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Grant Me the Serenity...  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
6/2/2014 10:42 am
Grant Me the Serenity...


"Hi, my name is Gottaring and I have no idea what I'm doing here."

Seriously- no clue, whatsoever. I think I've lost my mojo, y'all.

Is there a strategy I need to be employing? Are we putting all our eggs in one basket, or spreading the eggs around? Is there an analogy that makes more sense than baskets and eggs?

I find it hard to engage with more than one gent at a time...I'm just not smart enough to juggle and keep the details straight. But it seems that if I chat with Joe and put Bob on hold, Joe flakes out and Bob is otherwise occupied when I come a'knockin. This is a notable change from the way things used to be when I started on this site almost three years ago...

Back then, I got so many emails that I could barely catch my breath! Nowadays, the locals are so used to me blowing them off that they stop trying, lol. And the class of local ladies seems to have improved! I have way more competition, lol.

Anyway, enough rambling. I'm typing this on my iPhone and it's not fun 😜. I'll add more later, but for the time being, my loyal friends, do tell....What's new in YOUR neck of the woods? New love? Old love rekindled? Kinky sex?

Spill the beans...😘

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/13/2016 4:36 pm

GOOD


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/9/2014 12:23 pm

    Quoting gunner4440:
    Welcome back! And do any of us really know what we are doing here? As to your list, well I did spill some beans last week, but I cleaned it up. Take it easy, guns are cold.
Well, I was seeing how the bacon jam I made would improve cheap baked beans and managed to miss the pot with about a quarter of the can. Cue me cleaning up spilled beans. Oh and adding bacon jam to cheap baked beans may not change your life, but it came close for me! Take it easy, guns are cold.

Take it easy, guns are cold.


JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
6/8/2014 3:54 am

Good to see you back!

As for me, I'm right smack in the middle of a loving relationship, with an utterly hopeless romantic I met through this site

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stings_2000 53M
129 posts
6/5/2014 10:14 pm

Missed your posts, glad to see you back and kickin.....

My 2 cents - take easy, be who you are.

V


buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
6/5/2014 4:03 pm

So nice to see you back, for however long that is.

I was just thinking that I was missing my Annual May Trip to Chicago and all the great fun we had.

Yeah, I'm still here. My blog is boring as usual, and I'm unattached, as usual. Means I'm celibate, as usual. Some call it a rut; I've taken it to a new level... lifestyle.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


urzorally 55M
740 posts
6/5/2014 9:31 am

Nice to see you back Dear! LOVE your gorgeous smile......and bod! It's the same 'ol same 'ol here, just hanging out day to day after my neck surgeries. Hard to get my body to move some days, but, still holding my head hi and walking this earth!


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/4/2014 9:11 pm

If I can find some money more $$$ SOON (maybe by NOT paying bills), I will be going to San Diego Bash.

Other than that, not a darn thing is happening in my life - and I repeat, NOT A DARN THING.

Welcome back, sweet lady.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
6/4/2014 3:04 pm

Welcome back! And do any of us really know what we are doing here? As to your list, well I did spill some beans last week, but I cleaned it up. Take it easy, guns are cold.

Take it easy, guns are cold.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:23 pm:
Spilled some beans? Do tell....

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/3/2014 3:12 pm

I'm still here, still quizzing and joking around with the HNW group
Good to see you back.
Private life drama baby...leave me out.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:24 pm:
Uh oh, drama is never good whether public or private. Hope all is well with you, sweet man. It's good to see you .

ak_bigbadwolf3 51M
2630 posts
6/3/2014 11:58 am

Hmmmm I am going north of the border to meet a few people who couldn't make it to Chicago last year, I am sure you know the peeps.

Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!


hornyguyMN 43M
16352 posts
6/3/2014 8:26 am

Wish I could say that things are looking more promising in my neck of the woods. I finally broke it off with the woman who I was with, I got tired of being treated like crap. There has been family emergencies and no sex kinky or not. I've even fallen so far as to join OKC.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:25 pm:
Not sure OKC is considered a fall from grace, love. Keep the faith and keep me posted . You deserve the best!

GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
6/3/2014 6:02 am

gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 8:37 am:
Was it your 'mane' meal? You must be full of 'pride'. I bet your stomach was 'roaring' afterward.

I suck at puns.

You claw out three puns and you suck at it? See, THAT was a crappy pun.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
6/2/2014 10:05 pm

Still here, sweetie! Lots of things new n tried, plenty of naughty fun!

Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher!
THINK PINK!


