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Blogs > Ellasboudoir > Ella's Boudoir

Sexless Marriage
 

Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:29 pm
    Quoting downtown0669:
    Hi, I am in a sexless marriage and it sucks. I am staying for the children and that's it. I am hoping to have some fun now being on Couples Dating, but it's hard...
Sorry, but staying for the children is not always a great idea. They know when things are shit and sometimes they carry that with them for decades. Here's to you and your ability to find someone who deserves you.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:29 pm

 Yep


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:31 pm
    Quoting FitDaddy71:
    40+ years, more than half of which I have slept on the front porch couch. Now you couldn't get me back into her bedroom. Yes, it SUX! Communication/intimacy isn't there any more. I once cared by now I do not. Plus she has now retired and lays in bed watching movies and eating till she gets up to fix supper after which she sits in the chair and watches more stuff on her computer. I LOVE my kids and grandchildren. That is why I came back after a brief separation. They all more or less sided with her. So damned if I do, damned if I don't. Not everyone who is looking outside of their marriage is an asshole. Some of us just want someone to be with who wants to be with us.

    My dad was a skirt chaser from earliest childhood memories. My mother was both a social and physical reclusive. I don't ever remember hugs and kisses, not even when I got sick. Sex was initiated by my wife before the wedding but afterwards it was like pulling teeth. And then came all the health issues, learning she was on meds since 14 for manic depression. Then operation to remove things at 38. That was the beginning of a very quick end. I only remember one time in over 40 yrs of marriage actually having fun sex. Usually she just laid there or only wanted to be finger f*cked.

    I remember my dad crying on his death bed that all he wanted was to lay with a woman one more time. Little did I know that would be my cry as well.
This is sad and I am sorry to hear this. I hope you find happiness soon.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:32 pm
    Quoting Lippenbalsam:
    Hi,
    I am still happily single.
    So far always nice friendships or affairs.
    No lies, no cheating, no injuries, and I can have fun with whoever I want and when I want.
    If sex wasn't fun anymore: goodbye, and have a good life!
    And no legacy sneaks with whom I have to live suspiciously.
    Feels good to me.
Cleaver man.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:33 pm
    Quoting oknew:
    I have been in a sexless marriage for about 6 yrs. Was great for 50 years, she didn't want any after that but it seemed like I needed more. Old married guy as I am can't seem to find any MF. happily married still but need some sexual satisfaction thats not done by my self. hehe
Agreed you need some p****!!! Hope you find it soon.


Allhard4u50 62M
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1725 posts
7/13/2021 8:32 am

 Yes…..I’m kinda in a sexless marriage…..Our sex drives are just opposite…..We maybe have sex once a month, if that much. It is satisfying, but not enough for me. She says she likes the sex and I can make her cum often, but then….she never initiates it. Idk…..not enough for me. I currently have a sexmate. We meet once a week….sometimes more. It’s very convenient for me. She is single has her own place and is fine with our physical relationship. I feel bad deceiving my spouse, but I need the sex….I know sorry excuse. My sex buddy and I have a roleplay scenario and it works out great…She is my babygirl and I am her daddy. She will do anything for me….to make daddy happy. We never kiss…..I know weird….we just fuck and suck….it’s just damn good hot sex….and I feel lucky I have this special friend.


Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
7/13/2021 1:02 pm

 Sometimes it is not even about being in a totally sex marriage but a one position only if ever marriage. I would also classify that as a sexless marriage if the other is not open to doing anything other than that. Masturbation would give you more enjoyment.


wolfmartins27 42M

7/13/2021 4:51 pm

 is beautiful your profile here i want u much baby


Hemideluxe64 58M
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9/1/2021 7:27 pm

 Hi ella, im new to all this But yes i have been and currently still in a sexless marriage now . And as some of the people commented it is just so frustrating and depressing being attached but still feeling so alone all the time . Unfortunately still enjoy sex and the kissing and physical contact of intimacy. Trying to cope by looking here although not sure should be, guess guilt and doubt setting in. Just hard to come to terms with how we can go from the person who should be the most important thing in thier spouses eyes to someone who now doesnt seem to even warrant a passing thought. Sorry for rambling everyone just so tired of no intimacy w=and just being alone.


doclovespussy2 70M  
6 posts
11/6/2021 10:38 am

 I would like to meet you for NSA sexual fun I am married with no sex I will be in Charleton tomorrow night


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