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Did I really view you?  

tiredkitty 43F
184 posts
12/19/2018 5:58 pm
Did I really view you?

I didn't look at your stupid fucking profile. I can't believe more of you people haven't figured this out yet, but it says that you view the profile if you just scroll over people, if it pops up that little box on the screen. Kind of crazy that it obviously works that way, and nobody has figured it out. I'm not that interested in you you're not that interesting. I'm not really<b> viewing </font></b>you a thousand times. I'm looking at things but just pausing for a ment too long. I might just be running around reading stupid statuses and I'm laughing because most of you people are fucking funny. Don't mean to burst your bubble, but I really could care less about most you people. On the other hand maybe i did view you for another reason.

Banana_Canyon 46F

12/22/2018 12:00 pm

 I'm with you on all of those same thoughts! I get people writing to me all of the time saying "I noticed you opened my profile and that's why I'm contacting you". I then have to explain that it was either:
A .) Like you explained, if you hover over a profile on the home page ( in my case with a PC and mouse ), then that is generally known to generate a "profile view" on your end. Chances are it was purely by chance and don't even realize it or mean to do it.
B .) This site itself is known to randomly generate false notifications. It's a money site, not a dating site, not a sex site or anything else. Their tactics are simple: Bait, lure and persuade through false notifications in order to generate massive profits when men think you took interest in them, pay for membership, then get let down when they find out that I have no idea who they are and have never saw their profiles and am not interested in whatever they seek.

Here's what I dealt with just yesterday with a guy who writes me:

Him: "hello"
12/21/2018 9:53 am

Me: "Hi."
12/21/2018 11:27 am

Him: "hello"
12/21/2018 11:28 am

Me: "Hi."
12/21/2018 12:13 pm

Him: "why do you keep saying hi to me and looking @ my profile?
12/21/2018 12:14 pm"

Me: "Well, I'm saying "hi" to you, because you said "hi" to me first. You then replied "hi" to me yet a second time, so in turn, I also said "hi" a second time.
As for your profile: I haven't ever viewed your profile even once yet.
No idea what you're talking about, hun. Nor am I sure what you want. Explain."
12/21/2018 1:14 pm

Him: "Well Couples Dating is saying you have been viewing my profile a TON! It also said you sent me an email at 8:20am my time
That is why I replied HI"
12/21/2018 1:16 pm

Sooo, like you said, I could also care less about the 99%+ of other members here, since almost none contact me for what I seek, since none are intelligent, since none have respect, since none exceed the communication level of a second-grader, since almost everyone does NOT read profiles PRIOR to making contact, since almost everyone is ignorant, etc, etc, etc...

You make some amazing and valid points. I can completely relate entirely on dealing with that same level of nonsense here. Great posting! Thanks for sharing and making that public.


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