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Submissive & Masculine?  

SCcuriousjock 43M
34 posts
12/17/2014 10:18 am
Submissive & Masculine?


I get asked a lot of times if I like to top, or can be versatile with another dude....of course I can...all my equipment works 100% perfectly. If there is a hole, my dick will get hard and fill it up......

BUT, having said that, it's not what I enjoy when I choose to meet up with a man for sex. For me, part of the excitement is all about the mental part of the act. Yeah...I'm a guy, so rub my dick and it will shoot after a bit, but does that make sex hot? Not really. What makes sex hot is what's going on between your legs AND your ears.

For me, I know I am a masculine, normal, sports loving, beer drinking, guy, but there is something incredibly hot about being dominated by another masculine guy....it's my little hang up if you will. I am in charge at work, I have 2 that I have to worry about providing for, and in the bed with women, I am that man they want...i like to be dominant.

With a dude, it is extremely erotic for me to be totally submissive, find a masculine dude that has all the things we consider masculine in this society and let him dominate me in the sack. I want to be told what to do and how he wants it done. I do NOT act like a girl in the sack, I am aways a man, I won't wear panties for you,, but I like to be that submissive guy...that's what turns me the fuck on. If a guy is uber masculine.....AWESOME, is he muscular....AWESOME....got a huge dick....AWESOME....tatted up.....AWESOME..it's all about the masculine stereotypes,....but its not all that. Being an older man with a rugged face and a bit of a gut can also give me the same rush......maybe it's the father/ or coach/player fantasy in my head....whatever it is.....IT IS WHAT IT IS.

I am not going to change....this is what I am looking for. I don't care if it is YOUR preference......we are all entitled to our own deal. Enjoy yours and let me enjoy mine.

aloneinatl17 47M
6 posts
10/18/2015 1:46 am

With Women and in general, I'm a Sub/Switch more of one but versatile/ best of both worlds so to speak and I have my moods but it's all about what an individual finds attractive or more about another one, no matter skin, gender etc. To each their own, and no one person is completely the same we are all unique.


luckypuss86 37F
235 posts
8/6/2017 11:12 pm

Why are Bi men so much more submissive for men than women?


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