Killing time.....
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Posted:Nov 9, 2005 6:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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So some might wonder what the hell I am up to when I am not here - besides normal stuff I mean. What boring things do I do to keep myself entertained?
Camming? Used to do it all the time, I mean I was using a camera to chat with people 10 years ago, those were the days (and I mean actually chatting - not just sex on cam stuff). Haven't connected up - or turned on a camera in probably 6 months or longer - not that I would be against it - just no one has expressed an interest in seeing me (and by me I mean my smiling face you dirty minded readers!!). Oh, perhaps I should say that no one has an interest in seeing me that I could also see , it is a two way street with me, too many guys out there pretending to be women, if you want to cam with me you need to have a camera so I can see if you relaly are laughing when you type LOL (Seeing someone rofl is even better).
IM programs? Again - pretty much nothing - just haven't used them of late - I do have all of them (wonder if I just listed the names of the programs if the all seeing Couples Dating gods would smite me...) - I have mm, aohell,Y, iseeq, and have tried others as well (no comment on this sites im program).
So what do I do?
I watch TV and update my website (yes - I have a website that actually makes me money - a lot of money relatively speaking during part of the year actually).
I catch up on current events - I have always been one of those people who know a little about a lot.
I play online poker, this I just need to stop, no that I am gambling my life savings away, but just when I start to get ahead I play stupidly and have to start rebuilding my tiny bankroll. It sucks me in and the benefits are very low, although all the practice has made me a much better player at my semi-weekly poker game with friends.
Lately I have been playing around with photoshop. There are a few sites online that have contests where you can make up pictures (using other pictures - know what I mean?). It is another diversion but I do enjoy the challenge.
What I would REALLY like is to have a local woman challenge me mentally, I am really ready again for the rush of meeting someone new and learning all about them and the possibility that I might actually get to meet someone again, its been far too long!!
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This is November?
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Posted:Nov 9, 2005 5:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Here in Indiana I think it is already 60 degrees out today - whats the deal with the weather?
Boring topic I know - but I am TRYING to keep myself posting!!
I would like ot request a whole new batch of REAL women to please move into my area or get online.
I know some of you are out there - cmon - give me a wink or a shout.
(Am I sounding desperate yet?)
I also need to stop playing online poker - would much rather be playing real life Poke Her (rimshot).
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An oldie but a goodie....
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Posted:Nov 3, 2005 11:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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If you are 'new' to the blogs you may have never come across Elysium7 's blog - they stopped posting last June but what is there is well worth reading if you enjoy well written 'real life' stories about a couple and their sexcapades.
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Generic Profiles....
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Posted:Nov 3, 2005 9:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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In my fruitless search for some local folks I have noticed that more and more profiles are showing up with the generic info that Couples Dating introduced a few months ago.
So it leads me to again wonder how many of these profiles are real - and WHY anyone would send a message to someone that composed it.
I realize I am preaching to the choir here but good golly - if I have to read one more profile from a woman who isn't changing her lifestyle, just driving off a cliff (or however it goes), I'm gonna scream!!!
blog on!!
and my mood is in reference to a fellow blogger who posted on the bitch topic recently 
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Popularity.... revisited.
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Posted:Nov 2, 2005 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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ok - I said my next post would be about the do's and don'ts for the men on Couples Dating but I changed my mind.
I've been blogging since I think March - with a couple of BIG breaks in tossed in. And I think I was relaly part of the second wave of bloggers so there are those that were around before me that have seen the site change even more.
Up until very recently the right hand column of the main blog area listed the most popular blogs, then the most popular men, and most popular couple's blogs (the women were not listed but since they occupy most of the top 10 of the entire blogging community you mihgt understand why).
Couples Dating has now changed the way they rank blogs, I am sure it is logical but I haven't tried to figgure it out yet.
At one point I myself was in the top 10 or 15 - but those days are long gone now (boo hoo) - I did wonder how I compared to the other guys so I went to see if the old method worked to look up the 'most popular' whatever - and it does 
So here is how you can do it - the following url is what you need to begin - then you just add a number at the end depending on the kind of catagory you want to look up.
http://Couples Dating.com=Couples Dating&show_sex=1
to that replace the one with following numbers for each catagory:
1=Male
2=Female
3=Couples (all couples I think)
4=Groups
5=Couples (Two females)
6=Couples (Two males)
7=Trans
I did notice that I had to agree that I was over 18 before I got to the results page but that is because the link is generic and does log you in (you guys do know that ANYONE can see the blogs right??).
Enjoy!!!
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The never ending question - Is it worth it?
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Posted:Nov 2, 2005 10:46 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Telling myself I am going to go for quality and not quantity I will try today to re-address the question of the value of Couples Dating to the average MALE - women you will have to decide on your own if it is worth paying to be a silver or gold member.
I have been a member on and off for several years - in my pre-silver days I actually did meet one woman - she had managed to slip in one of those sneaky clues into her profile (actually it wasn't sneaky and I think I just caught it before they did). But that is it - one person - and that was before the blogs existed.
Once I got my silver membership I was able to mail people at will - which didn't mean I suddenly had lots of women wanting to talk to me, it just meant I was writig a LOT of mail and getting no replies - or the occasional "I don't screw around with married men" comments.
But persistence did pay off and I have managed to meet a few very nice women from Couples Dating - and I felt that the end result was enough to justify paying for another year. I mean would YOU pay $100 to meet just one person that you mihgt have some chemistry with? Someone that you were at least somewhat familiar with before you ever met? For me, and my financial situation it was worth it. For many others I am sure it isn't.
