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Some Lessons and Tips
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Some Lessons and Tips As you must when exploring all new things, start with an open mind, open heart, and no judgment of yourself or your body. Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips, your knees up, and your feet on the bed. Have your favorite massage oil handy. I prefer coconut oil for its silky feel and sensual aroma. Breath work is a key element in any Tantra practice and it helps to spread the orgasmic energy throughout your body. The goal here is to get relaxed and slowly build arousal. Circle the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your finger to stimulate arousal, varying from smaller circles to larger ones. Alternate the pressure from light to heavy. Push down on the clitoris and make small push and pull strokes, and then slide your finger down the shaft of the clitoris. Do this on both sides of the shaft, keeping in mind that some women are more sensitive on one part of the clitoris than another. To tug the clitoris, pull it gently away from the body by grasping at the sides and tugging back and forth. You can also move lower and tug the sides of the lips. Keep varying strokes from the top of the clitoris to down to the lips. To roll the clitoris, start by holding it firmly and rolling between the thumb and the index finger—kind of like you're making a tiny violin motion with your fingers. Using one or more fingers, tap the clitoris in varying rhythms from fast to slow to learn what the body responds to most. To find the G-spot, curve your first two fingers like the letter C and slide them into the vagina. Feel for a soft, spongy piece of skin behind the clitoris. You can massage it by making a come hither movement with your curved fingers. Vary between fast and slow strokes. You can also tickle the clit simultaneously at the tip, or place pressure on or above the pubic bone. Make sure to mix up all the above and vacillate between stimulating the clitoris in the various ways, while also involving the G-spot and nipples. The goal is to reach the edge of orgasm over and over again. When the body seems ready to explode, slow it down, pull away, then build it back up again to create multiple waves of orgasms instead of just one. During the cool-down periods, place your hand on the heart to help keep the body grounded, connected, and feeling loving energy. Then build the arousal back up to the edge of orgasm once again, and then back off and slow it down. The longer the foreplay or the back and forth, the more pleasure will be experienced. Enjoy ... Either alone or with your favorite mate... |
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Tantric sex is fantastic for both partners. Unfortunately too many people are in a hurry. One advantage of being older is you have the experience and control to enjoy the pleasure of pleasing your partner. Hope you find what you are looking for. If you are going to blog more, I hope you do, then add a comment to make your post appear in the "Resent Posts" section. You will get more people reading and commenting on them that way. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site  Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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11/13/2017 4:38 am |
Whew~! that was great ..... Thanks for the tips.... Me? well I am on this site because it is the one place I can post my erotic stories without getting banned or put in Facebook jail. I enjoy sharing with others and it' all for entertainment. Welcome to blog land~! You needed one comment to move your blog from the "new blog" list to the regular list that everyone reads. Looks like you got that covered... Now if you have a moment, swing by my blog and say hello in the comments. WARNING content is rated X and will involve reading 4 letter words and references to sexual situations~! So don't come by if this doesn't interest you. And if it DOES......................... Leave a message so I will see you there. Jimmy BMy blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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12/8/2017 12:25 pm |
A lot of people need educating on all this. Well done!
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The longer the foreplay or the back and forth, the more pleasure will be experienced: it's true and more exciting ! Have much pleasure
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Sounds wonderful
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3/21/2018 2:07 am |
When do we start bubba???
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7/30/2018 8:46 am |
That was very good and informative. 
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Try just breathing against your partner .. just an inch away from her skin. No touching... no penetration . With an ex , it drove her demented and frustrated and she came..
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8/18/2018 3:51 am |
Perfect explanation of how to pleasure a woman 
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1 post 9/12/2018 4:59 pm |
Marvellous. I suspect you've just inflicted bruxism on many a poor chap. 😂
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Wow, thank you for that xxx
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4/29/2019 12:21 am |
Nice post. I would like to practice my yoni massage technique with you. Based on this blog post, I think you would definitely appreciate it and possibly lend some guidance to ensure perfection. Wazza. xx
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4/8/2020 2:37 am |
Mmmh, love the blog. Getting me in the mood already 
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Very nice, loved it!
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5/26/2020 3:28 pm |
Excellent so far, but what I have found is that it is good to stimulate the clitoris with my tongue - flick it from side to side and suck it between your lips meanwhile use your middle 2 fingers (the longest plus the ring finger) to beckon her G-spot on (after the first couple of orgasms the clit becomes over sensitive, but the G-spot continues to make her climax, just pause for a minute then work it again) I have found that technique can give multiple orgasms about one every two minutes! xox
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My instrument loves a solo performance
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Beautiful girl!!! Write me in my blog please!
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1/5/2021 1:15 am |
Well, Spot on, the orgasm is the byproduct, not the goal. The give and take ist the part that counts, the fun part. To experience the touch and the reactions, the awareness.
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Could apply to men also. Stroking and cock play for an extended period of time is also a great pleasure. Many men have not had this experiences - they are more goal oriented when it comes to sex. IMAO
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10/5/2021 3:41 am |
Reminds me of the importance of sensuality, touch, taking your time, worshipping the body as an orgasmic temple. When I was younger I had a girlfriend who taught me about the clitoris and g spot. Thank you so much for this blog. I'd love to put myself in a woman's body for a day to experience this.
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