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Posted:Feb 21, 2007 5:23 pm
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Ok, so I really couldn't stay away. Too many great photo's to look at. 
But in all seriousness, the reason i came back in to Couples Dating was to check out if there were any new ladies in my area. There were a few. It's nice to know that there are women out there from the area looking to get acquainted and who don't have a hang up about sex or swinging.
I've recently joined another site at the behest of an old GF, not that she's old or nor is it that we don't want to be together anymore, it's just a distance thing. Anywho...On this new site I've gotten a number of inquiries from local women, and we've talked a bit. Suffice to say I've made some new on line friends. Thing that bugs me about this site is the qualifying blockers that some put on their profiles. The blocks are there for whom they will and won't allow to send them mail. One of the stated reasons is " Must not be looking for an intimate encounter" Ok, now I'm no fool. I didn't expect to have sex with someone from this site on the first meeting..but if one is looking for a relationship..yes and some even mention they're looking for a long term thing..marriage even...then wouldn't you think that an intimate encounter would happen some where along the way? I mean sex aside...wouldn't kissing and hugging come into play? Maybe even a little petting? Seriously..it boggles the mind to think that someone would agree to be with someone of the opposite sex and not be looking for an intimate encounter.
Okay, maybe it's just a man thing? It is said we have sex on the brain 24/7. But lets face it women think about sex as well...I've even heard rumors that some think about it as much as men. ( I can never seem to meet up with any of them  )
So, I thought to myself why not go back to Couples Dating?
At least in here you don't have to play the silly games.
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Posted:Dec 25, 2006 9:17 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2007 4:23 pm
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Seems I've been neglecting my blog on Couples Dating, yeah I have. I must confess I really haven't been in much. When they changed formats and took away the stand's ability to even wink, well I guess it kind of pissed me off.
Now as a former gold member, and silver I understand the why to's and what for's of running a business such as Couples Dating. Hey everyones got to make a living right? But taking away the winks from standard members..well that's down right Scroogian of them, and this being Christmas and all well I thought I let them know.
Not that I can't afford the membership..just that it's a hassle of sending away a check in the snail mail to re up.
Not that I got alot of email from members on here anywho..Yeah, I met a nice couple that's true, we have become great friends and get together when we can. But for the most part it's been the players that turned me off of re joining. The look-ie Lou's, and ones who talk a good game but when it comes down to meeting.....well they have other plans that evening...or can't make it cause the husband, or wife won't let them out. I've run across any number of excuses. But the worst are the ones who set up a meeting and don't show. Players....I've tried to look past it, even went so far as DL the re up application to send it away. But, with the troubles I've come across here opted not to send it out.
Thing is with the winks, you usually get the real people who answer you, that is wink back. Send you an e-mail. But now even that is gone, with out the wink capability it's nothing more than a photo site for me.
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Shall we dance......................................
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Posted:Oct 15, 2006 2:13 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2006 2:15 pm
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An honest question, one that begs for attention in it's asking. It's hard to start anything with out asking a question first. Think about it, your making cookies for the first time, you ask yourself the question where do I start? Need to drive a long distance to get to that new vacation spot..you ask the question..well how do I get there?
Our lives are a series of questions, from the time we learn how to think and do for ourselves, the questions why, and how are there. How do I confront my boss and ask him for that raise I need? I wonder if that sexy woman at the end of the bar will be offended if I offered to buy her a drink?
How we deal with those questions, is how we are able to get by in life. If we ask the questions we move forward, we progress. If we remain mute we stagnate. Our lives become hum-drum, we plod through our daily routine always knowing that the outcome of the days events will be the same as the day before.
My original intent with joining Couples Dating was to meet a woman I could connect with, someone with the same outlook on life, and the lifestyle I have come to know, and become a part of. I have talked to many women, and couples for that matter, and I've asked the questions. I've gone on dates, had "first meetings" and still the questions remained unanswered, not for a lack of asking. But, I think because they themselves didn't ask the right questions of me. Perhaps they did and I wasn't listening? Going through life on autopilot can be confusing, not only to ourselves but to others as well.
So, Shall we dance?
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A question..............................
