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bustinout20202 67F  
838 posts
11/24/2021 7:43 am
We interrupt our normal programming for this special announcement!


Wow! I just had my first experience of blocking someone on here today!  I am usually able to shrug off comments, harsh innuendos etc. I just ignore them. But this guy really pissed me off!! 

Guys I don't get it.
What makes you think that insulting a woman calling her a 'pussy' and a 'fake' out of nowhere is going to make her open up to you?? Geezus didn't your mama ever teach you anything?? That you catch more flies with honey than vinegar?? Or is that just your 'Dom side' coming out? [Well put it back, it's totally unappealing!]

After messaging me that insulting sh*t,  I found him on IM this morning, saying "hi sexy".

WHHHHAAAT THHHHE FFFFFUCK????

Here's my pubic service message:
Be kind with your words; you'll get kind in return.
Learn to message in complete sentences. Gals appreciate it.
Don't lead with your horniness; try a different tact.

WE NOW RETURN TO OUR REGULARLY SCHEDULED PROGRAM NOW IN PROGRESS....


~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


bustinout20202 67F  
1080 posts
11/24/2021 7:48 am

What's with the code symbols coming through with every punctuation mark? Just curious.

~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/24/2021 8:03 am

You're certainly not the first one to report this, but it still makes me shake my head in dismay.

Kind of like when a woman reports how lazy some men are in communicating, and how that makes me wonder if they're lazy in the sack too, the rudeness you mention makes me wonder if they're that rude in person too.

Sorry this happened to you babe, but please don't think we're ALL like that.

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bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 6:02 pm:
Thanks Cleave! Of course I don't think all are like that! And I can usually tell when one is joking. But this guy just seemed like such an entitled prick that I couldn't let it be. I had to say something. Thanks for listening to my rants this week.

staci_19702 53T
3767 posts
11/24/2021 8:15 am

I call them out. 😂
Post their message and username.
Pissing in my yard won’t make yours any greener.
Silly people.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 6:04 pm:
OMG! LMAO! "Pissing in my yard won't make yours any greener." Best. Line. Ever. mwah!! {=}

Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
11/24/2021 11:06 am

Trolls crawl out of their Caves far too often not just here but all over the map. History has sadly proven that the human condition is forever cursed by the few the many & the rest of them. It's most annoying in that these insignificant people manage to leave scars while by far the majority of folks on this planet are worth engaging with.


bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 11:35 pm:
You're right O! For some reason, it IS the insignificant ones who can do significant damage to a soul. Ya just got to choose to engage with those who are worth listening to.

crosstraining 70T  
8367 posts
11/24/2021 11:13 am

Yes some people on here are unbelievable , but you did the wright thing , don't need to put up with that , as far as the marks , I've noticed them lately have no clue , have a good holiday weekend , XOXO


bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 11:37 pm:
thanks CT! I chose to say something [both to him and on here] because I felt I didn't have to put up with it either! You have a good weekend too! Thanks for stopping by!

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
11/24/2021 1:50 pm

The symbols replace an apostrophe, which the site no longer recognises.
It's best to blog without apostrophes. Strangely the site allows apstrophes in comments to a blog post.


bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 11:40 pm:
I noticed this is a recent phenomena. It's like the site likes to decorate the written words on the blogs with symbols and curlicues! Maybe it's a coded word to the Mother ship?!

lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
11/24/2021 7:55 pm

I have spoken on this in several blog post. Mr. Rude and Mr. Crude are losers, some even know it some haven't got a clue. I am so sorry that this is happening in your world, You did the right thing Block is the first move, but as some can tell you they just change one letter in the profile name and reappear.. Good luck in your adventures here on these sites..

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bustinout20202 replies on 11/24/2021 11:47 pm:
Hey there! Thanks for your support on this! I don't think he's going to come back, but I'll keep you posted.

110voltman 68M
15 posts
11/25/2021 5:10 am

You mentioned a good topic... From what some women tell me that a big percentage of guys on here just talk shit and don't even show up for a date.. I think they get off on the shock factor and would be afraid to undress when they got with you. We join this site because we are adults to begin with and we place a value on sex instead of wanting to travel the world like you see on Match.com.. I use Couples Dating to establish a rapport and see if the lady l am speaking with shares some of the same interest as l do. No matter how wild and kinky a couple wants to get in bed Manners is always # 1 after you get out of bed.. Over the years I have developed a rapport with some women who want to try a 4 some but don't have a partner. By becoming friends with them and they know l am a man of my word and they feel comfortable we would be a couple for the evening. In Florida we have a lot of seniors who are widows living in condos and don't use the dating sites and by being a gentleman I have been with girls from here that set up a date for their friends.. Long story short ... Be a respectful gentleman in all your actions and and you will be rewarded with good women in and out of the bedroom..


bustinout20202 replies on 11/25/2021 8:45 am:
Exactly! I do not understand why so many men lead with their dicks...literally. That doesn't bother me so much anymore. But being disrespectful and ugly serves absolutely no purpose! I can't imagine any woman thinking that's hot. I mean, what woman responds well to that??
Thanks for your comments. Have a good Thanksgiving!!
~Busti

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