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Being shy  

redmustang91 64M
7764 posts
9/21/2018 7:38 am
Being shy


It is hard to admit, but being shy is a problem. In real life I find it very hard to say to a woman that I am interested in having a sexual relationship with you.... Rejection is a normal part of seeking a sexual relationship. You would think a grown adult would learn to deal with that. Most guys are used to lots of rejection. The exceptions are the very rich and attractive or<b> famous </font></b>rock stars.

That shyness problem explains the popularity of sites such as this. Much easier to be bold and accept the momentary pain of an email or IM rejection.

I think it is funny that some guys are so obtuse they want a detailed explanation as to why they were rejected! Not me. Please don't give me very accurate and detailed reasons you find me undesirable. I don't need details. A simple yes or no will do. In fact just a non-response will be sufficient. Don't waste your time and energy on useless stuff.

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