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First Date Faux Pas.......  

MyInnerVoice 67F  
1205 posts
8/18/2015 11:28 am
First Date Faux Pas.......

When on a first date, what are things that your date may do that you think are distasteful, make you uncomfortable or things you think should be off limits?

Also, are any of the above things a deal breaker when considering a second date?

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MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/30/2015 11:26 pm

    Quoting 49plus20:
    I have been in dates that click and there little anxiety... It was natural, flawless and very sensual from the start... On several occasions we have finished the night in having each other for desert.... At other times I know 5 minutes in that things will not work out.
    Hygiene, or lack thereof, is a complete turn off to me.
49plus, Lack of hygiene is a complete turn off for me as well!

Hugs,
Voice


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
8/26/2015 11:01 pm

I have been in dates that click and there little anxiety... It was natural, flawless and very sensual from the start... On several occasions we have finished the night in having each other for desert.... At other times I know 5 minutes in that things will not work out.
Hygiene, or lack thereof, is a complete turn off to me.


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/21/2015 12:05 pm

    Quoting  :

IKan,

I used to think I was a good judge of character....but I have been wrong about several people. Some I trusted, when I shouldn't have. Some I didn't trust and should have. Guess that is why we are human.

Hugs,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/21/2015 12:03 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    yes....if they lied on their profile and I meet them (if I find out during the meet and greet) it will be a deal breaker!
Hi funny!

Yes, lying would be a deal breaker for me as well!

Hugs and kisses,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/21/2015 12:02 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Deal breaker for me would be someone who doesn't act like themselves hugsssss V
VM, I agree but how would you know they are not acting like themselves if this is your first date? (Unless you have gotten to know them online or on the phone)....

Hugs and kisses,
Voice


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/19/2015 7:04 pm

yes....if they lied on their profile and I meet them (if I find out during the meet and greet) it will be a deal breaker!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/19/2015 9:04 am

Deal breaker for me would be someone who doesn't act like themselves hugsssss V

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MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/18/2015 10:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi Kinky!

Egos and arrogance turn me off at anytime....but when it is on a first date, we generally know right away that we don't want a second, right?

Hugs and kisses,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/18/2015 5:14 pm

    Quoting Needaltlsomthn2:
    Being late, not even remotely looking like your profile, being "touchy" before you even remotely get the "green lite". : /
Need, Being late is just plain rude, isn't it? As, is the inappropriate touching. Thanks so much for stopping in at my blog!

Hugs,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/18/2015 5:12 pm

    Quoting  :

IKan, I love the creativity of your reply. You are right, drinking changes people and to me, drinking more than one should on any date is not a good idea. And you are right.....that first date is like opening a brand new deck of cards (but hopefully not the Go Directly To Jail card from Monopoly!

Hugs and kisses,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/18/2015 5:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Ripitall,

All very good points!

Thanks for visiting my blog, I hope to see you again!

Hugs,
Voice


MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/18/2015 5:00 pm

    Quoting  :

daytimer, I hate it when people don't turn their cell phones off during any meal....or at the very minimum, on vibrate (can understand if they have children that may need to get ahold of them). Thanks for visiting my blog!

Hugs,
Voice


Needaltlsomthn2 58F
709 posts
8/18/2015 2:14 pm

Being late, not even remotely looking like your profile, being "touchy" before you even remotely get the "green lite". : /

If you don't stand for something , you will fall for anything !


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
8/18/2015 1:08 pm

Biggest faux pas? Pretending to be someone you're not.

These aren't job interviews or popularity contests. There's no need to "put your best foot forward." When you go on a date, the idea is to get to know someone. So the only requirement is that you're honest and share who your really are.

As for the second date, if everyone's being themselves, the right answer will make itself known.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


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