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Swinging in Germany
 
This BLOG is about the trials and tribulations of an open minded couple trying to navigate the world of Swinging in Germany.
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How to meet people
Posted:Feb 11, 2012 12:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2013 6:33 am
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We have the first 4 evenings of Valentines Day week open. That Mon through Thurs. We would love to get with some other couples or singles maybe. We are just on how to do this here. We cant email and if we flirt we just get flirted back with maybe.

Anyone have any ideas on how to get out the info that we would love to have some great sexual encounters with others?

Any suggestions are appreciated!!!
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What is new?
Posted:Feb 1, 2012 7:34 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2013 12:39 pm
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We are a bit handcuffed with the new Couples Dating way of doing things. Of course, as we are not paying members, we can not really complain. We used to be able to see more than one picture. We cannot anymore. We used to be able to flirt in different ways. Now we cannot. We used to be bale to IM with the BETA version. Now we cannot.

This is the way that things are here now. We are excepting that. If we flirted with you then we would love to get to know more about you. You flirting back with us only effectively ends our ability to contact you. We are sorry and are not ignoring you.

We can only keep email for 30 days and then it is gone.

Please email us if you are interested. We will respond. Like we said we cannot change things at this point but we wanted to get the word out that we wish to communicate more effectively with you and we hope that you will email us if you can.

Have a great Feb!!!
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Rules of engagement...
Posted:Feb 6, 2011 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2011 1:50 am
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there are so many different "rules" involved in swinging. Every couple has defined the things that they are comfortable with or with doing.

How do you figure those out? Are you the person that can just ask another couple/person what their rules are? When is the right time to do that?

We always try to be respectful of other people's rules and will desire that same for our rules.

for example, we like to kiss but sometimes not. How do you explain that rule?

What are some of your deal breakers? What is it that would make you say no even before meeting someone? We feel very strongly that we want to see the face in a picture before we agree to meet. There has to be some attraction there for the ball to start rolling.
we are not looking for perfection as we are not perfect.

We have not taken any professional pictures for this site o they may not be the greatest. We are here to have fun. To have great sex sure, but fun is important. We have had some really fun times!!!

Your thoughts?

How
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The other side of Gold membership!
Posted:Oct 2, 2010 3:18 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2011 12:50 pm
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We were Gold on this site for a few years and then decided to go standard. There are some major differences between the two. It does suck not to reach out and touch that person or persons that you would like to get with. Not seeing the videos also is not good. But the lack of being able to contact others is the key problem.

We would hope that others would contact us more but we are sure that everyone does!! We send flirts and add hotlists but, does that really do any good on Couples Dating?

What do others do to reach out for the chance to "touch" someone? Any tips out there that may help us?

We hope to hear from you. Maybe the BLOG is the way to go.
Have a great day all!!

T and D
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Looking to met 3 and 6 SEPT FOR REAL!!
Posted:Sep 1, 2010 6:34 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 4:59 am
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We both have a day off on Friday Sept 3rdand want to take advantage of it. Monday, 6 SEPT, also. Being standard means we cant contact any other couples to come and play with us. If you read this and want to play then contact us please!! We really want a CPL to join us.

Lets see if this site really works. Come on all you hot Hessen area couples. Help us restore our faith in Getting laid by other people.

We are ready, waiting and more than able!!
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What Ive noticed lately on Couples Dating.
Posted:Jul 30, 2010 3:29 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2011 10:30 am
8861 Views

We have been members on this site for years. We have had some good times and met some good people through and because o this site.

More often then not we have been played, lied too or stood up from this site. We decided to let our GOLD membership lapse after years but, not to delete our profile.

We are still getting views and some emails. But we can not read other profiles nor see any pictures. Oh well we knew that going in.

We do enjoy fucking and playing and touching other people very much. If only we could do it more often then it would be nice.

Is our profile bad? Or are our reason for not staying Gold justified?

Just wondering if others have the same thoughts.
Thanks for reading.
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We are free from chld....
Posted:Jul 27, 2010 7:51 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 4:59 am
8363 Views

Well for the net 2 evenings. We would love to meet some other people and see where it goes. Anyone interested?
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Why we arent GOLD anymore....
Posted:Jun 20, 2010 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2010 7:46 pm
8828 Views

We live near the Frankfurt area. Very near. We see 100's of profiles that are within 30 KMs of us. we sent email after email and received even more. Yest in over 2 years as A GOLD member we met very few people from here. Why is that?

We are not the sexiest people in the world. Maybe that is the reason. We are parents and have to plan some things out so mabe that was the reason.

Maybe there are a lot of people here that have a grand Fantasy life but not enough Balls to actually live them out.

we are not those people. We are real Swingers that are looking for other REAL swingers.

How many others feel as we do? Are there any couples in the Dramstadt/ Frankfurt/ Wiesbaden area that are for real? Actually want to meet other and fuck like Bunnies?

If so then please let us know!
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By the way...
Posted:Mar 6, 2010 2:56 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:47 pm
8999 Views

we are over 9000 views now and still not fucking on a regular basis other people. WHY NOT??
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Does winter hurt your sex drive?
Posted:Mar 6, 2010 7:40 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 4:59 am
8671 Views

We were talking about sex, what a surprise right, when the subject of the winter blues entered into the conversation. Some people really become sad or feel locked in during the cold winter here in Germany.

It affects people in many different ways. I miss the warm days with my sexy wife running around with nothing or almost nothing on. Her laying at least topless in the sun is very erotic for me. In the winter though it is all about layers. I do not like layers. I love skin.

Does this only affect us? I am sure not. Is it harder to feel sexy and desirable for you too?

Come on sun help us get naked soon please! Hopefully with as many other people as possible!! Let us know how you feel.
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Wow over 7000 views!
Posted:Jan 17, 2010 12:52 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2010 8:42 am
8869 Views

We just went over 7000 total views of our profile. Is this something that we should be impressed with? Or maybe even a bit proud of?

It should make us feel that many people here must think that at least some of our pictures are attractive. (I would vote on the one's of my wife)

We have not ben contacted by 7000 people though. We certainly have not had the chance to fuck 7000 people. Hmmm, now there is a thought...

Does this even matter that our profile is being looked at? We will stay on the sunny side of life and say thanks to all of you that have taken the time to look over our little piece of real estate in the Couples Dating world.We hope that we did not waste your time.

Now back to the thoughts of fucking 7000 people... This may take a while.
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