Fantasy or Reality posts
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Posted:Sep 29, 2008 2:20 am
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I have been asked again, several times, if the stories I have posted over the years, Fantasy Or Reality;_____________, are about real people and events or are they fiction. And as with any good story the answer is mostly yes to the first part and some of the last. They are in truth about 80% real.
When I write a story I write about real people and my observations or experiences with them. There is very little if any exaggeration but there is embellishment. There will be changes to names and in some stories they will be of several experiences unrelated but brought together to form a better read. There are some who will pick themselves out of the story and say hay that is me....while others will read right over their character and never realize it was them...the difference of their vision, their perception of themselves verse mine.
I write about real people, people I know, people I talk to, people who are my intimate friends. I write about past and present encounters. I write about my observations in a group room which is totally different when observing then when you are one of the participants. This is the part of people watching I enjoy the most, when they are the most themselves....and carefree.
I prefer to write to show people who they are...and how they act without over emphasis. Not a romantic novel sex scene but still when two people have sex, when two or more people enjoy each other and pleasure each other. When two or more people come together for sexual pleasure there is always some level of emotion, caring and gratitude. The human connection not just thru body parts but thru touching each other's inner self thru willing exposure of themselves and the gift of physical pleasure to each other. The sharing of their bodies to each other always in some way brings them closer to one another even when done recreationally.
So, yes I write about experiences with some fantasy, each story becomes some one's fantasy. Most every one is true. And most who read it will find someone they know in my stories, many times it will be you and other times you will wish it were......you.
Sherper
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Thinking of your mate......is something crucial being lost?
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Posted:Aug 16, 2008 5:30 am
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2008 1:55 am
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Swinging and keeping it real. (sorry for the long read but follow along if you please)
I wrote the below response as a result of a question asked by a friend…..the question was;
I have been falling behind in blogging so, I read a comment recently that I disagree with so I thought I would blog about it. Call it semantics or whatever but, swinging is not "all about the women". I will concede the point that women can get more out of it (I am envious of that point), and without the women then it would just be a bunch of guys jacking off in a room (but at the same time without the men women would have a similar experience).
But, as a couple it is a team event. We meet couples together and play together, the rules are slightly different at the parties but, the same general principle applies.
This is not to say I don't think the women should not be treated like princesses. I always put Mary before myself, and I try to treat her like a princess. I just disagree that swinging is all about the women, it is at least 40% about the guys as well.
I acknowledge I am going to be hammered about this (I think). And, I hope you ladies will still want to fuck me.....lol.
M&M
And my response………..
......ahem....(steps up to the soap box).....your opinion being accepted...but also proves the point. The expression that swinging is all for or about the ladies is simple. You might be able to enjoy fully.....one to two women. On a good day, three or four? The ability to recover from orgasm and start again is very limited particularly the older most men get. Exactly the opposite as a woman matures. Women can if they choose enjoy not only multiple partners as a time but several over time.
Second, although times have changed tremendously since 1950s and even the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s the ability for women to desire, participate freely, and enjoy their sexuality is still for the large part controlled and judged. We men are still very manly for bedding a woman or two on a night out with the boys and bragging rights that come with that from the age of ....well junior high, high school and beyond til the day we die. Women on the other hand better only be taking care of their husbands or be chaste. Even in this day and age. The swing lifestyle allows a woman to enjoy her sexuality and desires and explore her fantasies and sexual abilities without the harsh judgment of her peers....as most are in the same room or bed with her. It is their time.
Lastly, I do not know of many couples who will go to a party or sexual meeting regardless of what the female half of that couple says. I know of most every couple I have met in this lifestyle if the lady is not comfortable ....they leave. Yeah there are some very self-centered men but even those will still bend to their wives/SO/girlfriends wishes in these matters. I am not talking opinion here or someone’s supposed observations. This is hosting parties....as you have...but for 8 years. Talking to ....thousands of couples.......singles.....blogs groups and forums. When it comes down to it with the couple in the room...what the wife/SO/girlfriend says or is willing to allow happen....happens. This isn't 100%...but I will state it is 85% accurate every time.