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Posted:Oct 6, 2006 5:49 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2006 5:52 pm
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So, your invited to a BD&SM party, the invatation says black tie. Now, do you go to the party wearing your best, or did the invite mean the color of ropes you were to bring?
Hard to judge that one....having attended a number of such affairs, one could take it either way. What brought the question to my mind was I had been chatting with woman I know who is a very dominante mistress...I'll be helping her out tomorrow with moving some furniture around, more like helping her direct two of her subs. (moving her bedroom to the first floor of her home as she's having surgery soon on her knee)
The question just sorta poped into my head, having a well versed Mistress at hand I asked her what she thought? Needless to say when I explained it to her..she was amused. In case your wondering, I'm not really into the whole S&M thing, to me it can be down right silly. I mean if I'm going to punish someone I'm not going to beat them..cause that's what they really want in the first place. If you really wanted to punish them I'd do the whole vinella sex route, better yet.. strip them nude tie them to the bed posts and then just walk away. Come back a hour or so later untie them, have them get dresses and send them home. (and people wonder why I'm called evil?)
I guess it takes all kinds to make a world. I don't judge anyone on their likes or dislikes. I've tried many things, and everything has it's place. But, a steady diet of the same thing all the time just gets boring..no matter what your into. Some days you may feel like a bananna split, other days just a plain cone. It's your choice..choose wisely.
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The case of the lost Peanut............Found.....................
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Posted:Sep 29, 2006 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2006 3:09 am
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Nope my life hasn't stopped, just haven't been in in a while is all. Been having fun, meeting with my friends as often as I can so things are going ok.
Interesting discussion ensued last Saturday evening while I was out at my "couple" friend's place. Seems their had related a story to them concerning a peanut and where he happened to find said peanut. Now far be it from me to discuss other peoples sexual preferences, or quirks but I must admit this one for the books.
Seems the good lad had been down town eating at the Y and for a lark decided to go further downtown..well en route it seems he picked up some munchies along the way. Or is that a munch..singular, rather then plural...anywho next thing he knows hes got a peanut in his mouth...Now as we all know peanuts are a tasty and nutritious treat, but finding one lodged between her cheeks while pleasuring your lady can be quite up setting, not to mention extremely awkward. I can picture it now....Gackk..awkk...er...Honey...ah...were you perhaps saving this for later? I mean if you want it..I can place it on the night stand for you?
Needless to say, I never did find out whether or not she answered in the affirmative. I could see a scenario where someone might have been having a snack in bed, watching TV...those things are small and tend to get lost quite easily. I could also imagine said peanut getting lodged in the place it was found, by mere chance...stranger things have happened. But, like I said..it's one for the books.
So, next time your downtown, and are getting kind of hungry...remember "Be careful what you wish for you just may get it"
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Monday on a Tuesday............................
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Posted:Sep 5, 2006 5:54 pm
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Ever notice how much a pain in the butt it is to get out of bed in the morning on a monday? Well I felt that way this morning..almost called off and played hookie, but I wouldn't have gotten paid for yesterday, and the boss wanted me to look at some machines that needed fixed. So, it was off to work for me, trouble was with the holiday...the schedule was all screwed up..had to do the work I normaly do on Mondays as well as Tuesdays work. WoooooooooooHoooooooooooooo!!!!!
I love holidays, a day of rest so I can go back and work twice as hard. Only in Amerika!
I need a vacation, I got the days coming, trouble is if I use them I go back and no ones done the work I would have done if I'd have been there. The Boss keeps pestering me..asking when I'm gonna take my time, she wants to clean off the books before the end of the year. To be truthfull, I have no desire to take time and come back afterwards and do double duty, or triple duty to get caught up. Sorta a catch 22 problem.
Maybe if I had a hot babe I could take to a deserted isle where we could lay nude in the sun all day sipping tropical drinks I'd go. Couple of problem with that..one - I don't no any single ladies who'd agree to go and two - I don't have to cash flow to pay for it. Ah well, maybe i can find some one who'll be happy just sitting under a heat lamp watching movies in my queen sized bed.
Any takers???????
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What dream is this.................................
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Posted:Sep 2, 2006 10:16 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2007 12:49 pm
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I have a recurring dream..that progresses..I know strange...and it's in color no less.
