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Deep Throat and The Point of No Return  

rm_rakehell500 70M
843 posts
10/23/2014 2:58 pm

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10/24/2014 3:32 pm

Deep Throat and The Point of No Return







I won't lie, I've been throated and it felt great. It is a unique sensation and one I suspect most men enjoy --- but, you don't have to have that skill or attain it for me to enjoy oral sex. You don't have to like it rough, like your hair pulled, like being face fucked, lay in weird positions, let me come in your mouth or on your face in order for me to enjoy oral sex.

It does help considerably it you are doing it because you like doing it. Even more if you are enthusiastic about doing it and improving your skills, you are welcome to practice to your hearts content --- but the best oral sex is with a partner who sincerely enjoys doing it, enjoys doing to you and to your cock, and lets you know how she enjoys doing it and what her limits are beforehand.

Now there is one thing to know about the male appendage., at the moment of orgasm we don't have a lot of warning or much control. It is not the same as peeing even though it comes through the same tube and uses many of the same muscles.

We cannot start and stop it at will, we can only hold it back for seconds when it reaches the point if inevitability, if our hands aren't on it we don't have any control of direction short of turning our backs on you and it can spray up to ten feet across the room.

Most of us who have ever masturbated while lying on our back have cum in our own face at least once. We haven't any control of distance , and if we retard it too long it won't happen, it can be uncomfortable, and, despite Tantric teachings, it is potentially harmful when it flows back into the seminal tubes.

I know many woman will not accept this, but it can happen before we can warn you in some circumstances. That's one reason the pull out method isn't particularly effective as birth control. In the time it takes for us to say we are coming sometimes it has already happened. Remember, this happens to us in our sleep at times, the best way to describe it is a short circuit of the system.

By its nature orgasm is loss of control for both sexes. You can't always control how you lose control, ask women who aren't always entirely certain that squirting didn't involve a little peeing. Thankfully unless we have Stenosis from Diabetes most men can control that.

Most of us will try to avoid doing anything you don't want, but likely every man on this site has had at least one mishap where he did not have time to avoid making a mess. Age and skill does not improve this, if any thing age can make it worse.

I'm not suggesting you don't get angry, or that you don't express your feelings, but short of a Tantric guru any man who tells you he can fully control an orgasm is lying. Some handful of men can do it more often or when they want to, but at that precise moment that it happens it would be a rare man who controlled that.

This is not to lay the responsibility or blame on women, and certainly some men don't try very hard or use this as an excuse when they could have done something, but just about every man alive has had this happen when he didn't want it to, when he wasn't expecting it yet. and at a point before he could stop it.

If we had that much control it wouldn't be orgasm or passion, both of which by their nature are a form of surrendering or losing control.




Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.



rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
10/24/2014 3:32 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Wow my kind of topic.. Go deep or go home is what I always say Rack hugsssssssssssssss V
A lot of women think men have more control of this than they really do, and guys, not wanting to admit they don't control anything, let them.

There is a point of inevitability when the only thing you can do is blow or clamp down in which case it will still leak out slowly with no orgasmic experience and frankly retarding it doesn't feel that great and achieves little since sperm still escapes.

Granted men, especially young men, can control urination, but not as much as some women think. That wet seat you complain about is because we never know when it is going to spray, come out in two streams, spurt out, trickle afterward, or what.

Of course we could wipe it off, but that's asking for a lot of thought by the big brain we don't use often in that region.

Our plumbing may not be as tricky as yours, but it still isn't a particularly good design.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/24/2014 2:52 pm

Wow my kind of topic.. Go deep or go home is what I always say Rack hugsssssssssssssss V

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