It really boils down to this. If the lady is enjoying herself, is comfortable with what she is seeing, experiencing and doing then the male half of her is also by association having one hell of a good time. The only time this differs some is when the couple plays alone.....and separate. Some couples do, my experience is that they do not always remain couples very long in most instances when they choose to date/meet/play separately or alone. Couples who play as couples usually are active about the same as each other. And they allow each other to enjoy and experience different things.
So in the end it isn't that static that it is all about women....it just works out that way.
Sherper
PS hope to see you all soon.
I think it is crucial that I elaborate more on this. And again sorry that this is so long...but...I think there is something lost at times within this lifestyle as a person’s or couple’s experiences increase in time and the maturity curve that their experiences create.
First, I do stand by what I said in my response. And without going into social implications of the sexual exploits of women and mental molding of the female’s self worth from toddlers I will leave it to stand alone.
I want to talk and get the opinion of the ladies in the lifestyle on how they feel and the change they experienced and felt from the very first thought of entering this lifestyle to how they make that special part of their lives with their husbands/SO/boyfriends still special and separate and what they do specifically to make their husbands/SO/boyfriends experiences special.
Keeping in mind that most the women in this lifestyle, safely 80% or better, are spoken for in some manner either married, living with someone or dating the one they arrived with or at the minimum lovers with that person. And what happens to them once they start in the lifestyle……sexual play, fucking freely, fantasy fulfillment, sexual experimentation while for the most part their husband/SO/boyfriend/mate steps back, encourages and supports this freedom. In the end, when all has been said and done, experiences had, what do you do to make this special person in your life feel special? To thank them for their support and their just being there with you, for you to experiment with whom you wish. When do you think of them and their fantasies and desires and if you do, what do you do?
My second observation from hosting, parties, get togethers, intimate moments, fantasy quests and chatting with an endless stream of lifestylers across the continent and beyond is this: A subtle almost unspoken complaint from the many at times idle half of the couple attending lifestyle functions. Like a in a candy store. In this lifestyle we can create a fantasy world all its own. And once the taste of the sweet has been had and with a seemingly endless line of… “sweets”…experiences available it is very easy and most likely that those enjoying these experiences, one after another, in their excitement and frenzy forget the one they are with, the now shadow spouse/SO/lover who is at the party…somewhere. Keep in mind that most parties do host several single men to “help” in create a sexually charged atmosphere. Of coarse this always lends itself to more men then women…hence more men for the women….however many times it is a husband/SO/boyfriend that is usually left behind while the lady indulges in several playmates. It is the way of the lifestyle for most.
The lady who enjoys two or more men at a time regularly which may or may not include their spouse/SO/lover, but nonetheless most often experienced situation at any party is always a multiple lovers situation. Sometimes for the couple it is two or three men they see regularly other times it is thru chance encounters. None the less for many once the couples have arrived the ladies at the party, with full acceptance and sometimes with participation of their mates are free to enjoy whom ever she wishes throughout the event….be her alter self….her alter sexual self. The question would arise sooner or later. When and what do you do for the special person that arrived with you? The one you go home with, the one you are most safe and secure with.
Although he may not be able to enjoy 3-8 lovers thru an evening or a gang bang of women for him, or enjoy being double teamed. When you think of him what do you envision to do for him as something special? Or, and this causes in my opinion more stress and break up of otherwise great relationships; the “treatment” that seems to be given to the single lovers of the moment, that added sizzle, that unbridled sexual wildness that may be perceived as not being present unless attending a party with others. When do the ladies of their lives lavish them with the same or similar experiences that this special man has arranged for them?
I have asked this question many times over the years in varying ways, subtly, at parties and gatherings. I used to be kind of shocked at the responses I would hear. Some, very few, would get a special something. An arranged FMF on occasion or from time to time the evening or party would be something special to include them in with. A special group or situation. But the answer I hear most often, and keep in mind this is from couples who are very active in the lifestyle and usually with some time involvement, usually years. The most often heard response. “I have him all the time at home, this is my time”. Which I can see, but, at some point do the tables do not turn, if just for an evening?