For starters I woke up at four am this morning, not something too make my weekend to say the least, as I prefer to sleep in. Anywho, after playing on line for a bit and getting my freak on..or should that be getting my freak off, I went back to bed.
The dream started innocently enough..me visiting ex relatives I don't have, that is to say in my alternate dream existence I'm in a new town, doing things with new friends, and living a what seems to be a normal life all of which seems very real to me as I'm dreaming.
So I'm visiting these "new" relatives and the purpose of my visit is to return a set of car keys to an ex wife..here it gets a little fuzzy..in my dream the ex wife is a different woman then my "real" ex wife, but she looks the same? go figure that out ( probably my dream gods way of keeping me unawares of what she really looks like, the new ex wife that is) Ok as I arrive, I walk into the house and the family her relatives are all sitting around the dining room table, and i'm told that she is downstairs doing laundry and will be up when she's done changing over the clothes from the washer to the dryer. Cool I'm thinking, while I wait I engage in conversation with her grandmother (doesn't look like the real ex's grandmother) While I'm waiting I glance into the living room. Nice place I think to myself..big, expensive looking. I notice on the mantle over a fireplace a huge crucifix, done totally in Jade no less..and it's life sized. At this point I'm lead out of the house by the grandmother and her cat to her car, a caddy, two toned and had seen better days. I remark to grand-ma that it looked nice, and I bet it must have been hot in it's day. Thinking I meant the cat she replies that yes it was,but cats get old and there was nothing anyone could do about that. We get in to go out for ice cream..following that same highway I've been down in all the dreams that lead up to this one. Seeing the ice cream place to my astonishment Grand ma does a one eighty into the parking lot doing what appears to be ninety, coming to a full circle stop in a parking place. At that point I notice that grand ma has by passed the ice cream parlor and pulled in behind it to what appears to be a truck stop.
A guy walks up, and from his uniform I know he works at the stop, asks grand ma if it's the usual and she says yes..gets out her side and he starts helping her take her dress off....She say's to me I need a shower first and then we can have some fun.......I'm thinking OK..this is weird, I've been with grandmothers before..but this woman doesn't do it for me, just not my type as this is running through my head..she says "hey!, get real guy I'm just pulling your leg" Nude now, she tells me she'll be right back.... That's when I woke up. Thinking to myself
this has got to be the strangest of these dreams yet.......Not so.......I must have fell back asleep cause the next thing I knew I was explaining the dream to some friends..the new friends I haven't met yet that live in this new town where I've been living this alternate life in my dreams, so I'm explaining it to them and when I get to the part where grand ma is getting her dress pulled over her head by the truck stop attendant, I realize dude..your in a dream telling dream people about a dream you just had...and wake up. I think I need to see a shrink.
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Posted:Aug 16, 2006 4:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2006 4:44 pm
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The devil you say?!?
Nope, it's true. According to the Get Local Page for the Erie area, that's the number of women looking for men in this town.
Now, with all those women who are looking in the area you'd think my mail box would be bursting, and the number of new winks sent to me would be astronomical. But no....silly me I've forgotten that nice guys finish last.
Ah well, it's not all as bad as it seems. I did manage to spark the interest of one fair lady. Seems she loved reading about my crazy dreams. 
Told me so when she invited me to join her network! I guess Karma really does work sometimes, though I'm not bad enough to start making a list to cross things off. Hey don't let the Evil handle fool you, I got that because a group of friends I use to hang out with had another Tim in it...they called him "Sweet Tim", so that naturally left "Evil Tim" for me. Nicknames..gotta love em....better then the one I had in school though. No, I'm not going to dredge that out in the open for you guys..Forget I mentioned it....hey..just forget it..no...I'm not telling...
Anywho....Wanted to say Hi, and thanks to the lady in a post...courage like hers for inviting me to become a member in her network deserves a round of applause! 
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Posted:Aug 13, 2006 8:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 9:4 am
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Another week in the vault. Same old things happening in the day to day world. No outlandish dreams of late..chalk that up to sleeping well.
