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Lights on, Lights off!  

rm_1realdarlin 54F
372 posts
12/18/2006 6:45 am

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2/13/2007 9:49 am
Lights on, Lights off!

Got into a conversation last night wondering why it is some people have to have the lights on or off during sex and here is what we came up with. Either ya dont want them to see something or you dont wanna see something.
My thoughts on this would be Lights ON all the way.

If i didnt wanna see what i was playing with i wouldnt be playing with it. Has been a time or two i was with a great looking man and he wanted the lights off, he didnt wanna see what he was playing with?

So dear people, On or Off??

keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
12/18/2006 7:11 am

 I can't remember...


rm_bud1957692 66M
15 posts
12/18/2006 9:04 am

 Definately lights on!As you say if I didnt want to see who I was with I wouldnt be there.


grinandbareit5 72M
50 posts
12/18/2006 11:41 am

 lights on, curtains open !


uncut_okie 70M

12/18/2006 6:56 pm

 I prefer lights on as well. Actually in recent years only been with one lady that had to have the lights off and I found it a problem. Now if we wake up in the middle of the night, its different.


bowtech_master 51M

12/19/2006 6:53 am

 I would be proned to say lights on, but deem. You know like candle light, but not those weird colored lights. Candles add that extra touch of taboo to the experience.


rm_nurse19673 56F  

12/19/2006 7:15 am

 Men, I believe, prefer lights on because they are visual beings. Women, for the most part, tend to prefer lights off because they are self-conscience about their body.

I used to do lights off only (lots of reasons), nowdays.....it doesn't really matter to me. Either way is fine.....and I really enjoy the candlelight also. It really makes things more mysterious and sexy looking.
Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.


luv2lik_n_okc 63M
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12/21/2006 11:31 am

 Definitely prefer lights on. I can see the romantic side of dimmed lights or candles...and candlelight glowing off a woman's body can be veeerrrrrry sexy.


rm_nova197454 69M

12/21/2006 4:06 pm

 i dont belive that there is a right or wrong ans to this as there is something to be said for the bouth for you that have to have the lights on do you not have any feeling in your hands let me go eather way and by God i will make a woman smile witch way did he go


rm_nova197454 69M

12/21/2006 4:13 pm

 or may be he is trying to drive you mad not knowing what is next


rrtooo207 50M  
17 posts
12/22/2006 3:02 pm

 Either way is good, but it should be soft lighting. Not much else is too distracting than to have your partner move suddenly and be blinded by a bright ass light shining you in the eyes


talltexanOKC 63M

1/10/2007 5:30 am

 Lights on!!! The female body is sooooo stimulating to my eyes! Soft lights are always enjoyable and can add to the passion.


ballbuster1963 61M

2/13/2007 7:48 am

 Bullshit leave those damn lights on I want to see those big beautiful tits I'm sucking and that pussy I'm headed towards!


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