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The line/ My boundaries  

oneladybrijit 66F
298 posts
10/21/2011 1:46 pm
The line/ My boundaries


I don't read a lot of women's profiles, as I am not into women, however I am into having<b> platonic </font></b>female friends. What I have noticed, is that if I do read a woman's profile, she tends to have listed something like one-on-one sex, oral, and not a lot else. When I view a male profile, it goes something like one-on-one, threesomes, bi, oral, anal, rimming, and goodness knows what else!

Why? Because, I the woman am the one who will have every orifice penetrated, not him. (I am not including those rare men who like being penetrated here.) It's all very well for a man to want to penetrate every orifice in a woman's body. However as a woman, I do not have to allow him to. Then you will get the man who misunderstands and will decide that he can, and fail to hear me.

I am making it very clear here, unless I clearly give him permission, a man will not penetrate any orifice of my body in any way at all. If a man has an issue with this, then he does not need to bother to communicate with me in any way.

This is an adult site. That means that here, I will see and hear things that I might not see or hear anywhere else, as the don't have access to it, as in those who are under 18, and again, this is an assumption, not a guaranteed. It does not mean that I entered the site to be abused in any way. Some have though, and they make that clear! If you wish to abuse, find someone here, who says things like punish me, or whatever they might say, and then make sure you are very clear as to what they mean, as they might not really mean to hurt them. Find out first, before you put your whole future at risk. All it takes is for just one person on this site, and there would be a few, to be "well connected" and when you go ahead and step over their line, you will suffer the consequences.

I don't mind if I am exposed to pictures of body parts by those who feel the need to share their pictures. We all have our own way of going about things. I personally will look at his penis, and think ok, so how many women have seen that one? Let's see, if one hundred men on average view my profile each day, then chances are one hundred women have seen that penis every day that he has been on this site! Ok, so his penis is very common, and everybody knows it. I don't want that one around me. Easy! Sure, it means that I have no idea as to whether it's large or small, and I might not like that when we meet. I am a grown up now, and can quietly communicate with him, as considerately as possible, and enquire as to whether he feels that he could satisfy a capacious lady! If that is an issue with me.

So, next time you read a female's profile, and all that is listed there is pretty much straight sex, think a bit! Maybe she is a woman, and she doesn't want to be treated like a toy! Maybe she really loves and respects her body like I love and respect mine, and doesn't want to be explored like a 's toy! Here, I do have to add, that not all women think like me, for whatever reason, and some are happy for you to penetrate this or that orifice as well, and that is their privilege. Just because I am not into every kind of sex there is, does not mean that I cannot be on this site. Nor does it mean that a man can tell me that I should loosen up or let my hair down, as in obliging him. NO! I do not have to give in to him, and I am not going to. What I will do, if a man does not respect my boundaries, is take the necessary action that people take in our society when someone crosses the line.

SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
10/22/2011 12:17 am

Does that also mean you will slap my face or poke me in the eye if I ask you to show us yer tits?

Believe me bonny lass, as far as I can see after blogging here for 5 bloody years, this place is all talk, all show and no bloody action.

And I will be the first to put my hand up as a serial offender on that score.

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


oneladybrijit 66F
420 posts
10/22/2011 4:57 am

Sir Teez, not sure why it's all talk, show and no action for you. Maybe when you ask her to show you her tits, she thinks you're talking about the birds she keeps out the back! I don't know about overseas. I do know that every australian woman I ever met had a pair of boobs on her chest, some larger than others, some not so well endowed.


SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
10/22/2011 10:25 pm

    Quoting oneladybrijit:
    Sir Teez, not sure why it's all talk, show and no action for you. Maybe when you ask her to show you her tits, she thinks you're talking about the birds she keeps out the back! I don't know about overseas. I do know that every australian woman I ever met had a pair of boobs on her chest, some larger than others, some not so well endowed.
But that's just the point bonny lass......it's all talk. Indeed I am more likely to to pick on a woman who would never display her tits publicly in a million years than one of those who flashes them regularly, only for the sake of outrageous irreverence and perhaps also taking the piss out of this website anyway.

Of course being male I adore tits of any shape or size but the even the most buxom of bosoms is depreciated by being on display for all the world to see. Now I am not sure if the same would apply to a woman's appreciation of the male appendage but for me it really isn't the size and shape that makes female breasts tantalisingly beautiful and exciting but rather the exclusivity of the viewing knowing that you are experiencing something that only very privileged few will ever see.

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


oneladybrijit 66F
420 posts
10/23/2011 6:41 pm

Sir Teez, thank you for that. If I say one more word, I will say something I should not say, so I will just


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