Got an IM from Kim, chastizing me for not talking to her while I'm on line. Trouble is I never know if it's her or her . Last time I Im'ed her it was her ...my opening salvo..well lets just say it refured to a fun time between us..and the didn't get the reference..more so, was taken aback by it. Kim's doing well, The chemo, and radiation is going along as expected, Her is in the land of 90210 and will be back Monday night. Her had a scare...spinal Meningitis..was in hospital for some time and Kim being treated for cancer couldn't go to see him...no immunity to buffer the virus he had.
My has a new G/f...you know what's really weird? Greeting your 's overnight guest after he's left for the day..I didn't know what to do..like should I offer her breakfast or what?
Number two was over this weekend as well...stopped by to use the phone. My was here as well, using the computer to argue with her mother long distance via e-mail. ( the cat issue again...for what it's worth..I'd keep the cat, doen't make messes or cause disturbances), but I just like to twist the screws on the ex..make her sweat some, lord knows she did it to me enough.
Boss at work wants me to put in more hours..fixing equipment for her..hell, all I need to do now is start doing the time cards and I'm doing her job for her. But then the secretary wouldn't have anything to do but answer the phone, so I'll let her keep doing the time cards. Anywho..it's more hours, and I could use the overtime, and it's not like I spend too much time there now...olny 42.5 hours a week is all..lol Been warned I can't go over 45 hours though...still, what can they do if I do...nada..but pay me. If they beef..I'll say "hey, if you sent the work out I would cost you more." (and it would) So it's either pay me or pay more, their choice. As it is I'd leave in a nano second if the right job offer came around.
Ah well, guess that's about it folks..not earth shattering I know..but what do you want for sunday?
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Strange dreams...............Again.........................
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Posted:Aug 9, 2006 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 9:4 am
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Ok, I had oatmeal for dinner so that wasn't it. I sort of remember switching the TV over to catch Leno's monolog and not too much after that.
Fade in:: Seems I was in that very same town I got lost in the last time I had the strange dreams. I was out and about with a friend, God knows who the guy was never seen him before, but we were having a grand time bar hopping, walking up and down the avenue, stopping at all the towns hot spots, walking past a local supermarket, and accross the street a high class resturant, I begain expouting to any one near at hand never to eat there as the over priced steaks they sell as certified black angus, is nothing more than the bargan beef they sell at the store next door. (As if anyone in this place would care? Or if I'd ever eaten or shoped at either place at all) Then the guy I'm with tells me he has to take a piss, As he walks behing the next bar to do so, he shouts out "Hey! Tim come here I want to show you something." Ok...I've been down this road a few times in my life, and it suddenly struck me that the guy I was with....well I knew he was gay, not that it mattered or anything, and having never seen this person in my waking life I knew this to be a fact. Anywho..I yell back " I've seen one dude, got my own if I wanted to see yours I would have asked." By that time I'm rounding the building and he points to the back parking lot...comming across the lot are the greatest looking women I've seen in a long time(?) So it seems like a long time..dreamland can be tricky like that. Anywho......turns out there are about five or six of them, I walk over and start up a conversation with the cute blonde, she stops, sits down on the curb and the others gather around, she starts by opening her purse and pulling out the makings for a joint, and as she's rolling one asks me why I never called her like I said I was going too? Ok...now I'm not Don Juan, never in my entire life has a woman of this stature ever given me the time of day, let alone been dejected because I failed to call her (like that would ever happen) I open my mouth to answer her.......and at that moment I woke up!!!!
Ok, here's the strange part..just waking up I thought I had to get ready for work, ya know..jump in the shower..etc..I felt great, rested like I slept for eight hours... calm ready to start another dull day. I look at the clock and it's only one thirty am..I'd been asleep for maybe an hour or so!!!!!
I have no idea where this stuff comes from, but it seems I've moved someplace new and I'm making friends..more so I'm making love connections. First the ladies in the thrift store ( last dream) and now this bevy of cuties, who from the looks and general demeanor of them seem to know me very well indeed. Nothing like this has ever happened to me, nor has anything like this ever been even remotely a fantasy of mine. But, it's weird, that I know these people...and, I know that life, almost as I know my own. It can't be a past life regression..as all the suroundings seem up to date, and the only other thing I can think of is it's a parallel universe I slip into when I close my eyes at night...If so, how do I get a ticket to this place for a vacation?
