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This has absolutely nothing to do with sex I need to let out some steam or I may explode. Those of you who know me know that I've blogged about my drug addicted nephew and the havoc that he's sent throughout my family. He is my sister's and apples don't fall far from the tree, evidently. This whole "thing" has gone on for far too long. He's robbed my 80 year old mom blind bu she won't let anyone do anything about it. He and my sister both live with her. M sister was fired from her job about 3 years ago and has basically been on unemployment for all of that time. Two months ago she found a job and since she has no car my brainwashed mom and my E#&%$#& nephew were taking her back and forth to work, rather, they were supposed to. They'd forget to pick her up or wouldn't get up to take her to work or they may not be back in from their nightly forays into north Birmingham on drug buys. My mom wants him there, even posts bond for him. I decided I should help. I lent her my car andI bought a used one that doesn't get as good gas mileage as te one I lent to her. This was two months ago, this weekend she told me she hasn't worked in a month. Tried to blame her and my mom for her dismissal. I've been paying insurance for her. Heaven knows I need the money that I used to buy the car, 'bout 3 grand. Now I don't know what to do. Without a car she stands no chance at getting a job but I feel I was deceived and that I should run as quickly as I can to rescue my car. She says she didn't tell me because it would ruin Xmas. I say she didn't tell me cause she doesn't want me to repo my car. Rocky says he won't be in the same room with any of them, therefore my Xmas is ruined. I'm so depressed, so sad. Any suggestions? |
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Bad situation. I know what I'd be doing but I'm not known for my sentimentality. Seems like you're dealing with people who have a "welfare" mentality; always looking for the easy option. You can't change another person's mindset, they need to want to change. Perhaps if you really believe that your sis is making an effort then you could afford to be lenient, otherwise...hook the car.  My thoughts. I hope your Xmas isn't ruined. Don't let it be. 
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Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. We have a situation here with my wife's brother and we've had to cut ties and move on...it's not natural but necessary. I agree with chasing though if you feel your sis is sincere.
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