I am going to give two of the best examples I have ever heard of and ask for your responses.
A group in the state of Pennsylvania who meet regularly for parties hosted at one private location has once a month a Kings night. This party starts late afternoon and is attended largely by couples only with a few solo/single ladies. The theme of the party is stated in the name. They often will try to arrange the evening or event around a current or previously recorded sport event or on occasion some other added theme. The men are treated thru the night. Completely lavished and sexually catered to. They ladies of this group do this in love and respect to their mates for their freedom for the remaining parties thru the month not in payment or out of some debt. Men are treated to most any sexual encounter they would desire. The remaining months parties are centered on the women. This party also has a high attendance of older members. All are over thirty five and most are forties and above.
Also in general I have heard from several couples of how the woman would “arrange” at their home or hotel (rarely at a party function) a day, afternoon or evening where she and a lady friend would cater sexually to her man. Sometimes it is a personally close couple that joins them and the two ladies take turns pleasing as a team the two men in their lives. The best was once couple when she would from time to time set up a weekend away with her man and a lady friend. Everywhere they would go would be her man, her and her friend on his arm. Dinner, night out, dancing, sight seeing etc. But back at the Hotel they would lavish him sexually for the evening. Wonderful lady!!
So, with all the men, husbands, boyfriends, lovers that help arrange for the pleasure of their ladies……..what do the ladies do special for thier man?
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Fantasy or Reality: Sexually Charged Moments in TIme
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Posted:Aug 16, 2008 5:17 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2008 11:30 am
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.....it had been a normal party by any standard and while Ken was chatting with those in the kitchen he wondered vaguely when his wife would be done with whom she was with.
As normal she was off chatting excitedly as soon as they arrived and his last glimpse of her was as she turned and smiled from across the room waving at him as she left for the hot tub with one of her girlfriends and three assumed single men in tow. He saw her one other time later that evening when she left a room long enough for a bathroom run and a quick kiss for him “how you doing babe?” and with a glass of water she returned to the room she left. A normal party evening.
Ken had wondered into the open room several times thru the night and once found his wife there between two men. He joined in for a moment until she became preoccupied and had then moved to join another couple for a while. He enjoyed the oral attention he received while the woman was being taken from behind but had not cum yet when the couple left for a “Break”.
It was late evening and the kitchen was filling with people calling it a night. Cups of coffee and glasses of water were the beverage of choice for most. His attention was drawn to a door opening in one of the private rooms and three men left and filtered thru the room. Then two ladies, giggling and chatting excitedly, left the room and entered the kitchen. Ken was surprised to find they both were looking about the kitchen when they gaze fell on him. One, a blond, stepped forward and “We didn’t see you earlier. Do you have a few minutes to join us?” Before he could mumble an answer they both had taken his hands and pulled him towards the room they had emerged from.
Once inside things happened very quickly. Both ladies began to strip him of his clothing and they had him on the bed in moments. Ken kept quiet out of disbelief and he didn’t want to interrupt the moment. The short brown haired one leaned over him pressing her smallish breasts to his chest and started kissing him. His breath taken away not just thru her kiss but the warmth of the blonde’s mouth as she engulfed his cock and sucked eagerly. Ken was hard in moments his cock in the blonds month being treated to a complete mouth massage of his length. She cupped his balls and brought them to her mouth to tongue and suck when the short haired woman left him and bent to take his cock into her mouth.
This was totally crazy. It was fast. He had no idea who they were and had not had a word with either of them. His eyes rolled back as he sighed heavily feeling the deep warmth over his cock. Just as he reached to touch between the legs of the lady in front of him she backed to him and rested her sex inches from his face. Ken took the subtle hint and starting to nuzzle and use his tongue on her. She pressed herself firmly back to his face.
