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The Senselessness of Anger
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The Senselessness of Anger I recently went thought an episode caused to become extremely outraged a belittling woman and subsequently my longtime boyfriend. My anger was especially hurtful to him. I was angered by a woman who I felt had disparaged me for being a Transsexual and less than a complete Female. It was only later instead of being angry towards her I should have more understanding of her lack of compassion and perception. Anger fills and clouds your mind to the point of not allowing reasonable thoughts equal weight. Anger is probably next to sexual passion in its ability to shut down intellectual thought. No one has the ability to properly analyze the possible consequences of having sex while actively having sex. Similarly, Anger does not allow you to rationalize the actual cause of your fury. It is often only later, in a more tranquil state, you can really see the root cause. Anger serves no purpose in human relations. It often causes irreparable harm or leads to even greater misunderstanding fueled by negative reaction. I realize now instead of becoming insanely angry, I must take the advice of unknown person in history who recommended a deep breath before acting. It moves purifying oxygen through the brain cleaning out bitter thoughts. I have profoundly apologized to my partner Richard who I love deeply. Richard is the reason I here today. I wish to Thank my friends who helped vanquish my animosity and become a better person. Thank you so much for your concern and caring. You are so very special to me. Jan  |
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You are looking very distinguished Sir Peter. Thank you very much for your concern.
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I am so glad you are doing better following "My Worst Day in Years". Letting go of the anger about what happened to you is is really healthy. It cannot change what happened but you are no longer trapped in the Anger concerning it. Anger is very powerful emotion that needs to be gotten through and apparently you have. I am so happy for you and that you are doing better. You are a wonderful woman and I hope that you are in a better place emotionally. I am so sorry that you had to go through such an awful experience. I am attaching a recent photo (new haircut and beard trimmed) taken while visiting my brother last week upstate.
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