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Coworkers............... Dating or sleeping with coworkers,Is it a good idea? Let me say i have only really dated one co worker before and well that one ended in marriage and then divorce lol. I have a co worker that is the type of guy i always go after, well cept this one has a gf. We flirt, look at each other googly eyed, tease back and forth and so on. He however knows how i feel about the gf issue so i think thats where it will stay. BUT, lol. He is also a postal slut lol. To hear about all the women hes dated that work there is like wow. But now that im in the plant and outta the station you would think its normal for that to happen. So in saying that if everyone there dates everyone else, i need to keep my eyes open and find me someone i dont work side by side with on a near daily basis. Orrrrrr just not date anyone at all then im not in on the dating everyone else thing!! But here i am "dating" men that 4 women i know have been out with or slept with. So what the hell does it matter really, cept i dont wanna be the next gossip groupie hes been out with. Think its actually too late for that people are already talking about us no matter how untrue it is. Anyone that knows me knows i could care less whos talking about me. Talk bout me and save the next person!! Sooo anyways, attraction out the window and all. Would U dear people date and or sleep with a co worker???? |
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10/22/2006 4:25 pm |
been there done that and will do again i'll say!
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10/25/2006 6:06 pm |
I slept with a co-worker and got the 2 best things in my life out of it. MY KIDS! No we're not together and have not been for 15 years. I still have my kids(that live with me, for those of you interested, lol) and really thats all I want. So, it can go either way, good or bad. Have seen co-workers get married and live happily ever after. And seen the other side too. I don't think I'll do it again, unless I worked with you.
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10/28/2006 9:09 am |
I have to say, ultimately it is usually a bad idea. Although I can't seem to keep from doing it! Very recently, (like two weekends ago), had a very close friend from work come out to my "house in the woods", for dinner. After dinner & wine, she spent the night. Now, that was not a bad thing in & of itself, but it has made work a bit uncomfortable. She & I have been very close friends for well over a year-with this being the first "visit". There is some age difference, but that has never been an issue as we truly enjoy each others company...(two hour phone convos, etc). I'm afraid that friendship that I valued so highly is now tainted, or at least~altered. But now there is a tenseness...not all bad...but both have a strange feeling that people are "watching us" now... So, although a wonderful experience which may or may not lead to more good times, having to do it over again I would not...keep the friendship, the other parts can be found outside of work with other friendships...like on here!!!
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10/28/2006 10:31 am |
Most of the time a problem exist if the two co-workers want something different then the other. In my past I have dated/slept with two co-workers. The first woman, we both knew this relationship most likely wouldn't end in marriage and when it wasn't fun for one of us, the relationship would be over. Over the years, we have dated for a time as short as 30 minutes for as long as six months - this relationship is what it is and I am very grateful for it. The other time didn't work out too well. This woman was fun and very attractive, but we had the stalker issue, which is the fastest way for a 10 to become a 5. After this experience, I make very sure that when having a sexual relationship with anyone that I have a developed relationship with that we both want the same thing so people don't get hurt and we don't permanently damage good relationship.
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