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I think when both feel comfortable, have at it!!! Could be instantaneous or could take awhile.
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12/26/2018 2:59 pm |
voted and personally I don't feel I could just meet and get intimate as I dislike hook ups which it pretty much is ...I prefer an fwb situation as I am just widowed a couple years and am disabled because of an accident ..I want to feel a bit secure first...so far its been going good..
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12/26/2018 3:00 pm |
There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable
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I want some time to get comfortable with her and the time can vary from person to person. Certainly don't feel comfortable going from online to meeting for sex. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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All kinds of scenarios!!! But trust comes first (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Within 30 seconds of sending them a dick pic. C======3 At least, that's how I assume I'd like it to go. I'll let you know if it ever happens  Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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It all depends on the person and the feeling that may be there. Sometimes you can just click and want to go for it. Then you have other times you want to what and learn more about the person. But most the time when you do sleep with someone right after meeting it never seems to really last.
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At least time for me remove my hat (s) [image]
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When both persons are comfortable with each other .
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It varies, as everyone is different, and every situation will be different. You could hit it off great through emails, chats, and texts, though when you do meet face-to-face... hmm, no chemistry? It has happened. On the flip side of that is your interactions with one another here, phone calls/texts, produce an interest, but nothing major until you meet... then WHAM! You're struck by lightning. One can never tell. "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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depends on where you meet them, if you meet them on a site like this, then your both on the same mind set, should be quicker, On a regular dating site, take some time, you don't know what they are after
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Depends on the person, and situation. I went on 4 dates, and multiple phone, and text conversations before I was comfortable enough to be intimate with one woman. While after weeks of texts, and phone calls with another woman it only took a couple of drinks in person before we were undressing each other as quickly as we could. Then the last woman I will mention we had a very heated conversation late one night that ended in each other’s naked embrace by morning time. For me it all depends on how comfortable I am around her, and she has a lot to do with that, mood, attitude, or just vibes she’s putting off. I don’t think there is a right amount of time, or should you put a time limit on it. Go with the flow, go with your own gut feeling, and never let someone change what you’re feeling inside. I can say I never regretted being intimate with any of these women regardless of the amount of time I did, or didn’t know them.
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12/26/2018 8:19 pm |
Each situation is unique with different circumstances and experience levels. But mostly when both are comfortable. It could happen quickly, or it could take time. I do tend to think if it happens immediately or very soon.... it's normally not going to last.
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A lot of different factors play into it. Lot of it depends on the person too.
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 depends on the person
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12/27/2018 2:58 am |
just take it moment by moment
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Long enough for them to return to their default rather than “best foot forward” behavior and to know them well enough to not make them the next “biggest mistake you’ve ever made.”
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12/27/2018 5:00 am |
Depends on person. I had it both ways. You kinda know which way its going to go
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Hah! Ideally, I'd like to know the person for a while first, but, in the real world, if the mood strikes us both... 
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voted.... not into it for a hook up...im not a fly by kinda person....so i need to know the person is sincere and not nuts and not looking to satisfy an experience that they desire. That takes time and a certain connection.
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12/27/2018 6:24 am |
Its all about the chemistry!!!
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12/27/2018 6:44 am |
a few minutes, afew days. It depends on person and chemistry, and of course, timing.
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12/27/2018 11:33 am |
I think it obviously depends on the person, but it also depends on the situation. Monday morning exchange glances and smiles at the gas station. Or Friday night exchanging glances and smiles at the bar after a few cocktails.
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1 post 12/27/2018 12:54 pm |
The question was “the least amount of time”. My answer to that would be, at least a couple hours. That’s the least amount of time it has taken for me and a partner to be comfortable enough with each other to engage in sexual activity.
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