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:29 am:
I want details!!

rm_bassman3991 64M
172 posts
6/2/2014 7:24 pm

Missed you G-ring. Hope you are doing well
Bassman


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:31 am:
Hey Bassman! Good to see you!

daVinci58 65M
1364 posts
6/2/2014 6:58 pm

Simplicity... Complexity... Variety (somewhat of a mixed blessing)... Serenity... Some days yes, some days not so much... Exhilarating... Exhausting... It certainly hasn't been uneventful... You, always a pleasure!


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:32 am:
Your description sounds exactly like the last year of my life, lol. Toss in a bit of hectic time with the Hornet and that's pretty much my life.

Thanks for the email- it's nice to know I was missed . Xo

ak_bigbadwolf3 51M
2630 posts
6/2/2014 5:19 pm

Is still around and going to fire up the passport in august.

Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:35 am:
Where ya headed, Wolf?? Anywhere near me?

cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
6/2/2014 4:18 pm

Welcome back.

I said hi a few times, but figured you were busy with life away from here.

Hope your well and look forward to seeing more of you and from you..


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:14 pm:
Yes, I'm doing fairly well, thank you . I did get your messages, but I've been pretty crappy about returning them- my apologies. They were appreciated, though .

I hope all is well in your neck of the world .

MikeDmasterplan 52M

6/2/2014 4:18 pm

So first, great to see you back here. Hopefully you brought your frankness and candor (of course you did!). Second, love the profile photo. I'm not paying, so profile pics is all I got! Finally, I think there's been some turnover on the site since I was last active. I'm going to have to get the lay of the land, which is tough without the paying membership. But I'm willing to put in the work.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:17 pm:
You'll have to let me know how it goes with the non-paying membership! I imagine it's tough not being able to see profiles and reply to bloggers, but I'm sure you'll make it work .

BYW: I like your profile pic too .

thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
6/2/2014 2:59 pm

I miss you.. really really bad
Promise you will post more often... or at least pick of the damned phone and call me?
(fyi... asked our mutual friend the other day, thats how much you are missed!)

And sugar, you aint NEVER gonna loose the mojo... it might take a vaca once in a while but it never really leaves ya!

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:35 am:
I miss you too Lady! I promise to connect soon . Xoxo

GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
6/2/2014 2:31 pm

I ate a lion!!

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


gottaring replies on 6/3/2014 5:37 am:
Was it your 'mane' meal? You must be full of 'pride'. I bet your stomach was 'roaring' afterward.

I suck at puns.

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
6/2/2014 1:58 pm

I'm still a SMF, and going to the SDBB.

That's San Diego Blogger Bash hosted none other than mynameiskay... and in case you forgot SMF is Sexy Mother Fucker.

Thoughts from the Garden...


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:16 pm:
How could I ever forget what a SMF is? The acronym describes you to a tee . I wish I could attend the blogger bash, but things are hectic around here. Have a wonderful time and please give out tons of hugs to your beautiful hostess!

MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
6/2/2014 12:37 pm

Hey there GR. Miss ya! I've got a "I'm not sure yet what, but I know it's something"going on in my life. Oh, and I'm crazy busy. What else is new. ..

Swim...Bike...Done


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:18 pm:
Sweet Kay!! I wish I could attend your Bash!!!! I'm sure it'll be one for the record books . Let me know how things to with the 'not sure what it is yet', lol. I'm anxious for details!

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/2/2014 12:04 pm

nice to see you back. I concur mojo never leaves but it does get rusty. rusty mojo is bad. very happy that you posted something. miss you something terrible. as far as what is new, well you already know all that stuff.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:19 pm:
Not gonna lie, Spidey- I love seeing you on my twitter feed . But yeah, I still miss our tub time .

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
6/2/2014 11:56 am

Well I'm in grad school....oh wait, that's not new just ongoing, lol!

And mojo never goes away, it just evolves.


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:21 pm:
How's school going, Lovely Lady? We still need to meet up sometime when life slows down. Keep in touch and let me know when you might have a moment for me .

Bipanteez 59M
197 posts
6/2/2014 10:48 am

Howdy! Nice to see you again!

Same thing around here - same love, same kinky sex with her. meeting the same guy on the side on occasion - same kinky sex with him.

Not much changes- it's summer so we're outside enjoying ourselves more - with and without sex...

Nice to see you around again - and I doubt you've lost your mojo OR been out-classed by any local ladies. As far as I recall, you wouldn't be out-classes ever!

As my granddaughter tells me "Sharing is caring!" so it's you turn - tell me what's new up there!

Cheers

LT


gottaring replies on 6/4/2014 7:20 pm:
I can't even get one guy to fuck me twice and you've got more sex than you can handle. Go figure. Xoxo

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