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My Choice in the Lifestyle...
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My Choice in the Lifestyle... As I was reminiscing today listening to 60s, 70s, and 80s music, I had a chance to reminisce about my 'choices' in life. When looking back (... and thinking ...), I think that many aspects of my life mirrors that. I grew up in rural Louisiana in the New Orleans area, where life was very structured familially & socially, and safety was a given. And though that means that some activities were limited outside the home/property, things less limited. For example, active nudity was an issue but not particularly just being nude, esp. when you got wet or dirty; when I was back home a few years ago, I was shocked (... for a blink ...), when visiting my friends & her and when we were going to the pool, we just changed clothes in front of each other (... adult, , and ...). Growing up in the 70s, there was a great about of social & clothing alternatives within limited areas of my family. In some of these categories, my aunts and uncle's girlfriends wore stocking, garters, hot pants, mini-skirts, natural(wild)-hair look, and strappy shoes; each of those are areas that attract me in women's clothes, where the committed, non-married relationships by a favorite aunt kinda defined me in another area. What does that mean to me now??? I adore very natural women with a wild-hair look, stockings & thigh-highs, strappy & high-heel shoes, non-married committed relationships, and things that show legs & toes. If such is the case, then I was 'indoctrinated' to what I like/love at the moment and later, chose to see if I actually liked it. I can say that in my dating, sex, areas of attraction, etc, it has matched 1-to-1. It is stated that most of your flavors, tastes, and (dis)likes appear prior to 5-years old. Everything afterwards is just 'experimentation'. I wonder if you find this to be true in your life also.  |
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in responceto that statement ...that would depend on other factors in the matter...was the wild natural look seen as attrative...or dirty...was the strapy shoes seen as good taste or trashie...I meet a man who uncle stated that women who wore breads was nasty and as the women /girls would walk dn the street he would say nasty this man developed a complex against breads..therefor not talking to any woman with breads....now a weave he didnt mind..so its the socity in which we live or interact that shape our likes and dislikes... the same with sexual pleasure....you may have gotten head from a girl who didnt have the talent dn to a science...and scraped u a few times...would u be willing to let another woman preform oral with the thought in mind she may do the same and it was painful not pleasurable...I had this and when he got head from the master screaming my name .. with that said we develop our own likes from that which was tought to us...now we may twist it up or dn but we will make it our own... holla at me lets chat....
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