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Women Have Dildos and Vibrators... They Don't Need Men... Or Do They?... ๐ค
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Women Have Dildos and Vibrators... They Don't Need Men... Or Do They?... ๐ค Note : A F F is deleting words in the t.ext. Please be patient. Part of my, 'Self Help Series', on sexuality... ๐ Women have been using artificial penises (for self pleasuring), since they first discovered, they each had a clitoris and a vagina. However, the oldest 'hard' evidence, was uncovered in 2005. German scientists got wet, when they unearthed a twenty-eight thousand (28,000) year old, eight inch (20 cm) phallus, of polished siltstone. The stone dildo was discovered, in Hohle Fels Cave near Ulm, Swabia , by an Early Prehistory team from the University of Tรผbingen.  With the invention of the battery, came the creation of the vibrator and the ultimate evolution - of the the dildo. How prevalent is the use, o.f this toy today? In 2009, in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, Debra Herbenick (and her g.roup), published the findings of a survey from 2,056 women, between the ages of 18 to 60. Here are some of the results, of their study. (1) 52.5% of the women admitted, to having used a vibrator either ; masturbating, during intercourse, and with a partner, as part of foreplay. (2) Vibrators were used more frequently, for clitoral stimulation: 83.8% of users. (3) Only 64% of women, also inserted them. (4) Over 98% of women never experienced any negative side effects. Numbness, pain, irritation, inflammation, tears or cuts were rarely reported. Therefore, vibrators are very safe! Here's my question to this whole thing. Do Vibrators improve sexual enjoyment and functioning for women? Or.... do women who already have, better sexual functioning, incorporate those vibrating toys, into their sexual repertoire; as a means of experimenting, and enhancing their experience? I used to get a c.all, from a woman: she only phoned, when her batteries were dead. ๐ฑ She just wanted, to use my penis... and fuck me! I was fine with that... I guess. ๐ถ .......................................... So Would you be able to 'do without', your favorite vibrator, dildo or toy? Have you ever enjoyed using a vibrator or dildo with your partner? .. Note : A F F is deleting words in the t.ext. Please be patient. ........................................... Instructions on how to use a dildo are included in the diagram, below. .. ...........................................  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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Yep... I've used dildos and vibrators with my lover and it's hot! ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ What a thrill to push that little thing in there and watch it disappear. Then watch as her eyes close and she shivers for me. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I've also had those Vibrators used (externally), on me. And I must admit, that it does enhance the quality of the sex. If I don't have a vibrator... well... I wouldn't miss it. But it's nice! ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Vibrators are by far the most popular sex toy. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, 25 percent of women have difficulty having orgasms, or can't have them. Many perfectly normal women cannot have orgasms without the intense stimulation vibrators provide. They need direct clitoral stimulation from fingers, a tongue, a vibrator, or anything else. My 'little pink friend' (a Shibaro Halo) is fun to share with a partner....showing how I like to use it, turning over the control of it to him or using it on him.
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Men have their hands and can also use a fleshlight, so they don't need a woman. Or do they? Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Men have their hands and can also use a fleshlight, so they don't need a woman. Or do they? Well... I've never used a 'flesh light' so I don't know what it feels like. Do you have any friends who have experienced it? I'd like to know their opinion. Not that I would try it. But I've been curious... lol ๐ฑ๐ Yeah... hands are ok. I guess if I use my left.... it'll feel like someone else is there. lol ๐ But it's still not the same. ๐ข Bottom line is that men are disadvantaged when it comes to emulating sex with a woman - in my opinion. Plus.... we're really, really, really shallow and needy. So.. no! We need women! โค๏ธ๐ I may be wrong about my thoughts about Vibrators and toys and how they make a woman feel. You're a lady ... what do you think? Is the pleasure you get, similar to, or better than... sex with a man? Or at the very least... is it as much fun? ๐ค Thanks for sharing your pov. ๐๐ The idea you brought up, can be a topic I explore on another blog. Thank you for the idea! ๐๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Vibrators are by far the most popular sex toy. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, 25 percent of women have difficulty having orgasms, or can't have them. Many perfectly normal women cannot have orgasms without the intense stimulation vibrators provide. They need direct clitoral stimulation from fingers, a tongue, a vibrator, or anything else. My 'little pink friend' (a Shibaro Halo) is fun to share with a partner....showing how I like to use it, turning over the control of it to him or using it on him. You've fricken named your little toy _"pinky "? Omg... you are sooooo funny. ๐ Yep... I inferred... lol I am not familiar with the toy you use. You'd have to show me what to do. R u patient with beginners? Thanks for sharing your pov. Interesting stats! ๐ค 25% is a lot! ๐ฑ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I could not do without my toys. I have a collection just to be sure I never am without. Yes toys are involved in partner play all the time. In fact I keep packages of vibrating rings in my stockpile. 
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I could not do without my toys. I have a collection just to be sure I never am without. Yes toys are involved in partner play all the time. In fact I keep packages of vibrating rings in my stockpile. Have you named any of them? You women are soooo funny... I swear... and you laugh at us men.. lol ๐ฑ๐ Ya know... if you were ever to do a blog post, with a picture of all your little toys on display.. I would read it with great interest. Especially if you included a description of the 'effect' of each unique play item! ๐๐ฅ๐ Yep... Have you ever thought about that, or is it just too personal? ๐ถ Vibrating rings? I'm an amateur here. Educate me. I'm too lazy to google it... lol ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I sometimes wonder if women do need men now. As for using vibrators and dildos on women, I've done that and it's awesome to do. However, I'd rather be the one doing the actual fucking. And yeah, I myself have used a fleshlight. They're ok, but it's just not the same as the warmth of a woman, not even close. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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4/11/2019 6:37 am |
I bet that stone was "polished" by years of "erosion".
