Gangbang group
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Posted:Dec 11, 2020 5:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2021 4:21 pm
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Even though we aren't really looking for single men (SMs), turns out we know a couple dozen of them from LS parties. While waiting for things get back normal, I decided start a gangbang group.
This is just an email distribution list of SMs we know that can perform in that type of scenario. Lots of guys find it hot, but not of them can perform around other guys.
We were already having parties and when things get safer, we'll likely add a new "guy heavy" party once in a while.
I was going say "gangbang party", but the reality is that these are really just more of a "guy heavy" party. We find a fair number of married men are either one and done, and/or have borderline ED issues.
It's also more a norm that the wives of these men are in their sexual prime and just simply want get well fucked. A lot of the husbands also enjoy seeing their wife have fun with multiple guys.
We've been and really enjoyed parties like this. One of our better ones had guys and 5 girls. The Mrs fucked 10 of the guys and I fucked 4 of the 5 girls. I usually don't do the Mrs at a party unless she's not being taken care of, and that wasn't an issue at this party.
A number of people see SMs as the scourge of the lifestyle, but that's because there are so many of them and many are their own worst enemy. I look at them like a potential resource, and a group like this is worth way more than the sum of it's parts.
We're lucky that we have a big house all ourselves and can do parties for the sheer fun of it at home. This means we don';t have charge for our parties. Since no money is involved, we have no reason invite people that aren't a good fit for our parties. Having can make someone feel "entitled" a good time. This just takes of that right out of the equation.
Anyway, if couples happen stumble across this and it's the type of party they've fantasized about, feel free reach out. Perhaps we can get together and see if you'd be a good fit for our parties 
As for SMs, we still meet with ones we don't know at LS parties (other than ours). Our parties are at our home, so we prefer to meet new SMs at a party where the Mrs and I can both with others and it allows us see first hand if a guy can perform in these sorts of situations. This way, they also don't know where we live if it doesn't work out.
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Another one bites the dust
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Posted:Dec 19, 2021 9:23 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 10:53 am
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So, I just wound up shooting down yet another single guy. I'm not saying that because I take pleasure in it. I do realize how hard it can be for single guys in the lifestyle (LS), but 90%+ just keep making the same stupid mistakes.
For example, our profile indicates that the male half is straight and that he is the one online 100% of the time. In this last case, this guy asked if I was Bi.
Sometimes guys will list as straight when they do actually engage in Bi play. I'm not one of them, but I let that slide. Then he asked if he was chatting with the Mrs.
Bzzzt. Next contestant please. I don't get why these guys expect me to share my time chatting with them when they can't be bothered to take a few minutes to read our profile.
The way that comes across is that the guy has no interest in us other than a means to get his needs/desires met. Speaking for us, this approach will fail 100% of the time, and it is likely to fail with every other couple he engages,
Our profile indicates that we are really only looking for couples, but once in a while, I will chat with a single guy online and have even arranged to meet them at a party, but it is probably 1 out of 100 guys. That isn't because we're so picky as it is that 90%+ guys shoot themselves in the foot.
If you are reading this then you are not likely part of that 90%+, but then, you probably are already successful on your own and don't need us to tell you all this
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Flirts and Hot Lists from guys
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Posted:Jan 18, 2021 4:02 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2021 6:23 am
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I realize that my target audience is very unlikely to read this, but when I click a flirt or hot list and see a dick pic (because that is your default profile picture), you have a less than zero chance of any sort of positive outcome with us.
In fact, unless you are for Bi guys, you likely have a less than zero chance with anyone else as well.
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How we got started in the lifestle (LS)
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Posted:Mar 12, 2020 3:30 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2020 2:20 pm
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We were actually married and monogamous for 29 years before getting into the LS. We wish we had done it sooner but, hey, you're ready when you're ready.
When we played with each other, more often than not we'd have porn on in the background. We found we just sort of gravitated towards the type of porn where two or more men were playing with one woman.
To be blunt, the Mrs gives awesome head and there are many times that I didn't want that to stop. I realize she has her needs too, so it isn't fair to expect her to just keep giving me a BJ.
One day while playing with the typical porn on in the background, this idea pops into my head. I just came right and asked her while she was giving me a BJ, "So, if I had another guy taking care of your needs down there, could I continue to get a BJ up here?"
