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Blogs > fun_in_siam > Confessions....

too hardcore???  

fun_in_siam 50M
5 posts
8/9/2016 6:06 am

Last Read:
9/26/2016 9:41 pm
too hardcore???

As a rule I usually dont write about other specific people, but I recently received interest from a couple looking to visit Bangkok, and the conversation was going smoothly until I answered some of their questions about experience.

I honestly described some of the types of encounters I had been involved in, but obviously without going into specific details, and explained some of the things that I found most appealing about meeting others.

The couple in question, or at least I presume the male of the couple, stated they are not interested in any kind of encounter that involved penetration. "That is too hardcore", and "you sound too hardcore".

Really? Wow! How judgemental can people be? ....with an emphasis on the MENTAL

Just because I have experienced some 'special nights out' with (sometimes multiple) other consenting individuals does not mean that it is something I do very regularly, nor does it mean that it is what I expect from every upcoming encounter.

Actually, some of the most enjoyable meets with other singles and couples have NOT involved penetration. There's something to be said about a flirtatious night out with a few beers and a sexy game of pool or bowling, or other similar everyday activities that have the possibility of leaving a lot to the imagination of all involved.

I know that people have different perspectives on subjects, but it is pretty disrespectful to impose their perspective on others and insist that everyone lives in their fanstastical fairly-land.

Since when was being 'easy-going', 'open-minded' and 'adventurous' synonyms for being 'hard-core'?

People - before you judge others, ask yourself why you are on this site, what you are looking for, and if are you being realistic? If you want to meet a single male to go and eat ice-cream with, you're probably on the wrong type of website.

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