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How We Became Swingers
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How We Became Swingers The majority of this post was written back in 2010 when we started our external blog. We get asked this question a lot and thought it worthy of its own post. Swing Town It all began with a little show that ran on CBS in the summer of 2008 called Swing Town. The show took place in the 70’s and focused on a couple who recently moved to a new part of town and to their shock found out that their very friendly neighbors were swingers. We fell in love with the show and was disappointed to see it cancelled after only one season. The couple that were swingers were in our view presented in a very positive light and this made us very interested in finding out more about the lifestyle. Research Our next stop was YouTube. We decided to do a search for swingers and found a handful of documentaries that the major networks have aired over the course of the last decade and while many of them had a bit of a negative slant we found them to be fairly informative. This led us to begin searching the internet for lifestyle resources. Swing Life Style (SLS) At this point we came across several lifestyle<b> websites </font></b>that recommended Swing Life Style (SLS) as an online service to us. We decided to create an account in the beginning of December of 2008. We weren’t planning on actually swinging but created the account out of curiosity. Within moments of creating the account a Single Guy that we knew sent us a message greeting us as new members to SLS. At this point we had no photos up and we weren’t sure what to do, but rather than be ashamed of our curiosity we decided to own it and told the Single Guy that he actually knew us. Our Neighbor Our Friendship with this Single Guy actually grew as a result of this exchange. He came to visit us several times to give us a crash course in Swinging 101, explaining to us all the types of activities that go on in the lifestyle, the different online services that exist, and also the different clubs and parties that took place in New York. His enthusiasm for the lifestyle made ours grow and we became even more curious than we were before. First Swingers Party About a week before New Year’s Eve we were informed that the vanilla party we were planning on attending was cancelled. This had left us with nothing to do and we did not want to do nothing for New Years. We received a message on SLS from a very nice couple from Staten Island who invited us to a New Year’s Eve Swingers Party. We decided to attend and we haven’t looked back since  Where We Are Today Many years later we are still swinging. We are strictly a full swap couple and each have slept with over a hundred members of the opposite sex. Those occurred during one on ones, threesomes (FMF and MFM), foursomes (MFMF), and orgies. We love the lifestyle party scene and try to go to an on-premise party at least once a month, even sometimes as much as three times a month. These parties take place in houses, apartments, hotels, and clubs. We have even dabbled in going to polyamorous play parties. We are likely one of the most active lifestyle couples in New York which can be seen by the amounts of certifications and validations shown on our profiles on the various lifestyle sites. We even have our own blog chronicling our adventures. Rest assured though we are likely one of the most safest couples you will ever come across. We regularly ask peoples STD status and when the last time they were tested before playing and we ourselves get tested every six months and have always received clean results after every test. We look forward to a future of continuing to enjoy the lifestyle and all it has to offer. |
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