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SECOND SHARING OF MY WRITING
Posted:Aug 9, 2017 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2017 10:57 am
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11/06/17 These are being modified

HANDSOME CHOCOLATE MAN

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AFTERWARDS

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FIRST SHARING OF MY WRITING
Posted:Aug 9, 2017 3:29 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2017 10:30 am
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Happy Hump Day friends and fans!

I hope everyone's week is going well. I think I may be getting back "on track" after having done quite a bit of traveling within the past 10 days. I always hate trying to get back into a normal routine---can be difficult!

I did a little bit of writing this afternoon so thought I'd share.

Enjoy!

Ginger

FOR THE SAKE OF ARGUMENT

Words did wound that day,
Like arrows, piercing deeply.
Your opinions were strong;
Mine opposed, but valid too!
And oh! The angry words flew!
Was the fighting necessary?
Maybe... Yes, maybe it was.
We were trying to communicate.
But: were we respectful, kind
And really listen to one another?
I think we weren't, not enough!
Instead, the words stung---
And Like arrows, were flung....
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BEAUTIFUL DAY
Posted:Jul 19, 2017 9:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2017 4:51 pm
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Good morning everybody!

I hope this finds you well and in good spirits I'm good. I've been SO wishing for weather that's not so hot/humid...I don't do well with weather like this! Other than that, I'm good, though.

Yesterday I took a day trip to the mountains. It was much cooler there (Not saying cool! Just more air and an not occasional breeze. Low to no humidity). Today I'm taking a slow day...at least so far. I slept in this morning.

I have many many friends on here and I'm sorry I've not been more regularly and personally in touch. I've not been on so much in recent weeks and tend to be using my Blog as the most central communication right now. Do know that I think of you all and appreciate having you as friends!

I have an image I want to try to share...not sure of it as I'm used to writing longer free verse and poems of late. Maybe I'll work on turning it into Haiku! Or, maybe I'll keep it as is
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A STUDY IN CONCENTRATION

You sit there, still---but not at all statue still.
You are very much alive,
A study of concentration in your focus.
I was thinking I would like to sketch you, Or---
Take a photograph of what I see;
Of what I see that delights me.
I like that you are comfortable in the nude
(Though I would really like if you would MAYBE
Clothe yourself with your long black hair falling
Loosely, instead of tied back behind and hidden).
I watch you as you eat the cherry thoughtfully.
It could be said, I think, that you are considering it:
The texture, taste, size and perhaps it's smell?
I would not compare you to the Statue of Rodin.
But so far, it seems to me that you ARE a thinker.
I did not ask you what you thought of the cherry,
But, I think I will...

Ginger
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It's Hump Day, dear friends. I hope the week is going well so far

Ginger
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SLOW BURN OF LUST
Posted:Jun 23, 2017 9:54 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2017 4:52 pm
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Hello friends and fans!

Friday! Weekend! Time to have relaxation, fun and whatever you don't do as much of during the week! I'm in the mood for loving! How about y'all? The story I want to tell:

SLOW BURN OF LUST

I watch you online giving me a tour of your divine chocolate body and what it can do and I begin the slow burn of lust. I know your body already through your vids, online photos and photos you have sent to me. We have heated up the computer and our cell phones with our details of what we would do to each other. We've known each other quite awhile so we are friends AND lovers though we've not met in person. If anyone had ever told me that such a relationship of intensity could form in such a way I would have thought: "That person's crazy! Surely they can't believe such limiting "interactions" could satisfy without being with someone directly!" Well, now I know that can indeed happen! Yes, I want and need more but that isn't the point of my story today.

So, I watch you and heatedly my body awakens everywhere. I can see you but you can't see me (not hooked up to cam yet). But we message and text, whichever is fast enough I love to look at every inch of you and find you to be handsome beyond believe. Where do I start?! With your long muscled arms and long fingers. Your young hard body and your long, thick cock that promises both a tender ride and the pounding of a lifetime. Your chest, belly and pubic curls taunt to be caressed and kissed. When you teasingly turn your body backwards from me you're giving me a taste of your smooth chocolate back, gorgeous rounded ass and strong legs. When you turn back around and sit down in the chair, I'm SO ready and wish that I could just cum through the screen and climb onto your lap! I would lower myself onto your cock slowly while leaning forward onto your chest. I would trace all your areas of glorious manly hair and plant gentle kisses onto your chest, shoulders and neck. And your face? That handsome face I would slowly kiss and lick: jaws,cheeks, facial hair, nose, forehead and those beautiful brown eyes. And I would run my fingers through those brown twists that are your crown while beginning to devour your lips. You would already have begun fondling my breasts, belly and thighs. You would begin devouring my lips too, my heat would start leading my body toward combustion. We each would be whispering hot sexy things and giving gentle nips. I would then thrust my pussy down onto your throbbing cock, ready for your power. You would expertly thrust upward deeply and I would cry out from the pain and pleasure. It would be like this:

" I ride, you thrust. You pull my hips toward you, lifting them enough to pound me hard. My moans have turned to gasps and little cries. We keep up this fucking and uttering the sounds of pleasure and passion. I feel close to cumming and holler out your name as you holler mine. You pull me even closer and lift me upward to an angle as you thrust hard, yelling. "Ah, Oh, Ah! Fuck! Oh, baby! Fuck! We came hard and I'm trembling and breathing hard. I collapse onto your chest and lay my head on your shoulder. I'm happy and content as I feel our slippery sweat and spent juices pooling together as one."

Yes, it would go like this

Can you tell how much I want you?

Ginger
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PEACEFUL MORNING
Posted:Jun 4, 2017 8:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2017 8:43 pm
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Hey there Couples Dating friends and fans!

Just starting my day and I have determined it'll be slow mode! I think we're in for rain...not sure (right now the sun's coming out). The way I see it, every time it rains is a time I don't have to water the flowers! Speaking of, anxiously waiting for the flowers I planted in the back yard to have their growth spurt. These are growing from seed and I'm waiting for a variety of wild flowers and for the morning glories and moon flowers. Waiting rather impatiently I must admit! I'm sitting out on the back porch and I can hear the baby nuthatches chirping in the bird house hanging from the ceiling up over my head

I took a day trip west yesterday. I sure am a beach girl but oh! Those mountains are so beautiful! It was a gorgeous day. Perfect for hopping in the car and driving. My specific destination was a used book/CDs/DVDs place I like. I'd not been to this one and I had fun browsing. I bought two James Patterson books and a...Get this!...a Lenny Kravetz CD of Greatest Hits! It only cost me $5.75 It was an excellent day though good to get home (easily a "12 hour day" and arriving home after 9:00pm. Cats were happy to see me!)

Well, I think I'll fix breakfast and brew some coffee. I heated up some decaf for my first cup so think I'll brew caffeinated. They say "The best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup". I don't have any Folger's but I've got some other kinds. Gonna go pick one.

Y'all enjoy the rest of the day!

Ginger
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NOT ON TOP OF THE WORLD YET BUT GETTING THERE
Posted:May 24, 2017 10:22 am
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2017 8:45 pm
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Good afternoon Couples Dating friends and fans---and those undecided!

Haha! Tell the truth: that "undecided" part got your attention didn't it?! Humor's good. but especially on Hump Day

How's everyone doing? I'm improving. It'll be a week tomorrow that I had my dental surgery. My mouth is still uncomfortable and sometimes sore. The swelling hasn't gone completely down. My last day for the high power meds was yesterday so I'm only taking Ibuprofen now but that's good for pain and swelling. I'm able to eat more of a variety of foods than I thought I could. In a few weeks I'll start talking with my dentist about dentures. Things will progress!

We've seen a lot of rain in recent days. That means no watering for the flowers so I'll take it! The garden has come along nicely. And finally the "resident birds" made up their minds! As I mentioned a few posts ago, the Nuthatches and the Chickadees were fighting over the birdhouse. The Nuthatches won but it seemed to take forever for them to decide to build the nest after they took out all the materials that the Chickadees had been working with. Finally, they got ready. I believe there are eggs in there. It'll be fun when they hatch! It's been a wild kingdom around here in the past week. One early morning there was a coyote just sitting over on the ground near the wooded area. Then there was a raccoon that climbed on top of the arbor for the birdseed. Three different cats came around on some evenings. Mojo is our alpha cat and he chases them away. Bella? Well, we theorize that she knows them all from the neighborhood up above and probably plays with them!

I think I'll just chill this afternoon. I'm reading a great book by Jodi Picoult (anyone else read her? She's wonderful!) It's called Lone Wolf ( and this book is about a family---or two families I should say. The human family and the wolf pack and how the father is part of both). All this is peaceful and relaxing and all. But, I must get back to thinking about....sex! Who's with me on that?! (Notice how I put that at the end? Let's see how many of you readers read all the way to the end so know I have that on my mind!)