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It seems I have a cat..............Oh Joy..................................
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Posted:Aug 3, 2006 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 9:4 am
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As I sit her writing this my one and only is picking up her things to move them over to her cousins place. She's staying with her to watch the for her, and to earn some money.
Well the cat is hers, seems the cousin has three already and can't take any more. So, the cat is here now.and I'm filled with joy..not. It's not that I hate cats, I don't really, just that I'm a person. Cats and I don't get along...thing is I don't trust them. Their too....well independent.
It's like they KNOW you can't order them around as you would a dog, their attitude is I do what I want when I want..and screw you if you don't like it. It should be an interesting few weeks, Yes the kitty isn't staying long..she's to be shipped to Texas to my ex wife home..or I should say camper home ( Now, don't ask me why...but some times I find myself wishing for another huricane to hit) But I digress...so for the next few weeks little kitty is boarding here not the type of pussy I was hopeing for..but hey we can't always have what we want.
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Posted:Jul 23, 2006 9:27 pm
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There is no hope left on this ship, we sit here marooned in space deep with a gas nebula cloud, all our atemps at comunication have failed....ok, I lost you using the stardate right? Seems I've been losing most of my readers lately. I guess I just don't get my main point across. As with the last blog entry...seems one person thought I was asking for advice on what to do when your hand got numb..no dear, on the contrary I was being funny, just grabbing the attention of the masses.
Sorry if I missled you that was not my intent. Then there is L&H, no guys I wasn't being depresed about being such a burden..I was trying to be funny is all. Guess I shouldn't try to be funny..never was my strong suit anywho. But's that's me...I know a great deal about a lot of things..My ex wife got to the point where she refused to play trivial pursuit with me any more as I'd always win. Not that I'm saying I'm smart..nooooooooooo. Just that I have a head for useless facts. Jeopardy can be a challange sometimes when they get into the final round..but then I'm not there writing down the answer for a cash prize so it really doesn't affect me so much.
Yesterday while waiting for some friends to get home from work, I made the time pass by doing the crossword puzzles in the newspaper I brought along. (in pen) I also do the criptoquips...after gettibg done with that, I sat down to watch TV, Ok so it was a video game their was playing..sue me. When their came over with the paper and asked how I had solved the quips, I tried explaining how I did it to her, but it was sort of like trying to explain the color blue. That it is..you know it's blue. You see it and it's blue. It's like that for me..I see things as they are, I can look at something and know how to do it.
I dun know, I guess the old addage is true..those who can, do..those who can't do, teach..and those who can't do either wind up confusing the rest of us.
That's me..I confuse the hell out of a lot of people. Sorry folks but that's just me.
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What to do when your hand goes numb..................
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Posted:Jul 16, 2006 9:15 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2007 12:49 pm
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Ok, now that I have your attention. Can anyone explain to me why most of my blog viewers happen to come from the other side of the world?
Not that I'm complaining mind you..just that it would be nice to see some folks from my neck of the woods is all. And, it is nice to know that that couple from the Uk is interested in what I have to write about, or say that fellow from Spain..but in that case I must admit he did also send a wink..that was nice of him. Just that it seems pointless to me...even and I do want to stress this point, even if they could read english..Why do they look? I'm not that witty..far from it. Aside from doing a wickid imitation of Cartman from South Park, I'm not that funny, nor are my musings earth shattering. I don't write poems, I'll leave that to my brother..his blog is always featured at the top of the blog page...me I'm lucky if I get into the who's written last list.
Now there are some that are from around here as well..a couple I know seems they won't start their day without checking in to see what I've written. Nice to have friends..even if they do have to pick me up all the time and take me home afterwards. (I'm such a bother) And a few women who I'd love to get to know better..seems they drop by every so often as well ( Aside; you know ladies..I'm a standard..can't write you, but I do wink if I like what I see..and yes I like what I see!) But, I guess the biggest thing is that most will drop by and not post a reply..even a your way too weird and should stop writing such drivel evil would be something.
I don't know..guess we all just need a little feed back once and a while..too keep us on our toes.
Ah well..guess I'll let you go now. Besides..my hand is going numb.
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