I don't think she took more than two seconds to think about it and just said, "Sure, that would work for me." That was literally when and how we decided to get into the LS. I went online and, by that weekend, found a local LS Meet & Greet specifically for newbies.
We were scared to death the first time we went. We don't really know why. We just were. It turned out that was the week between Mass and NH school vacation so there were all of maybe 4 or 5 couples there total, but that was OK because it let us get used to the surroundings. We got to speak with the host and hostess a lot and that also helped.
We went to more parties there and eventually experienced our first soft swap with a couple we met and liked, and by about 6 months in we experienced our first full swap. Ironically we are still at it even though that first full swap didn't go well, but that's fodder for another blog post some day.
I will say though that our first full swap experience is probably the reason we do so well with newbies. We remember what our first time was like and we wouldn't wish that sort of experience on anyone, so we tend to be a lot more empathetic than most. We are also one of the rare experienced couples that will invest time and patience into newbies.
Also, in case single guys are reading this thinking we're into MFMs, I'd invite them to read our profile if they want to know what we're really looking for these days.
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Living the dream
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Posted:Mar 8, 2020 7:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2020 2:47 am
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We've been in the lifestyle (LS) for 6 years now and pretty much living a life we never even imagined in our wildest dreams when we first started.
One of the things we found we really enjoy is group sex. At the end of the night at our last party, there were about a dozen people in the bedroom with the king bed. For over 30 mins straight, I counted at least 9 people actively playing on or around the bed.
Watched the Mrs getting her mouth and pussy fucked at the same time while I fucked another girl basically doing the same. Being I share my toys, I tapped in another guy who was ready and looking to fuck and went and cleaned up so I could fuck the Mrs's mouth while yet another guy fucked her pussy. Pretty much that kind of play was going on all around us with others too.
Won't say that we've grown beyond porn, but more often than not, what we're doing is way hotter than most of the porn that we watch, which is kind of what got us statrted in the LS in the first place.
Unlike a lot of couples, I actually wind up playing more at parties than the Mrs. That is by her choice as she certainly has no lack of opportunity. As a result, we get to do things that many couples will not.
As an example, we went to a LS party and it just didn't really get going, so I took the Mrs to the public room and we played. Within a few minutes there were 4 black guys in there. Once the Mrs was properly stimulated I asked her if she wanted more cock, and she nodded and said, "Yes Sir". When all was said and done, all 4 of the black guys did her mouth and pussy 2 at a time, and 3 of them fucked her twice.
I would up fucking her 3 times and didn't play with any other girls that night. For a lot of couples, that would have been a nightmare for the male half but we both enjoy seeing and hearing each other having fun with others. It was my pleasure seeing and helping her get so well fucked and is obviously one of many fond memories we've made over the years. Our sex life together was always great, but it's phenomenal now.
Somehow, just when you wonder how things could get any better, they do. We wish all of you the kind of success we've had and, when our time comes, there will be no regrets from us or wondering about what could have been sexually.
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Show and tell
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Posted:Feb 25, 2020 2:53 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 10:53 am
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Along the lines of something mentioned in a prior post about actually doing, rather than saying, this post is fitting.
Went to a party this past Sat and the Mrs tells me she is going to play with a guy we met before. The party wears on, but no play time happened.
After the party I said, "I thought you were going to play with so and so?" She said she had planned on it, but then he started telling her about all the things he wanted to do to her and it was just a big turn off.
While guys might get excited by that kind of conversation, a lot of women (including the Mrs) are turned off by it. It wasn't that she disliked what he wanted to do, she just doesn't want to be told. Had the guy led her to a room and just DID what he said rather than talk about it, 2 people at that party would have been happier.
It's one thing to ask about something questionable, like anal play, but quite another to talk about common play time activities. Chances are, if you're telling a girl how well you're going to lick her pussy or fuck her silly, neither of those is going to happen.
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Dick pics
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Posted:Feb 1, 2020 1:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2020 5:41 am
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I'm not sure if anyone actually reads these blog posts, but if so, I would like to comment about the sea of SMs (and some couples) where their default profile picture is a dick pic. What can these people possibly be thinking?
If you were trying to pick up a girl in a bar, would you whip your dick out and ask her what she thought of that? Of course not. So what makes anyone think that's going to work here, or anywhere for that matter?
