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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

Unintended Consequences  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
9/10/2018 10:07 am
Unintended Consequences

I wrote in my Blog recently how I Dominated (Domm’ed} my Boyfriend for the first time. I mentioned that he had came home late on a Friday night and I played the angry Girlfriend who became a evil Dominatrix to teach him not to be late when I’m ready for sex.

Weekend was fun with me in Charge and was meant as a one time, or only an occasional, role playing activity. However, this last Friday night he didn’t stop with his male friends for Happy Hours and was home at his normal time, about 6 PM. When I asked why, he just said they had other plans.

I had planned to go out that night expecting him not to be home early. I had arranged to meet a guy at a hotel in the East Village. I had my cover story all arranged and girlfriends in on the plan.

I wanted to go ahead with my evening so got ready to go out but at the last minute decided to stay home and entertain Richard on this Friday night.

Details of what we did that night are not important.

What is important is that I may have lost the one night a week I can get out and meet another date. This was not my plan when I started this. If Richard is going to be home every Friday night, I will have to find a new way to have excitement.

Here are some things I thought of;

Go out anyway but that that has the obvious risk of being caught.

2. Maybe convince Richard to bring in a third to play with, maybe one of my Transexual girlfriends.

3. Find a like minded couple to invite over.

4. Domm Richard more and demand to have as many lovers as I want.

5. Accept this loss of freedom for the time being and see what happens after a few weeks.
I’m still tossing this around in my mind. There may be other options as I think though this.

I’ll share this with you also. We came up with code words for our Domination game. The evil Dominatrix is named DeMonica, not Janice. We use the words Salt or Pepper for who shows up at night.

Salt is for the sweet, loving Janice.

Pepper is for the Bitch DeMonica.

This morning when Richard was leaving for work he asked “What’s for dinner?”.

“I don’t know yet, any request?” i replied.

“Not really” he said “but can you add a lot of Pepper please”.

Looks like DeMonica will be here this evening! Maybe we’ll find out what the future maybe.

Jan

SirPeterStone 67M
159 posts
9/10/2018 6:17 pm

 If Richard desires a lot Pepper, idea #4 might be ideal.


SirPeterStone 67M
159 posts
9/10/2018 6:14 pm

 Give it a few weeks and see if Friday at 6 will continue with being either salt or pepper. Love the first blog post but this maybe the start of something fun and very interesting.


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