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Foot in mouth and head up ass. (So, whatcha talkin' 'bout?)  

AndyStitzer_1983 40M
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4/6/2015 10:36 pm
Foot in mouth and head up ass. (So, whatcha talkin' 'bout?)

Though I've shifted my focus from sex to friendship, I think it's fair to say that I would have long since completed my previous "quest" to lose my virginity if I had only managed not to make an ass of myself. And I'm not just talking about the polyamorous married woman on OkCupid, mentioned in my first blog post.

If you're discussing with someone the possibility of meeting up, and they recently mention that they and their "dom" might be splitting up, it's REALLY good idea to still be concerned with the possibility of getting together.
*end sarcasm*
No, but seriously...hinting at the remote possibility of still hooking up is a pretty bad idea, even if one tries to soften the blow with something like, "Not to sound like an insensitive prick, but..."

That's what I get for being a slow learner...and admittedly, for thinking with the wrong head...and also for not understanding the dynamics of a BDSM relationship. It took me too long to realize the<b> enormous </font></b>amount of mutual trust that such a relationship demands. Needless to say, I feel like a royal piece of fecal matter for being so inconsiderate.

Maybe most of the women I was previously in contact with inexplicably stopped communicating with me because they're just ahead of the curve.

Or maybe I'm just being hard on myself. Who can say?
heh heh... heh heh... I said "hard on."

What I can say is that I definitely have a way with women.
The wrong way.

As they say, live and learn. Unfortunately, as previously mentioned, I'm a slow learner.

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