There seems to be a great distrust for any man contacting a female in a chatroom. There are some who want to contact someone and then meet up and sleep together and that's it.
Then there are the others who would like to get to know someone better even before thinking about meeting.
There is always going to be a need on both sexes parts for a quickie. Please have some faith that although it's a sex site there are some of us (males) who would like to understand a person before moving onto a closer union.
Please trust us when we say we want to get to know you better.