Ken felt the short haired one release his cock from her mouth. He was greedily lavishing her folds with his tongue and enjoyed that he had her total attention. Feeling some movement around his lower have it wasn’t long before he felt the wet warmth of a woman’s body enveloping his erection with her body. The blond had taken him into her and she was rocking his cock inside her.
Ken tried to keep his concentration. The blond was very wet and her warm body gyrating on him was bringing him to a rise that he tried very hard to fight. The short haired woman lifted herself from his hungry mouth and that was when Ken opened his eyes to see the two embraced in a deep passionate kiss. This never happened to him. He was lucky to get fucked at a party. Maybe a blow job or hand job or something later from his wife so he could sleep. No many took interest in a middle aged pudgy man with a receding hair line. The blond slowly raised herself off of his cock and it fell soaked from her juices against his thigh. She knelt and crawled up his body dragging her breasts up his torso. The short haired woman took his cock into her mouth and moaned approval as she suck the mingle juices from it. As the blond lowered her wet puss to Ken’s mouth he looked up the length of her body above him. Her head tilted back she cupped and squeezed her breasts with her hands, pinching her nipples with her thumb and forefingers. Ken felt the short haired lady lower her body onto his cock.
Ken hardly had the chance to think. His cock was nestled deep in the body of this woman who was trying her best he was sure to make him cum. He tried to fight the urge but his senses were in overload. The blond on his face squeezing her breasts breathing very quickly with the movement of his tongue on her. The short haired lady perched on his cock pumping him now up and down with her body. His body tensed. He tried to mumble a warning of his arriving orgasm but he couldn’t his mouth was full of …well...the blond.
The short haired lady riding on Kens’ cock knew he was about to cum. “Yeah, come on baby, give it to me. I want you to cum inside me come on. Stop fighting me. Come on cum for me…” Ken couldn’t take it any more and with a deep growl in his throat ken arched himself up and the short haired lady ground herself down onto him taking each spasm Ken had into her body. Ken could feel his fluid leaving him and soaking his cock inside her leaking out of her back onto him.
The short haired lady pulled herself off of him his cum spilling from her body and down her thigh. She lay next to him and took his soaked cock completely into her mouth sucking him as it softened, cleaning their shared fluids from him. The blonde’s body shuddered slightly and she collapsed onto ken. She kissed him and then rolled off of his body and lay between ken and her short haired friend. Ken lay there in post orgasm haze watching the two ladies kiss each other hungrily. “Do you have some desert for me?” The blond asked. The short haired woman smiled and with her hands guided the blond between her legs. Ken watched in utter disbelief as the blond lazily tongued and mouth her friends cum filled pussy eventually pulling her friend tight to her mouth as she noisily sucked and tongued her. Ken lay for a moment or two and realized that these two ladies where done with him. They had what they wanted. He left the bed and dressed leaving the room without a word from them or from himself.
While he stood back in the kitchen his wife arrived arranging her hair. “You ready to go hon?’ Ken just smiled. “Thanks for staying late tonight” she said, “Did you have any fun.” Ken just smiled and shrugged his shoulders still not entirely sure at just what happened. Did it happen? The door to the room opened and out stepped the two women who he was just with. His wife was talking away at him but he did not really hear a word. Both women caught his gaze and smiled each blowing him a kiss. “I said if you want anything you can take me in the back and I can do something for you or you can wait until we are home and I will take care of you.” Yes, Ken thought, a normal party. Nothing new. “Nah, I am ok, maybe later.” Yup just another normal party.
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Random thoughts on living
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Posted:Aug 9, 2008 4:31 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2008 3:18 am
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As Taken from SP News with Personal commentary in Bold
A Study done in England
Sexually transmitted health risks on the rise in over 45’s
Herpes was the next most common, with one-in-five diagnoses.
Men and women aged 55 to 59 were most likely to have an STI compared, with men more highly represented than women.
The overall rate of infections more than doubled over the eight-year period from 16.7 per 100,000 population to 36.3 per 100,0000.
