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Anal Sex I've noticed more guys are asking for anal sex so I thought I'd focus this blog post on the topic. From my experience it seems as if younger guys, the ones in their 20s really want it, so it may be a generational thing. If the guy you're with is really into anal, tell him not to push it too much on the first date. Any kind of sex, especially anal, is very personal and involves your being completely comfortable with him and it's rarely possible to achieve that level of comfort on a first date. Or even on a second or third date many times! Keep an open mind to it. Many men love it and it really is something special and enjoyable you can offer your partner once he has earned the priviledge. If you've never done it before, you should probably wait until you're in your next long term relationship. Anal is not really something you should try the first time with an Couples Dating guy. You need to completely trust the man you have anal with and not wonder if he's going to call again. Every time you do anal, it really does require a lot of lube. I'm never ready for it without lube and have to spend considerable time getting ready. Your anus is very tight and your partner can tear some of the sensitive tissues back there if you don't use it. And once you actually decide to do anal, be sure he puts more lube on every few minutes. It doesn't last long and after 10 or 15 minutes it may feel like he never used lube in the first place! I also have my partners take their time with extensive foreplay. This gets me into the mood and really increases my comfort level. I find when I'm turned on, I can be much more daring when it comes to sex. Men who are<b> obsessed </font></b>with anal often want to lick or play with your hole and you should encourage it. This helps open it up so that when you does begin to penetrate you, it goes in much more smoothly. As he puts it in, don't tense up because this shrinks the hole and dramaticly increases friction - which can hurt! This was my main problem throughout high school and college and I just assumed I couldn't do it right. Only after I learned to relax could I enjoy it. A lot of my friends who have given up on anal have done so because they are so tense that it hurts. This is very unfortunate because anal really can be fun once you figure it out. Communicate with your partner about what you're feeling. If it feels terrific, give him a sexy moan. But if it hurts, don't let him keep going. Talk to him! Don't suffer in silence. I know too many people who keep quiet about the pain and they end up very sore or reluctant to try it again. Have your partner take it easy back there when he's doing it. Some guys get so caught up they start pounding away without realizing how much they may be hurting you. You may be so caught up with it that you don't realize either until after he pulls out. There's something about sexual passion that covers up a lot of pain. But after your done, suddenly you'll feel all the damage you ignored and really regret it. Great anal is easy if you both take it easy! Don't let the mess scare you. Anal can be a little more messy than most sex acts but it's definitely worth it. Keep some soap and towels nearby to deal with any mess you both make. And most of all, try to have fun with it. There's a variety of sex acts, positions or even sex games you can play that focus on anal sex. Find out what you like, what's safe, and just have fun. Hope this helps! |
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Great tips for someone who hasn't yet had anal sex, gudfatpussy! One thing I left out of my blog is the recommendation to try it the first time with a man who has experience doing it. I struggled for years and finally met someone who was able to show me how to do it and have fun! Anal sex with a fellow novice is a very bad idea!!!
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A friend wife told him," How ever much you put in me, I get to put in you. If your wanting to give you, you better be willing to receive "
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