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Standards  

Jadzia11 55F
131 posts
2/23/2018 4:55 pm
Standards

I think my standards are too high for online dating any more.

I want someone who is age appropriate, not someone the same age as my father or my . Some who is relatively close to my age. A few more or less does not bother me. However more than 15-20 difference either way is too much for me.

I DO NOT want a married or attached man. I am not interested in playing the fool for some else's issues. I would prefer to get involved with some else who does not have attachments. I am not here to break up your marriage or relationship. And I certainly do not want to be there when your significant other finds out you have been stepping out.

I would prefer some that is within a reasonable distance from me. I have a job and responsibilities that make it so I cannot just hop in my car and drive most of the day, spend a couple hours hanging out and then driving back. That is not realistic for any in my opinion. I am not saying I cannot get away for some free time, but I want to be able to spend that time enjoying someones company and not traffic. I realize that I live in an area where some driving is to be expected as this is not a huge populated city. And I would never ask or expect a man to drive a great distance to meet me. I am very much of the mind set that the first meeting should be in public, it gives us both an out if needed or the option to go somewhere a little more private, if things go well.

And since I am a tall woman, I prefer men that are at least as tall as I am, if not taller. I know this is more of a vanity issue, but it's my preference. I have been out with men a few inches shorter, but if you are in the 5'0 to 5'7 range, I am most likely not going to be interested. I would prefer you can look at my face and not my chest while we are talking.

And conversation.... lets at least be able to communicate. I am not really interested in a man that can only talk about tits and ass ALL the time. I am all for those types of conversations when the time for it is there. But if you cannot<b> stimulate </font></b>my brain at least with basic conversation, you will very likely never<b> stimulate </font></b>my body.

So I guess I to sum it up, I would prefer a man that is single, mid 40's to 50's, tall and articulate. Seems like it is asking too much these days, so therefore I will probably remain single for a long time. But even just meeting some as a prospect is difficult with those outrageous standards I have.

kahonre2 53M
20 posts
3/19/2018 10:57 am

 Well that's not really too much to ask for... you know what you're looking for.... altho may be hard to find on this site... there may be a few matches for you... not very many... lol.. you'll have to wees out the rest.....


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