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Profile rights! - Wildbynature0000 - Part II, the psycho!  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
4/27/2018 8:42 am
Profile rights! - Wildbynature0000 - Part II, the psycho!
This is actually an addition/update to my previous blog, entitled: "And today's ignorant clown goes to...( drum roll )..." . In a way, this female member ( Wildbynature0000 ) can also be categorized in my recent blog, entitled: "Progress! One person CAN make a difference here.", so I think I'll add her to that list. Read on...
So today I checked into my email, only to find this irate member bitching me out in a series of three short emails. They read:

"Wildbynature0000
why do you keep looking up my shit!!
4/26/2018 11:23 pm"

"Wildbynature0000
you are a fucking nut
4/26/2018 11:24 pm"

"Wildbynature0000
and your tits are ugly
4/26/2018 11:24 pm"

I truly have to LMFAO every time I hear a member yelling at me and childishly retaliating on me due to the fact that I have merely looked up their profiles. Seriously!?!? Let's examine this deeper, because this is turning into a runaway roller coaster of idiocy lately on here and I must have dealt with a dozen people or more who yell at me or get pissed because I merely "view your profiles". I'm tired of this idiotic mentality here! Perhaps this deserves a blog of it's own sometime in the near future, but for now, here it goes:

1 .) Rights - First and foremost, you people are clueless! I am an American citizen of this country and I have the inalienable freedom of my First Amendment right to view your profile as I choose to do so without having you clowns trying to constantly suppress or limit my right to do so.

2 .) Membership level - Secondly, I am a Gold member here. This especially gives me luxury to view anyone's profile at will, as I choose to do so and at any frequency of times that I damn well choose to do so. For those who cannot accept this fact, then you are ignorant of your freedom of rights and freedom of membership levels of those who exist here and you should not be on this site to begin with if you cannot accept these facts. Period.

3 .) Profile purpose - Thirdly, do any of us that exist on this site actually understand the simple concept of what a profile is designed for anymore? This isn't rocket science. The purpose of a profile is designed basically as this:

A .) In a nut shell, it gives the reader an overview of who you are, what you seek and the qualities/goals of who/what you expect to find in whatever it is that you seek here.
B . ) A profile is designed as a time saver and to obtain a simplistic and basic understanding of compatibility/incompatibility with someone. For profile example ( on any given web site ): ME: If I am a woman who is specifically seeking a love relationship with a single white male, non-military, who lives locally and who is an animal lover. Now, someone comes along and views my profile to see if we have potential compatibility... His stats are as follows: HIM: He's a married black male, he seeks a fling ( sexual partner ), he's in the Marines, he lives two hours from me and he is allergic to house pets. Does this sound like a match? No! The point of a profile is then to move on without contacting that member, yet what I see on this site is on the contrary. EVERYONE contacts me blindly and doesn't read, EVERYONE ignores profile content, etc... . The profile is designed to be a time saver and an easy method to see if there's basic compatibility or not. Also, if someone just wants to look at your profile for whatever reason just for the hell of it ( i.e.: media, blogs, profile updates, current status, content curiosity, etc... ) , so be it.
This is so simple that it's laughable.
Do you fit profile description or match most basic key topics? Yes/no?
If yes: Write to that person with an inquiry of interest and see what happens.
If no, simply move on without any contact needed.
This concept of profile cannot be simpler, yet for most people here, it's as tough to comprehend as, say, the Theory of Relativity. Come on people, get with it!

Anyway, back to my story...
So the mentality of Wildbynature0000 is laughable, at best. Just over a month ago when I posted my other blog about her, she actually childishly shot her mouth off via email and BLOCKED me. So now she goes on to send me emails asking me questions of: "why do you keep looking up my shit!!", when I have no ability to actually respond back to her or to her childish other comments. ?? Hahaha. What's more, her profile now describes: "not active!!!!!" twice. So if you're not active, then why give a damn of who looks at your profile and why take the time to write me at all? Hahaa. In a few past comments, I have been accused by this member of the following:

"Wildbynature0000 49F
Easton, PA
look at her psycho
1 month ago"

"Wildbynature0000 49F
Easton, PA
lady..get a grip
1 month ago"

"Wildbynature0000 49F
Easton, PA
this (to banana_canyon)...is a true nut job
1 month ago"...
Me: "Banana_Canyon 40F
Whitehall Township, PA
Says the woman who misreads the quotes here, accuses me, asks me questions about this member, gets a polite and detailed response, then resorts to childish name-calling, followed up by blocking me so I cannot return my side of a response.
1 month ago"

All I will say is is that this is good riddance that she's "not active" here any longer.
Point of this blog is partly to do with her and her idiotic behaviors, but it's more about the principle that just because I view your profile doesn't mean that people here need to get enraged over it. There's no reason to because a profile is designed to be looked at by whoever wants to. Do you know how many people look at my profile every day? Do you realize how many of the same exact members continually look at my profile? Do you realize how many of those same members actually write to me in email/IM and openly relay to me that "I looked at your profile pics/videos again today"? I mean come on, people! Get with it! Do I get mad at it? NO WAY! Why? Because my profile is f***ing PUBLIC for whoever here wants to read it or view my content. That is your right to do so, as well as utilizing your membership fees. Does anyone understand the definition of what PUBLIC means?