Ginger
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HELLO FROM LONG ISLAND
Posted:May 12, 2017 9:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2017 7:52 am
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Good afternoon everybody.

Happy Friday!

Just thought I'd say "hey y'all", I'm thinking of you! And, I clicked on poll again by mistake, so it wasn't meant to be a poll! Be that as it may Imma make it into one Having a wonderful time visiting my youngest and his family on Long Island. My traveling went well coming here and I hope for the same when I leave sometime tomorrow to head back. The only thing that delayed my arrival on Tuesday late afternoon was the Manhattan traffic...and that's to be expected. It was a first for me to drive in the city and it really was alright. Just glad I caught it before rush hour traffic

I enjoyed some time yesterday walking on Jones Beach. I love the beach! It was windy and a bit cold but it was still nice. I put on a hoodie and a scarf and I was good to go

If I don't see y'all on here again before my return to home I want to say, "Have a great weekend!" and a "Happy Mother's Day" to all the moms out there

Ginger
Yes I have been to Long Island
No, I haven't been to Long Island
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4/22/17 UPDATE ON 4/14. STORY TITLE IS: A LUSTFUL MATING SEASON
Posted:Apr 14, 2017 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2017 4:53 pm
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AND WE HAVE WINNERS!!!

Winners for the "NAME MY STORY" contest are: First place goes to HandsLipsDick 26M for 100 points as a tip; second place goes to cocks4gilfs 40M 50 points. And 20 points go to greekphilosopher 54M and goodatpoetry2 67M in appreciation for participating! Thank y'all! Thank y'all! Thank y'all!

Yea!

Ginger

" A LUSTFUL MATING SEASON "



I love an adventure! Especially when it's spent with someone who stimulates my mind, body and spirit---all of me---stimulated by EVERY part of YOU...mmmmn! There's nothing about you that I find superficial, least of all my feelings for you. And tonight? Ah, tonight! I'm thinking about ravenous, ravaging sex with the most handsome chocolate man I know...

It's been a beautiful day. We spontaneously checked campgrounds online. We've never gone camping together. Just like we've yet to make love for the first time. We decided we'd do some easy camping for a couple of days this time around. We barely were able to contain our excitement (do I mean for the camping or the sex?!---both!). It was so much fun getting ready for our little trip. We put our heads together to figure out what we needed or didn't need to bring.

We cooked our meal over the camp fire then settled down to toast marshmellows (we fought playfully about doing that part. You said, "No, that's silly!" and I said, "It's not! Everyone does it!" You leaned forward and nuzzled into my neck, saying, "Alrighty then. You won this round. I win the next!"). We talked awhile about our day, and about what was going to happen next. You got really quiet. "What's wrong?" I asked. Remaining silent, you reached for me and began kissing my lips, at first ever so gently but then hard and hungry. I kissed you back, trembling with passion. I began moaning as I felt your long fingers travel across my tee shirt to caress each breast. You groaned but then suddenly stopped kissing me. "Ginger, baby, are we being too spontaneous? This being our first time and all, I feel like I should be laying you down on a King size bed in a Five Star hotel...". I shushed you as I looked deeply into your eyes, kissed your full mouth sweetly and said, "Honey, this IS a Five Star hotel! We have our cozy tent, this fresh pine scented air and a canopy of stars. We are together! What more could we want? Although, I DO feel like I should go slip into the sexy negligee that I brought to wear just for you!" You stood up and looked down at me with the biggest grin on your handsome face and laughed. "Out here? Nah! Save that for next time at the Five Star hotel! I want you naked right now! I'm going to strip you right under this canopy of stars. I'm going to take you into my Sheik's tent and ravage you until you're too ravaged to cum anymore!" You growled, pulling me toward you, then pulling my tee-shirt and bra up over my head. You made me shimmy out of my capris. Your eyes bore through me like black coals. Your breath was hot and husky as you said, "Now you're all mine and you'll know it." Your body a strong and sizzling black heat, you lifted and carried me into our lair...
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WHEN A LIGHTBULB TURNS ON!
Posted:Mar 29, 2017 10:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2017 8:40 pm
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Good afternoon Couples Dating friends!

