chat room drama
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Posted:Oct 29, 2018 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2018 6:56 am
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here I go again, cant deep my mouth shut, the chat rooms here are for fun, and a great way to get to know people you would never have a chance to meet otherwise, maybe even make a meaningful connection, it does happen. however anyone that has been in these chat rooms have encountered drama of some sort, some from a simple misunderstanding, but some are created by lonely self centered trolls that hide behind a computer keyboard and get off by starting shit. these people ruin the experience for the real people that want to just chat and have fun. I have a solution to this problem that does work. don't give them the satisfaction, ignore them if they cant get someone riled up they will leave. many people already know this and do just that but it only takes on or two people to react to get these people to get them going and upset the whole room. they have no respect for the other people trying to enjoy themselves and get off disrupting the room, hit the ignore button and continue having fun, don't give them the satisfaction of a reaction and they will go away. I know some people that have been targets at times that have shown great restraint and earned my deep respect for it, no names if they read this they know who they are. all I want to say is our rooms are great places and we need to keep them enjoyable for everyone that's there for the right reasons. ignore the assholes, they will go away
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opinions and judgements
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Posted:Sep 30, 2018 9:55 am
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2019 11:57 am
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ok I admit I don't blog much, but I have to get my opinion out there through this blog. in a recent chat the subject of other peoples lifestyle came up and got pretty heated from different points of view. hey I get it from both sides, but I cant believe that people want to be judgemental and attack each other for there differences. people we are all different in different ways, because of out back grounds and past loves and loses I defines who we are now, but to judge others for who they are is wrong, if they are not hurting someone else. a quick analogy. if there was a room full of people wearing red shirts and someone walked in wearing a green shirt a number of people wearing red would immediately start condemning the one wearing green, because it was contrary to what everyone else was wearing. I know its a pretty shallow analogy, but really where do we draw the line? the truth is I will defend the rights of both sides for there opinions. they both have there reasons for having them. but will I be judgemental of them? hell no I wont. who the hell am I to decide who is right or wrong, I have my own faults, I have my own past and it made me what I am, when I was younger I thought differently, but I like to think ive grown wiser from it. so all im saying is when put in a situation like that, maybe we should take a step back and look at ourselves first. the worst part of that situation is I actually like both parties involved in the drama and its not that I wanted to get into with either, but maybe this post could bring a little harmony back. ok end of my rant. everybody enjoy
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