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leximer1 35F
80 posts
6/29/2015 9:40 am
Symbols...


I’m often asked as a southern white girl who is also a practicing bi-sexual why I do not “support” certain causes or activities that “should” be near and dear to me. I am told I do not support them because I do not show my support through the use of symbols or regalia. Where is my rainbow sticker, flag, or t-shirt? Where is my confederate flag flying proudly in my yard or my confederate flag bikini? My general response to this is to ask questions of my own…

Gay “pride”…
1. If I want to receive same treatment for my sexuality as heterosexuals why must I make every effort to show I am different from them?
2. Why must I display proof of my choices through the use of symbols if heterosexuals do not have to do so?
3. If I truly love someone why do I have to disrespect them by putting them or our relationship on display simply in order to make a point? I do not shy away from who I am in public when it comes to hand holding, hugging, or the occasional kiss. I do this because of my feelings towards the one I am with NOT to get a reaction from others. I do not need anyone else’s approval any more than I do their condemnation. I am not a sideshow nor should the one I happen to be with at the time or our relationship be treated as such especially by me.
4. Why would I ever allow myself to show support for the “LGBT community” that finds it necessary to use shock tactics to promote their agenda…such as the use of flags depicting butt plugs, dildos, etc…in a national “gay pride” parade. You think exposing to such things that have absolutely nothing to do with being gay or straight somehow furthers the “cause”? I do not allow others to represent me or my feelings especially when they show as much ignorance at times as the ones they are allegedly opposing.
5. I do not believe in monogamy so why would I support gay marriage any more than I would traditional marriage? I certainly believe it is every one’s right to get married if they so choose but I do not believe in the institution itself no matter who is involved.

Confederate flag…
1. Why would I fly it? It is not nor was it ever the flag of the confederacy. It was a battle standard designed to be easily seen through the “fog of war” after the debacles by both sides during the 1st battle of Manassas when soldiers from both sides were killed by friendly fire due to being unable to distinguish between friend and foe. So if I am not in battle why do I need to fly a battle standard?
2. Why do I need to fly it or display it any more than I do the American flag? I had ancestors (many in fact) who died for both flags during that time as well as several since under the American flag including my brother in Afghanistan. I display my American flag at my home on the appropriate holidays to show my support for the soldiers as well as I do display my confederate flag for historical and memorial purposes during confederate history month.
3. Do I not fly a confederate flag or display an<b> emblem </font></b>of it because of my status as a “snow bunny” or my love of black men? Ridiculous assumption. In fact, MOST of the black guys I have sex with LOVE the fact I am a country girl from the South. Many of them ASK me to display or wear something “confederate themed” while we have sex. They have informed me that it makes it that much better to fuck me and the South at the same time lol .


HAVE A SEXY DAY


88Robio69 54M
1 post
5/30/2020 1:32 pm

This is some kina funny lmao


leximer1 35F
18 posts
9/7/2019 12:47 am

Loooove that particular role play . Nice pic too


HAVE A SEXY DAY


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
6/29/2015 12:59 pm

"Many of them ASK me to display or wear something “confederate themed” while we have sex"

Doesn't that seem a bit weird?


leximer1 replies on 6/29/2015 5:44 pm:
Based solely on things I have been asked to do, wear, say, or "accept" by guys...asking me to wear confederate attire or such doesn't even rate on the weird-ometer lol . I don't judge people on what turns them on or makes them happy. Unless it is something that just totally creeps me out (which is not too likely) I say let people enjoy what makes them happy.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/29/2015 10:24 am

Interesting questions for many to consider.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


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