Even the Mrs, who loves cock, does not want to see a dick pic. She assumes you have one and is more interested in if you can use it when the time comes. It's something you need to show her too, not tell her.
So aside from a dick pic coming across as a total lack of class, as it turns out, the ones most turned on by dick pics are bi or gay guys. Since most of the online presence are men (and we are no exception), and I'm straight, a dick pic is just a big turn off and a hard NO right out of the gate for any SMs, and most couples too.
I'm not saying this to be mean. I'm saying this so that the smarter guys will learn how to do better here on Couples Dating, which is my motivation in taking the time to post this. I get that some don't want to post face pics, but a body shot wearing decent clothes with your head blurred/cropped will get you WAY more respect and action than a dick pic. That is unless you really are looking mainly for other bi or gay guys. Just something to think about if your main profile pic is a dick pic.
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What a long strange trip it's been
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Posted:Feb 12, 2018 11:05 am
Last Updated:Feb 29, 2020 7:42 am
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Haven't updated if these in quite a while and could write a book with our adventures since the last post. We've lived out fantasies we didn't even know we had...lol
We are more successful then we ever thought we'd be in our wildest dreams and have a large number of LS friends that are just like us.
Seems there are 3 major groups of couples. The largest seem to be looking primarily/only for women to join them. Others are looking for full on Bi experiences and I can safely say we fall into neither of those groups.
We started having our own house parties on occasion and have had some with close to 40 people, all like us. We don't advertise because it's only people we know, and we don't charge because we feel the motivation for profit kind of ruins it.
It's awesome to have a party with so many fun and social people that are under roof to party. We pretty much have people naked and ing within 30 minutes or less of the start time. Also because we don't charge, we don't feel like we have to the host role once things get going, so we get to enjoy our own parties.
We have found that we seem to have a knack for being able to develop those supposed elusive 4 way connections. Since we get to so often we feel no need to pressure any, which is why I think we get to so much
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Party time
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Posted:Aug 9, 2017 3:20 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 10:53 am
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We have been to a few clubs and parties and have found that this is the best way to meet new people. Ones we've attended are house parties like Mojos, TwoSwingingChicks and Europa when it existed, hotel parties like Nooners and Mass Pleasures, and clubs like Twilight, Sinz, Fantasy Fridays and Choice.
We have found we get the most bang for the buck with the hotel parties. These tend to be a little guy heavy but there are enough girls for me to play with and the Mrs has a VERY good time at these.
Next would be the house parties with Mojos being one of our favorites. With a typical party being 150-200 people where they serve a full meal, have rooms to play in, and it's BYOB for only $60/couple, it's hard to beat.
Our least favorite are the clubs, though we do enjoy one once in a while and prefer an on-premise one over just the meet and greet ones. Ironically it's the meet and an greet ones that tend to be the most expensive and prove the least action.
Feel free to ask us any questions about any of these parties.
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Not an 80%er
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Posted:Aug 9, 2017 3:06 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 10:53 am
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We've been in the LS since Feb 2014 and I still continue to see a lot of what I call "80%er's". These are couples looking either primarily or only for single girls.
Ironically, we wind up coming across single girls and have gotten to know a few and we are one of the few couples not really looking for them. Kind of like looking for that misplaced item in your house and you come across other lost things that you weren't looking for
Don't get me wrong. I understand the appeal, but as the male half of the couple I'm as much or more interested in seeing the Mrs have a good time as anything I'm doing, and she prefers cock. She feels the same way about seeing me have a good time, which is good because the cuckold thing doesn't work for either of us.
Luckily for us we have found a number of couples that are just like us. We have even had some private parties with as many as 30+ people, all like us. Our list has been slowly growing to a point where we would not have room for parking if everyone we invited showed up. I can think of much worse problems to have...lol
Anyway, if you're a couple with a high sex drive that wants to play with other couples and aren't opposed to condom use, aren't looking for an exclusive relationship, don't have a ton or rules and pretty much just want to have fun then hit us up. We do not charge for our parties because we treat them like entertaining friends, and are friends have the benefits that make life so much fun for us.
We aren't Barbie and Ken and don't expect you to be, but we also aren't too hard on the eyes and are looking for the same. We aren't overly picky and attitude is every bit as important for us as looks. We have found and played with sexy people ranging from 20s to 70s and everything in between, so age is even less important so long as you are reasonably healthy and try to take care of yourself.
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