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Men and Toys (WTF?!?)
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Men and Toys (WTF?!?) I've never understood why men are so intimidated by a sex toy. I mean...they have their favorite toy at the end of their arm, always in easy reach and always ready. But when it comes to their gals using toys they get weirded out. Some more than others of course (not going to generalize EVERYONE after all) but sheesh! Come on fellas, relax. It's all about having fun and if it makes us feel better and cum harder then you are going to be in the ride of your life. Not to mention, you will be remembered as the partner that was fun and playful and the best she's ever had. Now don't get us women wrong, we love the cock (lesbians not included I suppose here for the purposes of speaking of a real, living cock). And while we might love the real thing, well...let's face it guys, there's some obstacles to face in the whole male to female pleasure quotient. Our bodies are weird. I'll be the first to admit. One time we might be set off by a fast fuck and have an awesome orgasm. But sometimes it takes us a long, long time to get there. And, sometimes the things we need you to do for us to get us closer to that peak makes you cum first. Now don't lie, you've all been there at one time or another. Especially when we are telling you to go harder and faster. But then....just as things are just starting to heat up for us...well...you're done. So you have a few options here. You can just roll over and go to sleep and be selfish that you got yours. Or you can find a way to help your lady get off as well. This is where toys come into play. Now don't be intimidated just because old BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend) has way more staying power than you do, or that he might be longer and/or girthier. Or that he rotates, vibrates, buzzes, or possibly is pink or some other strange color. It doesn't mean that we don't still love that now limp Willy between your legs. We DO! We really really do!! But...even if mentally we are turned on and we physically want to get there too our bodies are on a time schedule all their own. No two orgasms are ever the same. So be a Gent...grab the toy and show us that you are man enough to make sure your lady is satisfied no matter what. We're more impressed with an open minded and giving lover than we will ever be with someone that hits and misses, even if they are hung like John Holmes. Plus think of another benefit of it. Not only is your lady going to remember you as the best she has ever had because of your giving and generous nature but you also have a whole new perspective of seeing things, and I KNOW how you naughty little pervs like to watch and look and see. (That's why I love ya so much! Pervs for the WIN!) When you are using a toy on your woman you get to see the action from a number of different angles. You could have her on all fours, letting you see that happy little toy plunging in and out at different depths, speeds and angles and get to see it as it pulls and pushes on her soft pink flesh. You get to see the juices that run (or coat the toy). You could have her on her back and working it and either lay between her legs as she fingers her clit or...you could offer a little oral stimulation while you do. Or, if you prefer a side angle way to lay you could suck her nipples and kiss her as you send the rabbit down the hole and back again. You could put her on her knees in front of a mirror and both watch as you play hide the salami with that lovely bit of technology and watch her face in detail as she cum hard and claws at the bedspread. But dildos and vibe dildos are not the only friend of the Man in the bedroom (or the kitchen, or the bathroom, or the stairs, or...well you get the picture). A nice little clit vibe works wonders for you and her. Do you love the way those hot, slick walls of her's clench and contract around your HotRod? Want to feel it more and give her multiple orgasms? Well my friend..start her out with a clit vibe (but don't press too hard at first mind you!) before her slip that man meat in her. It will make her tighter when you do from the muscles trying to clench. But don't stop there! For gods sake don't stop dontstopdontstop!!! Keep it there as you take her nice and slow and deep at first, mixing it up a little. Experiment with what depth and pace really makes her writhe. You'll KNOW when you've got it right because those inner muscles of hers right at the entrance will start flexing and clenching and spasming. And she'll likely be clawing the bed or you or screaming too. Always a good sign. So think of those strange little toys in her night stand as your bet buddies, your teammates for the big game! Alright team! Now let's go get 'em!!! HIKE! |
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5/10/2010 7:33 am |
nice blog article. I myself love to use toys as part of the fun with her 
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5/18/2010 8:28 am |
51 y/O Bi curious male here in Mt Sterling KY . I find that alot of people are intimidated by toys. I still have not found a women or couple that will use my dungeon on me and tie me up and use toys on me. I have the Dungeon, the Toys and the Ppassion for it. IAll I have found are cyber sex, phone sex , and people that ask for my cell # and then never call. No one that has the balls or Cuntdo to speak to tie me up and dildo fuck me and spank me.
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I never understood why people felt threaten by a vibrator. I love using vibes on a woman, I'm definetly not afraid or jealous to use one. Here, grab your toys and ill show you. lol I know the battery is gonna outlast me 100 to 1. There is a battery commercial. lol
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Now those are some very smart and secure men that replied here. No reason to not like the toys I say. And Bobbon...I would suggest Alt dot com (sister site to Couples Dating) for those needs to be met. It would seem that most on here are a little more vanilla than the BDSM scene. I, myself, am a fan of it. In fact I have a sub and am very happy with how that relationship is turning out.
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