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difference between indian swingers and american swingers
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difference between indian swingers and american swingers Dear Hot Desi Couples, Hot Sexy Wives, Bhabis and Aunties: Of course, you Desi women are the most beautiful and sexy women in the world. Therefore, a man wants to have sex with you whether you are single or married to someone else. We are penning the following not to disparage India, but to identify some areas for improvement so partner swpping or swinging becomes within easy reach of the open-minded,educated, upper middle class couples. There may also be business opportunities for the enterprising desis in setting up swinger resorts and couples' sex clubs. Swinger resorts and clubs is a big, thriving and growing businesss in North America. You have to see it to believe it. We have experienced the swinging lifestyle and resorts and facilities that cater to it. After our annual sojourn to Mumbai we, want to write about how the Lifestyle (swinging) and partner swapping activities in the two countries contrast, complement and enrich couples' social and sexual lives. Make no mistake, for India, multipartner sexual activities and intercourse are no foreign import. For evidence, one can read Maharshi Vatsayana's Kamasutra of ca 600 AD, and, also Tantric texts that celebrate multipartner social and sexual activities including sexual intercourse. We Desis were suppressed during the colonial rule and submitted to the Victorian, hostile, anti-sexual, morality. That is rapidly changng in resurgent India of today. The women are no longer subservient to their husbands and are demanding equal role and satisfaction in sexual activities. In the USA, the Lifestyle or swinging movement is primarily run by women who choose the couple/s they will swap partners with for sexual play and intercourse, and, with who, when and where she will play. She may demand that she needs and can get two, three or four, males to service and fuck her. The women do not accept the moniker "wife swapping" as demeaning to her dignity. She is not her husband's property. Why not call it husband swapping or trading? Therefore Lifestyle or swinging is used to connote a couple's sexual activities with another couple/s for multiparter sexual play and intercourse. When women start to control swinger clubs, parties, etc., the swinging lifestyle movement seems to thrive and prosper as it has in North America, USA, Canada, Mexico and Jamaica. We are happy to see young couples in India playing and swapping mates with other couples for sex. The young couples, primarily 25s to mid 30s are using the social media like FB to connect with other like-minded couples. Many couples, men and women are are posting photos partially or fully nude and also showing theemselves, husband/wife ,or, boyfriend/girlfriend with two or more other couples in the act of intercourse without false modesty. It seems quite a few of these photos are fake or hijacked. However, there seem to be many genuine ones where the woman is posing fully nude with her pussy or pubic hair showing. This is much like the couples' swinger sites in the USA that show full nudity and men and women fucking. This is where the similarity ends. It is by far the easier to connect with fun-loving, open-minded ,swinger couples in the USA than in India, even though, some sites like desihunter have come up to fill the need. The most popular, with thousands of couples from India registered as members, seems to be Facebook. Two young couples, we personally know, in their mid to late twenties and 30s, and, married recently are into swinging and doing full partner swap that includes intercourse with the husband/wife of other couples. And, since many girls now have several boyfriends, they are no longer virgins and some are swinging with married couples along with their bfs. And, almost all want to continue after marriage for sexual variety. There is a real sexual revolution going on in India in these modern times. For instance, open marriage seems to be gaining acceptance. Much of this has been reported in English language newspapers. In the USA , one can log on to dating site and find two hundres couples with profiles and photos within a 5 mile (8km) radius of our home. We can chat, im, or em the couple you want to play with and have sex with, to set up a date to meet and get to know. No c2c or pic trading is needed when you can meet the couple/s at a bar in person. Thereafter, if you feel both of you like the couple and are compatible enough to swap mates and have sex with, you set up a date to meet for real play in your or their home, or a hotel. There you swap mates and have full-blown sex with each other's wife and hubby. In India there seem to be too many fakes posing as couples for this approach to work. Couples' sex clubs are by the thousands all over N. America, in every major city, where one can walk in, pay an entrance fee and meet other couples for one-on-one or group sex, if that's what you prefer. Single women are admitted free of charge in most clubs. We usually take desi visiting couples to a sex club if they are open minded, so inclined, and the husband and wife want to enjoy sex with someone other than her/his regular sex partner. There the couple may experience full nudity in public for the first time. And if she is not embarassed, we can play, then swap mates in a private room and fuck. We have yet to come across a couple that did not enjoy the full swap experience for their first tme to do so. There are hundreds of swinger resorts in North America, Mexico, Jamaica included, where couples go for just one reason-to have erotic fun with other couples, swap mates and have sex. To our knowledge there are no swinger resorts in India. Goa is a good resort place but one has to connect with firangis, whereever they stay, and who are looking to fuck desi women. There are hundreds of camp grounds with campers and cottages that cater to swinger couples like you and us. One resort that is a 2 hour drive, has miss nude America pagent every July. They also have an annual Halloween masked ball with sexy games, where couples can meet other couples and will get invited by another couple or couples, for erotic play and full-swap of mates. Last time around, a petite lovely oriental woman came to our table and introduced us to her hubby, a 6 ft tall physician. They invited us to their cottage and we played, swapped mates and had sex with each other;s mate rest of the night. Private sex parties are quite common where there may be 10 to 20 or so couples. Husband and wife at a party like this do not have to play as a couple with another couple. Your wife may get asked by another man and she can play with him and fuck, while you get to fuck another woman, someone else's wife or gf. The excitement comes when you meet a couple that lives down the street from your home, and you did not know that they swap partners for sex. You have known the husband and wife, and, you always wondered what the pretty wife will be like in bed. This is your chance to play with her and fuck her, if she agrees to play with you-most likely she will be delighted if you are on good terms with her and her hubby. Over the years, we have met many delightful desi couples in India, all through personal contacts, rarely through the internet. And, swinging is growing by leaps and bounds there. Contacting and connecting with couples from far flung cities and towns remains a challenge. Likewise, there are very few desi single ladies in India willing to meet with a couple, stay in their house and have sex with the hubby. Hopefully, that situation will change over time. We have had the good fortune to have met a few unattached ladies, all of them through personal contacts, that were open minded enough to have sex with. We invite all of you single open minded, sexy, ladies, who enjoy sex to post or email us, so we can connect. We look forward to comments from all of you hot couples and sexy bhabis and aunties. Hope we have not offended anyone. |
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