Thankfully you can still be a blogger for free - I have actually 'met' more women via my blog than I ever did with my other membership - the problem of course is distance and I have never met anyone in person that I have communicated with via the blog. And who knows - the big wigs at Couples Dating gave several of us 6 month GOLD memberships last summer - maybe they will decide to do the same agin in the near future
I'm going to post this one and then post my thoughts on the do's and don'ts of initiating contact with the lovely women of this site.
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Hello again...
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Posted:Oct 24, 2005 11:13 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Yes, tis me again.... I decided to pay for a year of silver yet again - If I manage to meet anyone in person it will be worth it - but its been a loooonnngggg time.
I see many of the same blogs are still up and running - now lets just see if I can make the rounds and say hello to all of you.
I also hope to go digging for some littel read blogs and point everyone to them to encourage newer members to keep on blogging!!
and with that I am off to bed to dream of some lovely vixen letting me have my way with her to our mutual satisfaction!!
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A simple experiment......
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Posted:Sep 1, 2005 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Please check out this blog entry and let me know if you see it: lol - my post was denied - a bit late though - some had seen it....
If you do - try to post a comment there please - just a hello.
I might have discovered the secret to life, the universe and everything..... at the very least I will have discovered how to go places some folks think we can't.
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A walk down memory (blog) lane....
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Posted:Sep 1, 2005 10:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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This friendly site (as some call it) has had a lot of turnover in the blogs since I began posting back in March of this year. I wasn't even in the first 'wave' - back then I was seen as a newcomer.
Then I dissapeared and while I was a 'most watched' blogger for quite a while after I stopped blogging, I now am no longer one of the most watched but for those that do stop by and have not visited my blog - I discovered a 'new' (to me anyways) feature that allows me to easily point you to some of my favorite entries....
It all depends on what you are looking for....
Want a story about a long lost love? Check out this entry: Lost love
How about guys pretending to be women? Here is one of my entries on that: Camming and Scamming guess we have all been there
This one will make some of you smile: So hard and no one to help me
I pondered about my age and being honest in this one: Snap judgements what to tell and not tell
Ok thats a start - if you comment in any of those I may not see them - but you are certainly welcome to try!!
I'll dig through some more older ones later - and will begin looking for the diamond in the rough blogs - those that should be read and seem to be missed...
(my mood is because I am having a minor medical procedure tommorow - it is VERY minor and I will be fine - but it might knock me off my feet for a couple days so don't go thinking i have dissapeared again!)
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Philosophical mumbo-jumbo....
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Posted:Aug 30, 2005 11:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Some of you men out there really need to lighten up a lil.....
sorry - just spent a lil time reading some of the newer male blogs - or perhaps they are olde blogs I missed before.
not going to point any out in particular but ummm - guys - this is a sex site - not a place to write your master's thesis on humanity...
then again - if the chicks dig it....
Life...
There are days I feel like a tiny speck of dust floating in the middle of the vastness of a Kansas fiel of swaying wheat....
oh nevermind - I can't do it....
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Reality Check... my guilty pleasure
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Posted:Aug 30, 2005 10:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I like "Reality" shows.
Not all of them mind you - the whole genre has gone bonkers - but I do enjoy a few select shows.
Understand that I DON'T think they are 'real.' Its just entertainment, but it sure can be fun to watch at times.
My favorite has to be Big Brother - now the TV part of the show is average at best - its the fact that you can watch the goings-on 24x7 over the internet that makes this show interesting. Then I get to see how the producers take what has really gone on and try to spin it into an interesting TV show.
The original Average Joe - loved it - even thought poor Adam Mesh lost (he is now engaged btw).
The 'original' (the USA version wasn't the fist of course) survivor - another gem - Richard Hatch won for all the right reasons - he played the game better than anyone else - since then there have been 'winners' that seemed to win because they got buddy buddy with people.
Amazing Race - thats the one show I would like to be on.
The Mole - ahh Anderson Cooper - I miss that show - the 'celebrity' versions were interesting but not as good as the ones with unknowns.
I know there are tons of other ones - the best Fake reality show was the original Joe Schmo - a classic show where poor "Joe" was the only one not in on the joke - and all the other 'contestants' did a great job of spoofing the various other 'reality shows.'
Big Brother 6 is winding down - wanna know who will get thrown out Thursday? I have known since Saturday...... The next Survivor starts in a couple weeks - I have mixed feelings about it but I will tune up my Tivo to catch it.
Do you despise reality shows? Have a favorite?
Let me know!!!!
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Me at 40.... not bad if I do say so myself!!
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Posted:Aug 30, 2005 7:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Just took this picture.... then again I only took my profile 4 or 5 months ago so other than being a few pounds lighter things look about the same.
Are you happy with your body? I realize this can be a touchy subject for some. There have been times I was NOT happy with my body but that was a few pounds ago and a few years - if I can keep things where they are now I will be a happy camper
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You say its your birthday?
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Posted:Aug 30, 2005 6:20 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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You say it's your birthday
It's my birthday too, yeah
They say it's your birthday
We're gonna have a good time
I'm glad it's your birthday
Happy birthday to you
Yes we're going to a party party
Yes we're going to a party party
Yes we're going to a party party.
I would like you to dance
(Birthday)
Take a cha-cha-cha-chance
(Birthday)
I would like you to dance
(Birthday)
Dance
I would like you to dance
(Birthday)
Take a cha-cha-cha-chance
(Birthday)
I would like you to dance
(Birthday)
Dance
You say it's your birthday
It's my birthday too, yeah
They say it's your birthday
We're gonna have a good time
I'm glad it's your birthday
Happy birthday to you
Couples Dating - please let me keep my golden ticket!! lol
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