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What to Do? I decided to actually USE this site because when I go to other dating sites, the men lie or whatever attempting to get laid. I feel like this site removes the need to lie, I want sex, you want sex, let's come to terms and do IT repeatedly! Simple enough however, it has not worked out so far because they're lying with their pants down, either about their relationships, situations and even their endowment. LYING is the biggest turn OFF for me! I've put it all out there, in the blogs (embarrassing) , in my profile and my pics are more intimate than a<b> gyno </font></b>exam so you don't need to lie. We don't know each other and when you lie about one small thing (age, having a job, being in a relationship/married), maybe you're lying about the bigger things that actually matter (drug and disease free, my safety). I'm not lying so please you don't either. Maybe I'm the dud and in addition to relaxing the sex and relationship requirement, I should relax some other rules too. I want passionate sex and that requires something more than me being wet and you sticking it in. Maybe this is not the site for me because even easy is complicated. I've chatted, given my number to a few but so far, I'm still on this site looking. |
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I understand your situation. This is supposed to be a bit of an escape from the b.s. that you have to deal with in the real world. A less complicated venue to find someone who wants what you want, sex, hopefully good sex. And instead you get a continuation of the things that annoy you in the real world. It'll get better.
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The guys you meet on this site are no different from the guys you'll meet in person . . . . . . Actually they're the same people. If they'll lie in person, they'll lie online. If they're honest in person they'll be honest online too. It's not the site. Fakes and flakes are everywhere.
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You'll have to kiss A LOT of frogs before you find your prince. Does EVERYONE lie on this site? No, but there are way too many that do. After you've been on the site for awhile, you'll begin to spot them more quickly. Weeding out the fakes, flakes, and weirdos will become much easier. It goes both ways too. There are plenty of women on this site who are full of shit. I've met/chatted with my share. It's just harder for women because of the male:female ratio which is about 100,000:1. Do your due diligence. You'll find somebody. There are decent guys on this site.
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So you came here and were naive. Now you've got the lessons learned under your belt and you can decide whether you want to stay on the site or not. If you do stay, you have greater insight in terms of what to expect. That being said, you have your limits and requirements for a reason. Everyone does and usually hey are related to important things like our personal safety, self esteem and our ethics. Never compromise, it's be beginning of an ugly slippery slope A couple of thoughts. I see a lot of women approach his site with an attitude that a little bit of mediocrity (or worse) is better than being alone. That's not a healthy attitude. If you decide to stay on this site think carefully about how you want to market yourself, what impression do you want to leave with a man who doesn't know you and comes across your profile for the first time. make sure that your profile and pictures match up with the message you want to send out about who you are and what you want..
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how true about phony profiles, they keep doing that occasionally, no idea why and have caught them with same photo in four or five areas, by the way all photos are real, and your breasts and legs are very nice
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you should be honest about your situation, honest about how big you are or are not, honest about anything you have, honest about drug use, and since this is a sex site, be honest about what you would like to do
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 sorry to repeat what the others have said, just isn't the place, too many fake people, take your time in your search , a good one will come your way
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Wish you luck and not settle for anything less than you want.
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