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Fuckin men
Posted:Jan 21, 2007 10:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2007 8:23 pm
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Why try and go after the whole package before even shakin it up first???

Meet me first before u plan on having me naked, just pisses me off for a man to plan a sexual escapade before ever meeting.
Has attraction completely went out the window?? Has being a person that has morals escaped the world? I must look at myself in the mirror before anyone else and do things that make me feel good about who i am. So have some Vision and be a gentleman!

Men get mad and upset when i dont wanna meet em in the pokin lot and make out in the car sight unseen, just blows my fuckin mind.
Im afraid of the man that wants that, how many times has he done it before. Hell if a womans willing to do that how many times has she???

Yea yea im sure im gonna catch hell for this but this is the way i feel so fuck ya!!!!
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Meeting and calls
Posted:Jan 18, 2007 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2007 9:46 am
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After u have met someone and done whatever it is u may do together, the next day or even days later Who should call who? I know me for one do not call the guy. I feel if he is interested he will and should call me! Should u call, email, text. I mean i just dont get it. **confusled look**
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My new years
Posted:Jan 1, 2007 10:37 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2011 6:50 pm
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I sure hope last night wasnt the preview for my year to come. Couldnt find anyone to go out with after trying all day. Finally went somewhere at 11pm. Drove 45 minutes to get there. Was a cute guy, nice body, that barely talked. We were watching cams on the computer and he proceeded to play with himself, well me being me had to play with it too. Anyway i gave him a blow job( damn good one i think) and i went home at 430am with no relief for myself. No he never even tried or even offered. He is the kind of man that give good men bad names. Selfish ass bastard.
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Lights on, Lights off!
Posted:Dec 18, 2006 6:45 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2007 9:49 am
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Got into a conversation last night wondering why it is some people have to have the lights on or off during sex and here is what we came up with. Either ya dont want them to see something or you dont wanna see something.
My thoughts on this would be Lights ON all the way.

If i didnt wanna see what i was playing with i wouldnt be playing with it. Has been a time or two i was with a great looking man and he wanted the lights off, he didnt wanna see what he was playing with?

So dear people, On or Off??
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Bondage
Posted:Dec 10, 2006 11:02 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2007 12:07 am
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This is an email i got, im just wondering how you would feel doing what he has proposed to me?? Me myself it scares the hell outta me and dont ever see myself doing it. Now i see myself being able to do it to a man lol. could ya do it either way??

> To: 1realdarlin
> Date: Dec 10, 2006 12:23 am PST
>
> > > > hello...here is the plan...I tell you to meet me at a hotel room, and you go up to the room, but it's empty..dark....on the bed, you see a note. You reach for it...and read it, it tells you to strip for me, but to leave your thong and high heels on, then to put on the blindfold on the pillow over your eyes. Once you have it on, you are then to lay down on the bed on your stomach, lift your sexy ass high in the air..arch your back, and spread your legs nice and wide...then wait for me in that compromising position ?
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > would you be nervous or excited while you waited for me ?
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I would then come in the room, without saying a word. You'll just hear me walk up to the bed, hear my breathing, and smell my cologne. When I get next to the bed, I will grab your hand and tie it to the bed post in front of you with a silk tie, then move to the other side of the bed, and tie your other hand to the bed post also with another silk tie, so now, you'd be blindfolded, hands tied to the bed post, ass up in the air, legs spread open, nothing but a thong and high heels...
> > > > > > > > > > > at my mercy
> > > > > > > > > > > interested ?...let me know

So let me know blogland people could u do it or have it done?
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Cuddles
Posted:Dec 7, 2006 4:29 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2007 9:31 pm
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Oh how it depresses me to be soooooo cold with no one to cuddle up with. Last winter i had the boytoy to sleep with. Not that the cuddling was all that but his waterbed was awesome lol. Seems lately i cant find anyone i even wanna sleep with much less "sleep" and or cuddle with. My dilemma, will it ever end?
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Thanksgiving
Posted:Nov 19, 2006 8:36 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2006 7:10 am
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I have the lowest senority at work and ill be damned if i got thanksgiving off. Mind u most wouldnt complain about that but i would much rather be at work. My will go elsewhere and ill stay home. I have worked most holidays for the past few years, i wont know what to do with myself. Juts a ramble here as i try and figure out what to do............
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Responses
Posted:Nov 8, 2006 6:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2007 9:59 pm
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Auto replys, oh how i hate em!! I was complaining about em one time and had forgot i had one on my own profile lmao!!! Thats all i had to say really. How do u feel about em ?
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Coworkers...............
Posted:Oct 22, 2006 8:09 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2007 9:32 pm
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Dating or sleeping with coworkers,Is it a good idea?

Let me say i have only really dated one co worker before and well that one ended in marriage and then divorce lol.

I have a co worker that is the type of guy i always go after, well cept this one has a gf. We flirt, look at each other googly eyed, tease back and forth and so on. He however knows how i feel about the gf issue so i think thats where it will stay. BUT, lol.