This meant a significantly higher increase for the older compared with younger patients.
No condoms
Although this is not the only means of spreading sexually transmitted viruses or disease it does certainly help. In this age group, our age group there is more open sexual relationships, alternative lifestyle and use of or paid lovers by both men and women although still higher use by men. Those most likely to engage in sexual acts without protection of any kind fall in the 40+ and 50+ age groups. Although in most cases if it is a one night stand there is a higher likelihood that a condom will be used if it is with trusted lovers, intimate friends within the lifestyle bareback or free style or wet love practices are much more common in this age group and over because of the likelihood that the woman and man are both sterile by choice or that the woman is past menopause and no longer fears pregnancy as a result of sexual pleasure. It is more important that in this age group….group fidelity is practiced. To protect one’s lovers from their one night stands more effort and responsibility must be taken.
Dr Babtunde Olowokure, from the HPA's regional surveillance unit in Birmingham, said: "Sexual health strategies have rightly focused on the under-25s but our results indicate that sexual risk-taking behavior is not confined to young persons but is also an increasing trend in the over-45s.
“Sex is not the preserve of the young and gonorrhea and syphilis are no respecters of age."
It does appear that with in this age group the above listed STDs are increasing with in the age group HPV which is much more common is almost impossible to control and most likely goes totally unnoticed by all participating. Some form of herpes from mild (similar to cold sores) to extreme and genital warts are more common to be shared from one night lovers during the heat of the moment and then passed on to those whom you see the most.
Lisa Power
Terrence Higgins Trust
"Older people are increasingly likely to be single or undergoing relationship changes and are less likely to consistently use condoms, perhaps because the risk of pregnancy no longer exists.”
"Increased international travel, internet dating, new drugs to counter erectile dysfunction and overlapping sexual networks may also be factors."
"Tragically, the sexual health of men and women of this age group is largely neglected and it’s something we are increasingly concerned about.
"Services are geared towards young people, campaigns are targeted at the under 25's so over-45s think that sexual health has nothing to do with them and don't even know when they're taking risks."
Lisa Power, of the HIV charity Terrence Higgins Trust, said: "Sex is not the preserve of the young and gonorrhea and syphilis are no respecters of age.
"People coming out of long-term relationships may be unaware of the risks of not using a condom.”
The above is very true of those first entering the lifestyle and finding their way. Like dating if you know the person really well, develop a trust choices can be made. Then it is up to all involved to respect one another enough to keep their well being in mind when venturing out in new territory for some one time fun.
"Rates of infections are far higher than 10 or 20 years ago, so remember to use condoms and get a check up if you are concerned."
The government said using a condom was "relevant for anyone having unsafe sex...regardless of age".
A Department for Health spokesman said: "Information about safer sex is available to everyone who needs it.”
Sexes split over one night stands
Men and women view one night stands differently
Many women are left unhappy in the aftermath of casual sexual encounters, a survey has revealed.
Just under half of women who answered the internet poll, published in the journal "Human Nature", said they felt it had been a bad idea.
Four out of five men, in contrast, said they were happy with a brief fling.
The academic leading the research said it showed that there was no evolutionary advantage for women in one night stands.
Basic emotions guide us down pathways that have been advantageous for our ancestors
Professor Anne Campbell
Durham University.
The survey was answered by 1,700 people who had all experienced this kind of relationship.
While men reported feeling more content, sexually satisfied and confident after meaningless sex, women were more likely to worry about feeling used and "letting themselves down".
Some of their reasons for the encounters were because they felt there was the possibility of a longer term relationship.
Professor Anne Campbell, from Durham University, who carried out the research, said this was evolution at work.
"In evolutionary terms women bear the brunt of parental care and it has been generally thought that it was to their advantage to choose their mate carefully and remain faithful to make sure that their mate had no reason to believe he was raising another man's .
"Recently, biologists have suggested that females could benefit from mating with many men - it would increase the genetic diversity of their , and, if a high quality man would not stay with them forever, they might at least get his excellent genes for their ."