This is another beautiful day and so far I feel pretty great I thought I'd write another post and I had a "Ta Da" moment: y'all that have Blogs know how so many people glance at our Blogs but they don't make comments? Well, there's certainly nothing wrong with that! Some people continue to visit off and on and some become Watchers (My Watchers: thank you! thank you! thank you! I liked being "watched"---haha!) It occurred to me that it make be nice to go to the profiles of the people that look at my Blog and thank them for doing so! I try to remember to always thank those who comment on my Blog when I respond to their comments. It also occurred to me: why haven't I ever wished those people a Happy Birthday if I see it in time? I thought of this because yesterday I had a doctor's appt and upon check-out the woman wished me a Happy Birthday (and that's not until April 18th!)

I've said before that I think Couples Dating is a community of sorts. Oh yes, it's primarily a dating/sex site. I just think so many of us use it for so much more whether or not we're having meet-ups and encounters. We all have those we like to message or comment on their Blogs. We become Watchers of some. We like to send flirts, be friendly and have some online "friendship" whether or not we plan to seek sex or not.

I have had relationships with three men that were sexual since I joined Couples Dating several years ago ( though not doing that now). One continues to be FWB. One I don't see any longer but we stay in touch by e-mail. One man I'm no longer in touch with because he moved out of state after he got married and now they have a one-year-old . But we stayed in touch for awhile after we were no longer sexual.

So, I want to make the most of my contact and time on here. I want to show caring and interest. Feel free to give it back

Have a great week, y'all!

Ginger

"WHEN YOU SAY 'YES' TO OTHERS MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT SAYING 'NO' TO YOURSELF"---Paulo Chelho
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ENJOY THIS BEAUTIFUL DAY!
Posted:Mar 27, 2017 9:49 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2017 11:52 am
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Good afternoon y'all!

Did you have a good weekend? Mine was good and I'm happy about that!

This is quick for now. I want to share pics. The outdoor photo are flowers that recently poked up through the earth. Indoor my Christmas Cactus. Such beautiful signs of life to appreciate it!

I'm appreciating a lot of things today and it feels good!

Have a wonderful day, y'all

Ginger

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LET IT SNOW!
Posted:Mar 12, 2017 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2017 1:03 pm
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Hey y'all!

We surely can't claim we had too much snow! I was actually disappointed we didn't get more. That's what you get when you're a Northerner who moves South! Lol! But I don't miss the bad storms at all!

I do enjoy seeing how pretty snow can look. Here's a couple of photos of our Japanese Magnolia.

Hope you like them

Have a great Monday!

Ginger

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WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU? POLL RESULTS/COMMENTS
Posted:Feb 28, 2017 9:36 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2017 2:45 pm
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Hello friends/fans/all!

I have modified this post to share the comments and votes

My brief trip to the Charleston/Islands renewed me! I left Sunday morning and returned early last evening. I enjoyed myself immensely...wonderful R & R. I did it on a "shoestring budget" which I always like (For me, "shoestring", in this case means: filling up with the cheapest per gallon gas price I can find; inexpensive but suitable lodging; minimal spending on food, snacks, etc. I ALWAYS drink spring water most of the time so I just throw a dozen bottles in the trunk along with my cooler of sandwiches, fruit and yogurt. I bring other snacks so tend to spend only on coffee and one hot meal daily) This is, after all, about the beach so money is needed only minimally!

PLEASE VOTE ON QUESTIONS BELOW REGARDING GET-A-WAYS!

I PREFER:
An overnight in a very nice hotel with an expensive dinner/leisurely breakfast next morning.
An overnight in a reasonably priced motel; snacks/beverages on board; gift cards for hot meals; picnic on beach.
To pack light for an overnight camping trip: tent, sleeping bag, Coleman stove, campfire and S'mores.
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WEEDEND! WEEDEND! WEEKEND!
Posted:Feb 24, 2017 1:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2017 3:01 pm
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Couples Dating friends/fans/all!

This has been a FABULOUS week for me and I'm truly pleased about that. Now it's Friday with the weekend on our heels and I'm psyched! I don't work outside the home but still my days during the week aren't like a weekend, so I feel the differences in many ways as those that work full-time, and get psyched anyway! Especially with the gorgeous weather we've been having. I'm planning a mini beach trip starting sometime tomorrow and coming back Sunday. SO looking forward to ti!

Fun and frolic to y'all

I hope you enjoy pics of our Japanese Magnolia!

Ginger

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