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Married for Extra Orgasms (or How to Know A Blogger is Married when he Prefers Not to Say)  

rm_debluvz2fck 55F
232 posts
11/17/2013 10:17 pm
Married for Extra Orgasms (or How to Know A Blogger is Married when he Prefers Not to Say)


A local (to me, read San Antonio, TX) blogger posted a blog about marriage, how it has elements, and how partners lose sexual interest within a marriage. The argument went, more or less, as follows.

Many studies have been conducted on marriages.

I talked to a man and woman who had been married, questioning them separately, to learn about their relationship.

Married people lose interest in sex and give up, but it isn't always both partners.

Single people should fill in the gaps, to gain "Extra Orgasms" through their altruism.

Now, I chuckled and looked at the blogger's profile. I anticipated that it would say married. Instead, it was the Prefer Not To Answer which automatically leads one to believe married, separated or attached. Posting that single people should be available to married ones who aren't being fulfilled leads me to the obvious conclusion that he was married.

Why would the single not stick to another single, even for the years of experience he suggested? There are enough divorced and single men of any age group and experience level to satisfy the men and women here without dipping into the maritally status-ed pool. Why dip into that pool when you know that feelings can be hurt and marriages destroyed when you do? Some spouses say they don't mind or want their partner to be fulfilled but don't understand the level of emotions they will feel after it has happened.

So, why would a single person get into the muck and mire of married men or women? Why shouldn't the married men and women seek out matches who are also married?

What it all boils down to is an act of self-promotion. PICK ME! Here is why: because she's crazy/fat/lazy/uninterested/cheating/unconcerned/accepting. Choose your combination of the faults and failings of your spouse, and be just like the rest of the married cattle arguing why a single person should ignore the marriage vows that you already have.

Why not choose a married partner for extra orgasms? Because you've stated you aren't interested in married partners and won't deviate from your stance regardless of the argument you receive.

CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
4/6/2014 4:59 pm

LOL..
I wonder if it's actually worked for him. I want to see actual stats and case studies. I bet every married guy gets slapped at least twice.
Some of us become swingers. But still not looking for a replacement.. emotional or purely sexual. Just an expanded "love life".. but I'm not trying to exonerate myself for anything... yet
I agree with what you say and there's really no sense in going through all of that trouble to piss off a couple of women.. one of them that can potentially throw you out of a house.
Anyway, I keep coming back to read more of your entries. Thanks for the insight.


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