However, she said that if women were designed by evolution for short-term relationships, they would enjoy them more, and the survey suggested this was not the case.
"Basic emotions guide us down pathways that have been advantageous for our ancestors," said Professor Campbell.
There is some validity to this limited research however it is very limited. The research was conducted in a controlled and limited environment with women and men having limited sexual experience…not experiences.
I wonder how this would read if they tested say those over 35 who are active for one full year minimum in the lifestyle. It has always been thought that men in fact are the gender to have multiple sexual partners. Yes there is a need. A drive to “release”. It is a true and very physical need. Women on the other hand need to cultivate a desire. Particularly in women I believe this is much more emotional then physical at least at first. Once pleasurable sexual experiences are consistently happening and the woman can be emotionally relaxed as well as physically I think she craves the sexual contact, thrill, challenge as much as a male will. Just look around you in the lifestyle.
But physically, and ability wise, women are the gender that can choose and accept multiple lovers. Give birth to multiple genetic thru multiple lovers. And our ancient history shows that this was practiced as a normal course of life up to the creation of monotheistic religious beliefs. It is the only way human life prospered, women mating with several different men during their life time. Many cultures had fertility practices/events/ceremonies that celebrated the acts. Again only up to the acceptance and practice of monotheistic religious beliefs.
Sherper
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With who we are with.
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Posted:Jun 24, 2008 3:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2008 9:57 am
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There are many levels of this life style and many facets of play that some couples/singles get to experience and others do not. It really all depends on the persona frame of mind, level of participation, level of emotional interest and in huge part their relationship with those they meet and lay with in the life style.
For those who are just looking for the next experience or conquest then this is not for them. For those who choose a relationship at some level and a certain Polyamory inclusion with those they choose to be with then I would say the sky is they limit.
I mentioned before how many of our friends mean to us and some we have talked with for years and because of distance will most likely never meet. Pen pals in the lifestyle so to speak. It is interesting to see the stark similarities that run with those who we only have a net relationship with and their lives in this lifestyle and those we know here and have personal relationships with. There is a parallel that seems to follow no matter who everyone is or where they are located. Hurt feelings, wonderful experiences, fun sex play, open sexual contact, jealousies, party themes and the list goes on. Human relationships and imagination is a wonderful thing.
I have found thru these many contacts that what happens here happens all over the US and the world. I remember speaking, in person, with a vanilla friend of ours aged Aunt. This woman had a home in the wood with treasures from a life time of experiences. She wasn’t rich by any means at all and probably depended on the help she received from neighbors and family for many of the things required around her home. But she was hugely rich in experiences and her attitude put us all in place regularly. Each item in her home had a story, an experience. She and her husband traveled the state, the nation and the world but never on the beaten path. Her stories were wonderful and always very entertaining. I remember one that took many of her family off guard. It started with one in the circle mentioning a problem with the suspected promiscuity of their at the time while vacationing in Florida.
After everyone had their say, what they would do, and how dare she……health …pregnancy etc this aged woman, their grand Aunt scoffed at all of them. “Each generation is the same. You all think you discovered fucking because you’re young. It is something new and exciting. Then you get married and get bored right away each other and regard fucking as a pre-functionary part of married life something that only you can do because you have a paper that says so and you would never admit fucking before that with anyone. I have news for all of you. Fucking has been around for a very very long time. It isn’t new and you didn’t discover it and you can’t control it. It is going to be around for a long time after you and I are dead to. Something by the looks of it most of you should be doing right now rather then being here. People fuck when they are young because it is new and exciting. They get to your age and you have all forgotten how wonderful it is to fuck how wonderful it is to be that free with someone. And I will tell you another thing we old folks like to fuck to and we are pretty damn good at it because we have had a lot more practice at it. Herbie and I fucked all the time and we were fucking right up to just before I lost him. I miss fucking. And god help the first seventy year old young buck that comes up this drive way because I will wear him out.” And she took a deep drink of her Gin and Tonic, smiled and lights a cigarette.
