, that maybe she might be willing to just entertain at home and simply have him drop by. I wasn't offering him a 'guarantee' but I did basically tell him that typically, Carol doesn't invite someone over without already making the decision to 'sample' things while everyone is present.
Well, he did call her and as I expected... she essentially agreed that she would be willing to be his date at the club, that going to the Raleigh party was not out of the question, or that he was welcome to come over to meet and just see how things went.
Well, she couldn't get him to 'commit' to any of the things he himself was suggesting beyond a promice that he would make up his mind in an hour and call back.
Well, for one thing... when he deterred making his decision... he was definitelt telling Carol YES (if nothing BETTER comes along). She said OK to that but... her interest in him dropped to zero. Even if he had called back an hour later (which he didn't even bother to do)... she would have told him she had already made plans. Which, by the way, by then she had.
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Saturday, August 30th
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Posted:Aug 30, 2008 10:14 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2009 4:00 am
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First entry...This is the husband posting this time. Carol is asleep, taking a nap because she had big plans to attend an on-premise club near Fayetteville this evening with one of her boyfriends.
She doesn't know it yet but he messaged shortly and had to cancel. I'm going to let her sleep however until she wakes up. She will be very disappointed.
But, all is not lost... she has a lot of boyfriends and the likelyhood that one of her other ones will call is high.
I know what she would like... she would like for someone to ask her out to go to the 5th Seasons Club over in Greensboro tonight. In fact, to be honest... she was probably more interested in going there tonight then making the 2 hour drive down to Fayetteville anyway.
Unfortunately, our ability to respond to emails on this site is limited since we are free members so even if I edited her profile to something that said 'available tonight'... we couldn't respond to anyone until at least tomorrow.
Cancellations and no-shows... that is a HUGE deal with both of us. Tonight was unexpected because this man has been with her several times. But, things do happen and in this case he woke up sick so, it is a postponement.
We had a NASTY no-show last weekend. Someone she had talked to for hours over many days. We were visiting our in Virginia Beach and she had agreed to get woth him both nights. Total no-show!.
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