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robnuotatore 55M

1/29/2019 4:07 pm

definitely no, at least they have a really good reason


pleagain 58M

1/29/2019 5:01 pm

may give them a second chance but ive been burnt so much


shoals 39M
19 posts
1/29/2019 5:05 pm

Sorry, no second chances. Period.

Ghosting reveals that he/she clearly does not respect your time. Ghosting also means he/she has lied to you. It would be foolish to assume from that point on that he/she has any respect for you at all. We all know where relationships built on disrespect and lies end up, don't we?

Move on. Find someone better. Let them waste someone else's time.


10timz10 106M

1/29/2019 10:35 pm

i realy feel like we all diserve a second chance


AZ60ish 65M

1/31/2019 9:14 am

First meetings are always somewhat iffy, things happen, schedules change, and especially if trying to be DISCREET, sometimes a meeting doesnt happen. I like to give a person a sex cond chance, especially if they are sexy and turn me on! LOL!


PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
1/31/2019 6:51 pm

Fuck no. I only ghost women after I least had the decency to meet them

Standards are people too.....kinda


aray2be 64M
248 posts
2/1/2019 9:21 am

Being harsh and unforgiving never ever leads to anything positive. Life is too complicated for simple up or down decision making


Celestaxxx 54F

2/1/2019 2:17 pm

It happened to me because I was using my phone and tablet for IM messages. The texts didn't cross over.


Trio6965 58M

2/1/2019 6:07 pm

No way, I have no time to loose, too bad.


snowey8 68F  
104 posts
2/3/2019 12:50 am

I would give second chance if they had a good reason////////


badboy3819652 59M
147 posts
2/4/2019 1:43 pm

my answer is yes but must have good excuse and a sexy ass like yours


Flyinghigh198 34M

2/5/2019 12:32 am

They don't show they didn't want it. So no.


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
2/5/2019 3:10 pm

No show means all the burden of the next meet is on them. I won't ask for a meet or go out of my way to meet. Best they can hope for is that I'll let them know when I'm at the pub and that they find me before I meet someone else.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


engcumman 54M
53 posts
2/6/2019 11:51 am

I think you have to allow for the fact that people's lives don't always work out the way they had planned. If shit has happened then them not turning up is probably not the most important thing and being difficult about it can make you look petty.

That said in this day and age with phones in everyone's hands really a message shouldn't be too much to manage.


NotDesper8Horny 62M

2/7/2019 3:00 am

Yes, but only if they give a good reason why.


gymbro2 30M

2/7/2019 2:56 pm

Move on one and done


CuriousCpl6774 56M/50F  
183 posts
2/9/2019 11:43 am

Our honest answer is, we’re not sure. Nobody who has stood us up has ever contacted us again. So, it would depend. Generally, we’re pretty friendly and reasonably forgiving. However, we would not make first contact with someone who stood us up.

Have a great day!


Dsidepo 36M

2/9/2019 8:20 pm

Yes depending on the back story.


couple4fun_STL 56M/47F
24 posts
2/10/2019 6:53 am

I said no, because not showing up is one thing, but no text or phone is not excusable.


Cumhookup69 27M
3 posts
2/11/2019 1:27 am

Well let me get it a try and take you out somewere


coffeeaddiction7 42M
13 posts
2/11/2019 12:19 pm

If there was a good excuse/reason then maybe a reschedule could happen but generally that's a no go. Being stood up is never fun.


cutehubby1967 56M
8 posts
2/15/2019 2:23 am

what a fuckiable babe


LazyDaisy2019 55F
17 posts
2/22/2019 7:28 am

of course not, same with last minute cancels


rm_59winkel59 72M
18 posts
2/22/2019 4:33 pm

Yes, I would give the person a second chance to explain, for what reason the 1st meeting never happend. Give the person you initaially would have met the time to explain. Maybe something really serious has happend, not like I missed the train in time or any other silly blabla reason.


Mrmster90 35M

2/23/2019 11:27 pm

you never know what happened


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