Needless to say everyone was opened mouthed shocked at the 86 year old member of their family. I have to say I was. I know she was fire cracker woman but damn!! Some of us laughed our asses off, some turned and walked away muttering….”she’s loosing it” “Senile” etc. I always found this woman to be something wild, footloose and always spoke her mind. Someone to be like. Her tales and stories always caught us off guard and as far we could tell were always true…or mostly based in truth. She would dig up artifacts and keepsakes and photos after each story to show us and elaborate on. Including her accepting money for sex once….for the experience. That is a whole other story and will take to much time here. She never said it and she and Herbie were married for 62 years but I would put money on it that “Herbie” wasn’t her only experience in life for sure and she was very often in the company of Herbie and several men friends for most of her tales. I know her stories and something of her and all I can say is she was truly a woman before her time….or maybe not.
Sherper
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.....So damn busy...............
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Posted:Jun 24, 2008 2:37 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2008 2:40 am
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.......it seems the more we do ...the less time we have to do things...makes some sense doens't it?
Between family, work and trying to have some social life outside these four walls...and house chores and our upcoming Blues Fest we haven't had much time to do much of anything. No real sexy stories to write.
I find myself again back at the forums and blogs of various groups and .com sites participating in discussions and opinions...not that I would have any opinions....LOL. Some are rather interesting and some...well....very entertaining.
I have found myself living vicariously thru friends and internet aquantances within the lifestyle. It is the next best thing I guess when you have little time for anything else.
I also find I really truly miss the closer intimate gatherings we used to have with just a few close friends. The freedom, the laughter, the unbridled sex play carefree and at whim.
I am hoping that we will be able soon start enjoying all those experiences again and seeing our friends more often. LIke they say, Life comes at you fast....for us it has been more like the small light at the end of the tunnel....being more and more like the head lamp of the approaching train.
C&M
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BBQ Swing Social Party date change
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Posted:May 15, 2008 2:18 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2008 5:33 pm
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Good morning
We will be changing the BBQ Swing to Saturday, May 31st from 2pm til ????
Do to unexpected family and work requirements we have to move the date. We hope this doesn't make things difficult for anyone and that everyone still can attend. Maybe even a few who the previous weekend didn't work out for.
Please RSVP is you still plan on attending
Craig & Marcia
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May......
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Posted:Apr 29, 2008 3:42 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2008 3:00 am
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Top of the morning to all,
I hope this finds everyone very excited about spring!! I am here to announce....you guessed it.....our annual BBQ Spring Swing Fling for 2008!! This is on Memorial Day Weekend, Sunday, May 25th from 2pm til ???? There will be limited space for RSVPs for this event. There could be some walkins available depending on the weather of the day but we will be trying to keep the list down to about 30-36 people tops. This is a couples and single ladies gathering as usual with a few select single gentlemen as well (in ratio to the couples and ladies present).
This is a social and play party. Quite often the play portion of the event starts later in the day but there is always some activity going on. We ask that you bring your own folding lawn chairs, coolers and drinks. We will have our notorious punch as well. A new one for this year. We also ask for a of $10.00 per couple and single gentleman to help offset party costs for food, coffee, tea etc. Those coming are asked to bring a snack, munchie etc to share with the crowd. A menu will be listed later.
With the great weather the porch, deck and back yard will be open as well as the house and rooms for play. All outside areas are public and will require that certain amount of restraint but feel free to enjoy in the rooms. We will have one private room, and open play lounge, and two group rooms. The massage table and accesories will be available to those who wish to enjoy them. PLEASE REMEMBER TO BRING YOUR OWN SUN SCREEN no burned bodies please.
This, as with all of our events fill up fast. Please only RSVP if you are cuming for sure. We are looking forward to seeing you all again. It has been a long time. Any questions write to me directly here or at Billygoat8one att net
Your hosts,
Craig & Marcia, Greg, Margaret
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