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Eating Pussy 101
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Eating Pussy 101 So many times you find a guy that simply loves to go downtown for a little meal. Sometimes you find one that simply loves to be able to get a woman off and have her writhe as his face is planted between her legs, her fingers clutching his head or hair as she moans and screams. These are wonderful things. The idea of it is certainly a wonderful thing. But too many times, well intentioned fellas with all the enthusiasm and the right frame of mind do not get to experience making a woman cum or squirting in his mouth or face. Why? Even though the desire and willingness to satisfy her is there, more times than not the technique is lacking. Personally, I blame porn. Porn you see is made with men in mind. It is the reason that we will get a 15 minute blowjob scene but when it's his turn to eat her at best he's down there five minutes before cramming his cock into her. And in those five minutes he doesn't really do the things that we as women need doing. There are some exceptions to the rule of course. You can tell when a man in a porn is -really- into it and if he's just doing it because it's in the script. All the films I've seen Evan Stone in, the man positively loves to get his lady off. He seems reluctant to leave her pussy when clearly the director shoos him off to other things. So fellas, you want to know some tips and secrets to really make your lady see stars and fireworks and bask in the glow of knowing that you gave her the most incredible orgasm of her life? Well then, read on my curious ones. First things first, we women are not turned on and do not get aroused as easily as you men. It takes some doing. Touch her, lightly, gently, firmly... I'm not talking about touching her sweet softness just yet but all the other places on her body. Kiss her, nibble along her neck and collar bones and down to the hollow of her throat. Take your time. Use your hands while you kiss and nibble and suckle her soft skin. Take the time to enjoy that feminine softness of her. Massage her breasts. No.. not manhandle and squeeze like they're stress balls. MASSAGE. Never more than medium firm pressure and lighter on her beautiful breasts. Make her ache for more and need more. By now you probably want to get your mouth on those titties right? Don't go directly to the nipples boys. We have so much more ground to cover there. Lick and tease and kiss all over her breasts, the tops the delicate undersides. Make your way to those nipples slowly. Don't even use your fingers to touch them until finally after she is quivering n anticipation, let your tongue slide slowly over her breast and circle the outer edges of her aureole, working your way towards that (by now) stiff, pert nub of her nipple. Flick it.. lave at it.. until finally your lips close over it, suckling lightly, teasing it with your tongue while it's inside your mouth. Nibble it -gently!- even if she begs for harder stimulation. When her body begins to move and writhe under you, you know it time to move down further south. As with everything else, take your time as you continue to kiss and lick down her body towards her pussy. Take the time to inhale her scent and steal glances to see if you can see her wetness. Your hands should caress her thighs and calves. You still haven't even touched her pussy yet and the waiting has likely done it's work, driving her mad with want. Kiss her inner thighs, the curve of where her ass meets the thigh. At this point your position and hers will be an issue. If you have her on the bed, on her back, grab some pillows and put them under her ass so that it is elevated up a bit, tilting her pelvis upwards. This position makes it easier to reach her pleasure points as well as makes it's easier for her to let go and loose control. When it is finally time let your tongue lick long broad strokes all over her pussy lips on the outsides. You can (depending on your comfort level and hers with it as well as hygiene being an important factor) let your tongue tickle over the pucker of her ass as well. Just that brief, warm wet contact will make er jump and squirm. It's so taboo, so naughty. Let the tip of your tongue part her folds and taste that sweetness of her now. Don't probe at her hole right away trying to tongue fuck her. She isn't prepped for it yet. The point of oral sex is not the penetration. That is not the focal point of the act. It is to stimulate and trigger the clit. So while you tickle at her hole and tease her inner folds make your way to her clit. Every woman is built so differently despite having all the same parts. Think of it like a car. There are tons of cars out there, they all have their individual quirks but all of them have wheels, combustion engines, etc... You may have to pull back the hood of her clit to expose it. You might not if it is already distended. If she's too sensitive (you've been doing your job well if so) let the hood cover that nub as you lick at it and tickle it with your tongue. Rapid flicks are typically more effective than slow licks on this nub. It is the reason that clit vibrators are so popular. Don't stop there though...suck that clit into your mouth and tease it, alternating between flicking and suckling. She should be begging for something to fill her by now. She might not do it verbally, we women are taught to be such shy creatures when it comes to sex, but a gently inserted finger into her will let you know. If you are doing it right you'll feel her inner muscles moving around your finger, clenching at it, maybe even trying to push it out. This is a good thing. Finger technique is crucial at this