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I'm not a lifestyler  

GrnEyedGrl92501 58F
4 posts
10/7/2017 8:24 am
I'm not a lifestyler


I am often asked, especially by couples, how long I've been in the "lifestyle" and my answer is always the same, I'm not into the lifestyle. I have no interest in pnp environments, nor going to places like Freedom Acres or becoming your unicorn to share with your lifestyle friends, it's just not for me.

I am just your naughty girl next door who wants to enjoy some semi-regular fun in and out of the bedroom with a like minded bi-female or couple with a bi-female. You'd think that wouldn't be so difficult to find here on Couples Dating but apparently it is.

Secks4Dayz 52M

12/6/2021 8:51 am

When my wife and I were swinging together we met a lot of "lifestylers" that were pushing The Lifestyle on us/her ... well mainly her, since we all know how these things work.

What we learned relatively quickly is that the "lifestyle" is just another way for people in this subset of society to form a hierarchies and try to exert power/influence over you. It is as cliquey as high school and just dissatisfying.

Real adult don't need labels and approval from others to justify their interests, actions or behaviors.


GrnEyedGrl92501 58F
6 posts
12/6/2021 12:22 pm

Thank you for your insight, I'm not surprised especially the cliquey aspect of it.


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