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Thick Chicks  

DaintyLady13 49F  
43 posts
5/8/2017 10:00 am
Thick Chicks

Yes I know.....we've heard all rhetoric about thick<b> chicks. </font></b>Contrary to popular opinion, being thick has nothing to do with how much one weighs. I've seen thick girls that weigh 130 lbs and thick girls that weigh 250 lbs. Nothing wrong with wearing you weight as best you can.

That being said....those of us who naturally have what some people pay a lot of money for resent being compared to morbidly obese, tar monster people who just don't wear their weight well. That is not to say that there is not a match out there for them as well but don't say you're thick knowing that you have a real issue with weight and you're just trying to garner enough attention to get to the first meeting. That's catfishing. I would love for everyone to just be honest with ourselves and face what we actually are.

I recently met a man who's profile said he was athletic and fit only to get to the meeting and see a man who was 6 feet but over 350 lbs. Sir, you're not fit or athletic. If you had been honest with me, I could have made an informed decision and perhaps still met with you based solely on some of the wonderful conversations we had exchanged for the two weeks prior to meeting.

All that to say, some of us make online situationships way harder than they have to be. I know who I am. I'm comfortable with that. Yes I get stopped at the airport frequently in security. When asked, are you carrying any weapons today maam, I am accustom to replying, unless you count bomb ass pussy, no sir. That has been a journey. My curves are mine. I am in love with them. The confidence that I exude because I am comfortable with myself is, in and of itself, sexy as hell (or so I've been told). I apply that same confidence to every aspect of my life so that I am the winner no matter what. I choose whom I share any energy with based on the energy I feel from them.

Love your curves. Love yourselves. Love your confidence. Grow into the realness that is you and then you don't have anything to prove to anyone.

Hornyguy30905 47M
2 posts
7/3/2017 7:41 am

 Love your blog and curvy woman. I hate it when a woman tries to hide her extra wight or curves. Keep it up.


Am2Lookin 65M  
51 posts
7/22/2017 9:50 am

 Yes, there is an identification anomaly that most don't get. But you are spot on....liked your comment in the airport! I believe it.....but I need to inspect!LOL...seriously!


darkgable1971 52M  
23 posts
7/30/2017 3:10 pm

 I loved the blog. You mixed facts with great humor.


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