point. In the porns you see the men just shoving a finger or two in and jabbing back and forth. Fellas... when you're fingering a gal it has nothing to do with how deep you can get it. It has more to do with stimulating and providing resistance and friction to the muscles and tissues that surround the opening. It's the reason that you hear so many women say that it's not length but girth that matters. When you slide your finger in you're going to be looking for that G-spot. If your finger is in and when you curl it it points down toward her ass it's in the wrong way. Turn that finger around. Your open palm should face upwards toward her pussy. You want to be able to curl it in a 'come hither' manner and have it hit the top of her pussy, under the clit. What are you doing?!!? Don't stop licking and sucking that clit! Keep doing it. You fellas can multitask can't you? Heck we play with balls and stroke shaft and play with ourselves and several other things while we suck your cock. Let me tell ya, trying to control a gag reflex is not an easy thing. It takes concentration but we do it and manage to do other things as well. So there you are suckling and licking her clit and your finger (or two) are inside her stroking in and out easily. The tips of your finger should feel for a spongy, stiffer, ridged section of tissue on that upper wall. It's not terribly huge, about the size of a walnut. It should be easy to feel in contrast to the rest of the pillowy softness inside her. The more turned on she is.. the easier it is to find it. Use your fingers to stroke this ridged tissue as you tease her clit. Don't pull away. Don't let her push you away. If she crawls to the head of the bed stay on it and follow. Do not let up. The pleasure is going to be so intense that she cannot stand it. But if you keep at it she will thank you for it later! Now some (most) women feel that intense feeling like she is going to pee when she is about to cum, or squirt. We feel it and if we don't know what it is we will freak out and think that that is what we're going to do and try to make you stop. Assure her that it's okay and to just let go. The reason it feels this way is because the ejaculatory fluid that is produced by the Skein's Gland is carried through the paraurethral ducts. So, just like you guys have only one hole to cum and pee from so does the female ejaculate. It does not come from the vagina. It is typically thinner than sperm (though I've been with some guys with pretty thin, runny sperm too!). So your reaction to her squirting and cumming like that is going to be important. Give her praise, tell her how much you love it, encourage her. Be prepared cause her whole body is going to be shaking and trembling and she won't have control of it right away. Give her a moment, hold her, kiss her, let her come down from that high that you just gave her before you try to get some for yourself. Just because our refractory period is usually shorter than yours after we cum and we are able to cum again quickly does not mean that we don't need some kind of adjustment time. When she stops shaking violently and catches her breath start kissing her again and ease into it and before you know it you'll be having some of the best sex in your life because you just gave her something that (probably) no one else has ever taken the time or put his own needs on the back burner long enough to give her. |
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I believe you are absolutely right, to much porno has screwed men up and probably some women that would like to try bisexual relationships. Grab a tit, shove your tongue in her pussy, push your dick in her pussy and she has an organism, yeah right. This needs to be posted on the Couples Dating's home page so maybe some of the men with hugh egos will read and learn. In other words long, slow and intense foreplay is the key. Great Blog
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Thank you everyone. It's so frustrating when an otherwise great sexual relationship is lacking one of the key components. Oral sex is just as important to women as it is men but most women will not admit it. Why? Who knows. Outdated senses of propriety despite our more liberated times maybe? Fear that her scent or taste is not good to him (or her!)? Fear that she 'looks funny down there' (as one friend once told me)? I'm just glad that you all enjoyed and even more happy if anyone learned anything from it. After all we're here to please ourselves and our partners.
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 Thank you Tal E Wacker. It's just one of my many pet peeves and one of the things that people need to consider when being intimate. We women are taught from society that being a sexual person is bad and sooooo often we never achieve orgasm. How sad is that? Could you imagine a man who got action but never got off? Never got to cum? There's be mass depressions and suicides! The short version of my philosophy is that the world would be a better place if people were happier people. And what makes you feel better or happier than a great sexual experience? I think I'm going to take some of you folks advice and I'll post this up in the Magazine. Thanks for all your support.
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Thank you Thndsm69 and CRSAGent. It's so great to see that there are men out there that understand and more importantly are giving enough as lovers to want to please their woman and not just worry about being able to get off themselves. Too many men will do only as much as they feel they have to to be able to get in and get off as quick as possible. You all are blessings.
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