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Being clear with THE UNIVERSE about my request...  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
4/26/2016 5:11 pm
Being clear with THE UNIVERSE about my request...


​When I equivocate about what I desire, The Universe GETS IT WRONG.

Stupid Universe!

I want The Unavailable Guy (TUG) v2.0.

It was unkind of you to send me someone who was so close to what I desire and have him be "just not be that into" me (not to mention his shame about being a perv who likes to step outside the default heterosexual,<b> monogamous </font></b>mode).

​Now, let me specify​​. I desire a man (or a woman though I'm using "he" and "his" because I'm 70% heterosexual​ but that other 30% is an enthusiastic 30% who adores women!!!​). S/he is someone who:

​1) IS CRAZY ABOUT ME​!!!​ And whose heart is available to love and appreciate me. And tell me so.

2) Shares my passion for culture change, especially attitudes towards sex. Which, of course, means that he appreciates my courage to follow my calling to work as a Sex Coach​ and professional Domina.

3) Adores me my body​, and lets me know it,​ even while ​enjoying other beauties​ in solo dates and any group activities​.

4) Is smart, ​healthy, well-educated/traveled, ​attractive, kind and​ wants to share his thoughts from reading or life observations. Like me. (No point in being falsely modest with The Universe. The Universe already know I ​think a lot of myself.) Which means it's great if he has a sense of humor...especially about his human frailties. Which I do, too.

5) Shares my ​desire to learn and grow as a person and is willing to communicat​e​ with me​...no matter what. That means, F​UCKING UNIVERSE, he is willing to speak honestly with me about​ his desires, fears and feelings!

6) Is financially stable and happy with how he lives.

(SIDE NOTE: Only in 4, 5 and 6 were TUG and I in alignment with what I seek. That, FUCKING UNIVERSE, is why I'm pissed off! Oh, all right, I'll acknowledge that he has #10, too, but I'm convinced that guys with big dicks have outsize egos.)

​7​) Is a generous lover, like me: someone who is willing to try what the other person enjoys. Ideally, he's someone who can fuck a lot for a long time AND enjoys​
extended in time kissing, touching,​​ giving and receiving pleasure​.​

Enjoys​ many outdoor physical activities and, when it comes to indoors: role play, a bit of kink, slow sensuality​ ​and tantric sexual energy in group sex play.​ (S/he just needs to be willing to explore these things.)​

9) Believes in polyamory, aka ethical non-monogamy, and is willing to do what it takes to make an open, honest relationship​ work for both of us.​

10)​ Has a big, thick dick.​ I can have a great time with any size penis, but I enjoy the experience of one that fills me up (without taxing my powerful PC muscles) and hits intense spots deep inside me. (Notice that this is lowest among my requests. Big dicks are easy to find for casual sex.)

​Is that so much to request?​ I limited my requests to 10+​bonus (the bonus would be a black man)​.

Do ya think you can handle that? Most magazine articles include "Top 10 Tips to..."

If not, ​I'll continue as "Solo Poly."

While remaining your Bi(sexual) Poly(amorous) Babe

{=}{=}{=}

BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/26/2016 5:19 pm

There you go. Make a list. Manifest it through your positive thinking.
kk

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