He is also a postal slut lol. To hear about all the women hes dated that work there is like wow. But now that im in the plant and outta the station you would think its normal for that to happen.

So in saying that if everyone there dates everyone else, i need to keep my eyes open and find me someone i dont work side by side with on a near daily basis. Orrrrrr just not date anyone at all then im not in on the dating everyone else thing!!

But here i am "dating" men that 4 women i know have been out with or slept with. So what the hell does it matter really, cept i dont wanna be the next gossip groupie hes been out with. Think its actually too late for that people are already talking about us no matter how untrue it is. Anyone that knows me knows i could care less whos talking about me. Talk bout me and save the next person!!

Sooo anyways, attraction out the window and all. Would U dear people date and or sleep with a co worker????
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High School..............
Posted:Oct 17, 2006 10:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2013 3:00 pm
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Thats where i feel like im at again. I date someone exclusively for over 2 months and just all of a sudden poof its over. No explanation, he just disappeared.

I know hes alive i see him online. I didnt think anything weird after a day and then even 2. But the third day and now its been 5.

LOL the brick landed earlier right on top of my head!!!

I feel i deserve an explanation, reason of some sort. I mean a date or two i wouldnt think twice about it but we saw and or talked everyday for over 2 months just about.

Im sure he will read this and i just wanna add to the high school portion and say i think hes a mean ass for hurting my feelings. Yes i have em just well hidden for all u smart asses!!!!!

I will not say anything mean about him and or negative but ohhhhhh i wanna, argh!!!!!!!

Am i wrong in wanting to hear something from him? Thank you for all ur thoughts Darlin
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Opinions
Posted:Oct 11, 2006 12:24 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2011 6:53 pm
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For years i kept my thoughts and opinions to myself. Was just in the last few years i started sharing what i truly thought. That old saying "The truth hurts" sure is true to some people. But in reality they are but my thoughts and opinions. This is why i never shared before.

Recently i posted what i truly thought about group sex and was uninvited and told not to attend some group sex functions. Now thats fine since it is her group im not mad, upset maybe, hurt some but mad no. I wish some of the group the best of fun.

I enjoy having sex in front of others but not with multiple people. Does that make me bad? no. Does it make it bad for people that like to have sex with multiple people? no.

Put the group down, i didnt think so. I spose some took it that way and thats fine. Opinions!! I meant nothing hurtful or mean in my blog, just my opinions and thoughts.
Some knew how i felt about it in the first place and still encouraged me to attend. Live and learn dont we.

I will continue to share my thoughts and opinions just as everyone else can. If ya dont like what i have said up to now then dont keep coming back is what i have to say about all that!!

Have a great day all, Darlin
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My thoughts and ramblings on group sex...............
Posted:Oct 9, 2006 7:18 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2011 6:55 pm
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Now all i have heard and seen of it and what little experience i have in it which is very limited, just isnt for me.
Now thats not to say i think its bad for anyone else, unless im dating em lol. Now a couple times i saw a show like real sex or something like that and it was a group of people just sitting around naked, talking then all of a sudden, wham, they was all over someone just getting after it. The thought of 8 people touching me at once just dont get me going **shivers**.
The times i was live and in person in that sorta thing i didnt join in but rather sat back and watched others.
Turned me on? Not really. More of a thought process like is that how i look? Wow look at the way he does that!!
To be with someone im comfortable with at one of those kinds of things may be different, or rather be with a group of people im comfy with. Yanno i think the latter is more important to me. The thought of any old tom, dick, or hairy (pun) touching me makes me a lil uncomfy, and i feel wouldnt let me fully relax as i should.

Then on the other side theres the cleanliness factor. Body fluids just shouldnt be shared with more than a person or two. But when a hand,tongue,finger whatever has been in, touched, tasted or played with someone it needs to be washed!!! I mean i would hope that when i have sex with someone they havent just touched anyone but themselves or me, wow what a thought lol.

Soooooo my thoughts basically are this, Group sex to me is just gross.
A nice lil 3some with me and a couple very cute men could be worked out though
As i say to each their own, do what ya like and so will i, this is but my opinion!!

Have fun in whatever it is YOU choose to do, Darlin.
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Jealousy is a ugly lil monster........
Posted:Oct 5, 2006 10:48 am
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2006 9:21 pm
13132 Views
Realize and understand this is but an opinion and if ya dont like it then do not read on!!!!

It was once said i was jealous.

Now that may be true of some things, ie: Skinny super model women that can get nearly any man they are after, Super rich that can buy anything a person could want, Stay at home moms that have never had to work. Those are the things i may be jealous of.

But lemme just say and make this perfectly clear and not hold back when i say, I am NOT nor will i ever be jealous of a woman thats fatter and in my opinion not near as attractive as me, with a job making less than half what i do a week that doesnt have the standards i do when it comes to men and life. Couldnt make a full sentence with the correct punctuation if her life depended on it.

Remember all people are jealous of something or somethings in life and well there is other things we will never be jealous of.

Good luck to u all and i wish u the happiest of hunting
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