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I sometimes wonder if women do need men now. As for using vibrators and dildos on women, I've done that and it's awesome to do. However, I'd rather be the one doing the actual fucking. And yeah, I myself have used a fleshlight. They're ok, but it's just not the same as the warmth of a woman, not even close. Yep... I agree with you on those points. It is hot to help a woman with those devices and toys. But you're right... nothing beats the real thing, right? lol I might have to give that flesh light thing a try. Going into those sex shops is a lot of fun! So... shall I serve you a pineapple vodka slushie or ya wanna start slow, with a coffee? โ๐ Stay as long as you want. Some of my other stuff here, is funnier! Have a great day. Drop by, any time. ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oooooo.... You sound like a seasoned pro... lol ๐๐ฑ Ya have some favorites? You know me. I'm always willing to learn about new stuff. Especially stuff that I know almost nothing about. ๐ Yep... I've seen you at work.... Hot ๐ฅand entertaining. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I bet that stone was "polished" by years of "erosion". Good point! Yep... ๐๐ค hmmm scary point.... ๐ฑ Or through exsessive use... I'd love to have been there, when that first man (who polished it) ... gave it to that first woman. What a vision. lol ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Omg.. That is so funny. Did all of us young men buy those for their girlfriends? ๐ I thought that I was the only guy, who came up with THAT idea. That's funny. ๐ I trust that you were instructed on how to use it? Q? Do you still have it? ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Wow. That's a classic story. England... and all. Very romantic... โค๏ธ I was in my twenties.. maybe 22 and I was with my new girlfriend at our first Motel rendezvous. I had the pizza and coke in hand. Then I pulled out the gift wrapped package. ๐ I had never used or seen one (live), before. And she had never had one either. It was quite the experience, to explore that device. Quite the thrill, indeed. I wish it were possible to relive those first, moments, from time to time. The "First time", for anything, was always a thrill. That Air Force experience in London... does sound intriguing. Or am I just a hopeless romantic? ๐ Thanks for sharing that story! ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My first was given to me by a man. He arrived with a vibrator, handcuffs and tequila. I said well, honey, most men bring flowers, but I do like your style. I used that vibrator until it died many yrs later. He is one of my good memories.๐ฆ
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You know I do have a vibrator, but to be honest I prefer REAL.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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My first was given to me by a man. He arrived with a vibrator, handcuffs and tequila. I said well, honey, most men bring flowers, but I do like your style. I used that vibrator until it died many yrs later. He is one of my good memories.๐ฆ Ever thought of blogging and sharing some of your tales? Thanks for popping by and sharing. Sounds like it was fun! ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You know I do have a vibrator, but to be honest I prefer REAL.. Always nice to see you. ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Great topic. If I want to have an orgasm, external application to my clit is really all that I need. However, because of reading about the 'use it or lose it' principle of keeping the vagina tissues healthy and flexible, I do insert my vibrator as well. I do think that using a vibrator too much sort of desensitizes your clit. Just speaking for myself, I'd probably have trouble making it happen with just my hand, at this point. It is what it is though. I'm not gonna give up my vibrator. It's similar to what Dan Savage calls the 'death grip' syndrome with male masturbation where guys get so acclimated to the tight pressure of their own hands, that they have trouble coming to orgasm during PIV intercourse.   
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Oh and do I still need a man? Of course. A vibrator will never replace skin to skin intimacy. But, given how picky I am about who gets to experience that with me, it's a good thing I have my vibrator as a back-up....
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Oh and do I still need a man? Of course. A vibrator will never replace skin to skin intimacy. But, given how picky I am about who gets to experience that with me, it's a good thing I have my vibrator as a back-up.... btw.... Disregard my 'tone', on your blog. The day has twisted, slightly left of center and my tongue, was accidentally sharpened... by some personal events. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Great topic. If I want to have an orgasm, external application to my clit is really all that I need. However, because of reading about the 'use it or lose it' principle of keeping the vagina tissues healthy and flexible, I do insert my vibrator as well. I do think that using a vibrator too much sort of desensitizes your clit. Just speaking for myself, I'd probably have trouble making it happen with just my hand, at this point. It is what it is though. I'm not gonna give up my vibrator. It's similar to what Dan Savage calls the 'death grip' syndrome with male masturbation where guys get so acclimated to the tight pressure of their own hands, that they have trouble coming to orgasm during PIV intercourse. Perhaps I shouldn't have joked? Sorry... ๐ That stuff just slips out... I can understand where all that vibrating would numb you. Hmm.. yep... and I've read all about that death grip. Although ... uncut men, do not (typically), have that problem. The foreskin provides a natural lubricant for the penis and one can achieve the big 'O' with almost no preasure at all. It's all a question of fluid mechanics and friction quotients. A lot less is needed to achieve the thrill. I guess, you'd have to be there. ๐ค Hmm... Interesting stuff. Thanks for popping in and sharing your thoughts. ๐๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Sorry that your day went sideways! Hope things improve. No worries about blog comments, I like people to be real about what theyโre thinking at any given moment.
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Wow... That's a really nice story... You've never thought of writing it in your blog? Sounds romantic. You could even make it a series?... Ok... Just a thought... lol ๐ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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