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Red flags...Pink flags...  

Terrichange 56T
33 posts
4/1/2018 2:10 pm
Red flags...Pink flags...

Happy Easter (to those that celebrate it) and I hope everyone is doing well. Let's get right to it. When dealing with people on this site (and ALT) here are some warning signs to watch out for, that I have broken down into two categories; Red Flags and Pink Flags. Red Flags are ones that should signal you to get the fuck out of the relationship, literally or metaphorically. Pink Flags are signals that should give you pause and have you consider whether you should move forward with this person or not. I am only addressing warning signs that women and Trans Girls should watch out for.

Red Flags:
1. A man starts writing things like "I love you" or "Bye luv" when the man has never even met you before in person. An extreme example of this Red Flag, would be the two marriage proposals I've received from men that never even met me. One of these men was willing to pay for HRT, breast implants, and transition surgery. And yes, I have chatted with many people of all genders that think, "Well if a guy wants to spend his money, let him do it." I just didn't feel it was ethically responsible to take advantage of this man; or anybody for that matter.

2. A person that has photos of "Ideal situations," or has photos that are not representative of what he looks like now. WTF, put your own photos up on your site and have them still reflect what you look like.

3. "Let's exchange numbers, I'm not on this site very often." These are usually hot genetic females and are fucking scam artists that should be taken out and shot. Don't give out personal contact information on these sites; at least unless you're certain the person isn't a fake.

Pink Flags:
1. An alleged masculine man that writes things like "he he he." or "kk" for "okay." These are typically feminine expressions oshouldn't be used by a masculine man.

2. A guy that finishes a chat with "xoxoxo." This Pink Flag is the tip of an iceberg of woosification (and yes I know that's not a real word). This is also the guy that likes endless foreplay, holding, and cuddling. Be a man and fuck my<b> brains </font></b>out lol. Let me be the one to crave holding and cuddling after you assault me with your cock.

3. This flag could either be a Pink Flag or a Red Flag. A guy that is "straight" and yet wants to give a Transgirl oral. Sorry, my "clit" isn't actually a clitoris, although I reserve the right to call it my "clit," you know what it is...Claim your sexuality for fuck's sake.

4. The Married Guy. Unless his wife knows what he is doing, this guy is inherently a lying fuck; who also falls into then number 3 Pink Flag category. And I get that there are always reasons why he legitimizes in his brain why he can cheat on his wife; but ultimately, this guy is a liar. If you don't want to be married anymore, get a freaking divorce. I was married for twenty miserable years and NEVER cheated on her.

Of course, these flags are just my opinions based on my experiences with men on this site and other people are welcome to disagree with me. These are just my opinions; nothing more and nothing less.

As always, thank you for reading my post and be safe and have fun.

Terri

56ringo 67M
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4/1/2018 6:10 pm

 Re: Pink Flag 1: You are right, it's supposed to be "heehee".
But wtf is un-masculine about "okay"? Check with Webster's Dictionary and see if it says anything about proper spelling and diction being "un-masculine".


Terrichange replies on 4/1/2018 8:49 pm:
Wow apparently my post touched a nerve with you as evidenced by your "wtf...". I am quite capable of making grammatical errors, and have never claimed to be perfect in anything I do. I meant "for okay," not "or okay." Thanks for sharing your mastery of the English language, I actually do appreciate it. By the way, the whole point of that segment was in regards to how difficult it is to find masculine men that are not effeminate. I am not criticizing anyone for using "he he he" instead of "heehee" However, I stand by my opinions, and if you don't like them that's fine. Have a great week.

Jordannts54 60M

4/4/2018 6:27 am

 I never hear women say he he he. That is very masculine. I hear women say hee hee or tee hee.

Bye Luv is a very casual expression and means nothing more than see ya.

I often offer my number or email, this site can be difficult to communicate on.


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