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Beginning So I have never been one to be able to sustain any sort of diary or log of any kind but now with so many people dumping their thoughts into type via the internet, I thought I may do so as well. Maybe typing would be easier than pen to paper. I have been a member of Couples Dating for quite some time, on both coasts, under a couple of different profiles, and have had varied experiences on both sides. I find the people, both men and women, here on the west coast to be much more artificial, superficial, self- absorbed, petty and monetarily driven. On the east coast, people are more open, transparent, able to speak their minds without being offensive, and frankly, friendly. What drives this difference I cannot say, but I do know that I have been disappointed here on the west coast on many levels. There is not the social connection here (and I do mean via this specific site as well as specifically on the west coast) that seems to occur on the east. Most people seem to relate via work more so than basic friendship and have few friends or acquaintances beyond their occupational demographic. I like to get to know people of all kinds, in all occupations, and on whatever level seems to strike a cord. I can be as comfortable wiping the tears of a 2yo who lost mommy to chatting with the multi<b> pierced </font></b>barista about her college aspirations while she blends my drink, to giving that drink to the homeless guy on the corner along with a couple bucks, to helping the tatooed biker pin up the rip in the ass of his pants, to commiserating with an old man who can't ambulate without the assistance of a walker or cane. We are all human beings who deserve each others' kindness and respect. That seems to be lost here with everyone closed in their own vehicles rushing to get down the crowded highway or shoving their way thru the masses along the street avoiding any sort of eye contact. I consider myself a fun loving, open, friendly woman who loves sex but doesn't think my world revolves around having a sexual partner. Honestly, sometimes my self gratification is much more pleasurable than the fumblings of an inept, nervous male who doesn't seem to know the general anatomy of the female form let alone his own lack of sexual prowess. At my age, with a partner at or near said age, I don't think I should need to give instructions, visual aids or manual guidance to achieve mutual pleasure. Yes, I do think the fine tuning may need assistance, but the general idea of what goes where and what feels good should be in the knowledge database. Am I wrong? Your comments and musings are welcome but if all you can do is be an asshole and leave derogatory rudeness, don't bother as your bullshit will be deleted.... |
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They say sex is like riding a bike, the last time I got on a bike I fell off.  I might need a refresher course. I have issues with large crowds and traffic, so I have enjoyed living in a smaller community for the last decade. Oh I still run into rude assholes and idiot drivers, but not near as many. I've worked with people from both coasts and if given the choice I choose the east.
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