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The Realisation that All Men are not the same.
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Posted:Sep 19, 2013 6:05 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2013 6:42 pm
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After fleeing a domestic violence situation 4 months ago my self esteem, courage and faith was in tatters.
I was depleted snd lost faith that genuine human beings were few and far between.
I'm a good person. A great friend. A kind caring individual that puts the needs of others before herself.
In a relationship. I will love you with my entire heart and sacrifice anything for you. The one thing I need not plan on sacrificing was my faith and hopes for my future and happiness.
I landed on my friends doorstep with the clothes in my back, a broken heart and apprehension.
Would I ever recover from this?
YES
I was selective. I was scared. I was nervous.
An inbox message from a stranger renewed my faith in man kind. Well specifically Men.
It was not your normal message. It had heart. It had intelligence and an underlying spirit that surpassed the writers years. Someone 22yrs my junior., who had not experienced one tenth of what I had experienced in my life was able to break the wall that I had built in a matter of moments.
By simply putting together sentences that touched another person he did what my friends and family could not do and that was give me hope.
98 percent of us are on here looking for sex. Ive said before it's so easy to get that.
But I am one of the 2 percent looking for an ongoing connection with another person.
A wise person once said to me....its easy to fuck someone but to make love to their mind is something very rare.
Sadly, and more often than not. The person who stimulates you mentally is not "the one".
They are the people who you will be life long friends with.
I cannot thank my new friend enough for allowing me to connect with him. He simply does not realise the power of his words and sadly too many of the women on this site will bypass an extraordinary human being because they cant look past themselves.
My life is not great and wont be for ages. But when it does get better the one person I have to thank is someone who a couple of weeks ago was a stranger.
I refuse now to continue to degrade myself by simply "hooking up" with anyone like I did in the past. I will no longer be the experiment to see if you like larger women....
Trust me I'm great in bed. But by no means will I be someones dirty little secret.
Gentleman!!! Learn a lesson from a 24yr old. Stimulate my mind and you might just be lucky enough to get to know me xx
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My Thoughts....
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Posted:Apr 15, 2009 2:20 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2013 1:23 pm
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After the easter weekend and having time to laze about and play on the group on this site i came to the following conclusion.
Some Larger women really have confidence issues. Me, I love who i am. I'm a good person with good values. I love the fact that on this website i can find men that find a woman of my build attractive.
I am concerned that people have self esteem issues, is that why we are on dating/sex websites????
Do we try to use these sites to mask things that we have issues with concerning ourselves????
Is this a way that we can hide and be someone that we really are not?????
I have had my up's and downs on this website, but lately it has been more UP than DOWN. (Thank God)
I truly believe that this site and its groups are a great friendship and networking building experience. One group that i am on has helped me immensely.... A QLD & BBW Admirers.
I was extremely depressed when i moved from Sydney to Queensland and in the groups own way, just through nice fun comments and general chat they helped me get through what was a very emotional and hard time. They made me laugh and they made me think. They made me realise that i was not as alone as i felt in this fine state as i thought i was.
I suddenly, and unexpectedly started to form bonds and what have worked out to be lasting friendships.
I quickly found out that this site even tho it is targeted at SEX it is not just about that. It really is as the title suggests.....Couples Dating.
Well i just wanted to put a voice to the thoughts in my head.
Hugs
Tina
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Confused a bit....not really just annoyed!!!
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Posted:Mar 30, 2009 6:09 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2013 6:08 am
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Well, i have been on this site for almost six months....i used in it Sydney, it was great.
I must say after the weekends events i became more than a little disheartened with the system.
I chatted to quite a few men via messages and IM chat...all good.
I selectively chose one mid afternoon to speak to more privately, details exchanged etc.....agreement to meet, shower dress up, hair nails, looking pretty damn stunning if i do say so...lol
So this guy goes past the meet point and then apparently keeps going. I wait a good amount of time, AN HOUR....and go home.
his mobile is turned off and i have been blocked on MSN. How rude....
I get an email saying i was too fat for him to meet...WTF...read my profile, look at my pics, larger is larger not a size 10....what do you think BBW stands for????
Maybe men and some women should read profiles, listen to conversations, look at and absorb pictures that are sent....
See what is there, make a judgement, haave the manners to say "i'm sorry your not my type"....
Due to internet sites have we forsaken all manners and general common courtesy? Does our anonimity on here allow us to become less caring and considerate people?
I hope not.
Thats my rant......x
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