So again, before anyone signs up here and comes on crying that someone "viewed their profile", you all might want to brush up on some basic understanding of the definition of "public", what the "First Amendment" means and for all else that I just described of membership level status and profile purpose. People here are absolutely clueless when it comes to any of this! It's truly unbelievable how incredibly rude and ignorant our society has become! I honestly feel truly sorry for the present generation and where the future is heading for future generations ahead of us.

Oh, and while on the topic, I might as well just say that a profile view also does NOT necessarily mean that someone is interested in you if they view your profile. Where did these ideas come from? Occasionally I'll get guys saying "you<b> viewed </font></b>my profile" and therefore think I'm magically very interested in them because of that. That's the farthest thing from the truth. People view profiles for many various reasons, so don't jump to the "she wants me" conclusions if someone views your profile.

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5/1 Update:
More laughable info. So just several days ago on 4/26 this member goes ape shit on me for looking at her profile, has her pics removed, has had enough of the site and quotes "not active!!!" on her profile, and yet now she's right back in the game again as of 5/1 resuming a search and putting up pics again? Lol. Yet this is the same woman who quotes me as being "psycho" and "a nut job". Go figure.

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5/5 Update:
Four days later and she's yet again "inactive!!!!!!!!!". Yet this same woman quotes me as being a "nut job" and a "psycho" when she has major instability issues of her own.

Wildbynature0000

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
4/27/2018 9:21 am

 another one bites the dust


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/27/2018 9:30 am:
Yes, progress combined with good riddance! Sadly, for every one person that leaves, another one hundred dingbats join.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/27/2018 10:28 am

 I agree it is weird that people get all twisted about someone looking at their profile especially since is on the WORLD WIDE web.
But
I also gotta correct something. RE: "First Amendment right" to view your profile. The 1st only applies to governments trying to abridge your rights. I would doubt that Wildbynature is a government.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/27/2018 11:14 am:
Agreed, it's beyond bizarre how people get so twisted over others who view their profiles.

Part of the First Amendment is the freedom of speech and press. Freedom of the press is the freedom of the media and is the freedom of communication and expression through mediums including various electronic media and published materials. I'm not saying that Wildbynature0000 is a government or a government official....I'm merely stating the fact that these people who say "stop viewing my profile" or who get enraged over it and retaliate are attempting to limit and suppress my God given right to do so. So sure, they have the same freedom of speech to tell me "not to view their profile" as I do to say "fuck off, I don't need your permission to read it". That's the only point I make. They make it seem as if they have that authority as a government to suppress my right to do so. That's the point I make.

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/27/2018 12:22 pm

 It is ridiculous that people get upset if you look at their profiles. I have a lot of views in a day, and not once has it ever occurred to me to email anyone and give them hell for doing so.

At the present time I view profiles in invisible mode, not in an effort to deceive or be shady....simply because I'm not currently looking to meet anyone, and I kinda figure that if I view them they may take it as interest and contact me.
Then I have to go through the whole I'm not meeting right now "speech" because almost invariably they haven't read my profile.

I like to read profiles - I like to see the wants, needs,interests etc. of other people...plain & simple.
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/29/2018 11:08 am:
Same thing here. I get dozens of profile hits a day. The thought doesn't even occur to me to think "is he/she interested" or "that's getting on my nerves, so I'll retaliate". I mean, the very point of a profile is to be viewed. It's laughable to think that a profile exists, yet through some unknown threshold should others not view it, or should not view it more than X number of times. This is laughable!!

I can totally respect and understand your desire to view in the invisible mode. Right, it's not to be shady or stalking or anything, it's just that you prefer not to open that can of worms that will inevitably stem from a notification being received on their end that you have viewed their profile. For some reason, the weird mentality of a profile view to many here is "oh, she's interested in me. She viewed my profile, therefore she's automatically interested in me". NO NO NO!! I'm perfectly able to write to someone if I had interests in some sort. And I totally know what you mean by the whole "speech" that's there to follow, since 99.9999% of the time nobody will even bother reading a profile and seeing from the start that I am not here looking for anyone. So then comes that speech I must give, to say I'm not looking, to tell them to read profile, and to then prepare myself for either being ignored or retaliated on by their anger or childish badmouthing that's to follow. I cannot blame you for the stealth approach!

As always, you make the finest comments to my blogs and I feel a very strong similarity in what we both go through here. I appreciate the shout!

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